Question for the ladies

[Veles]

How do I ask a lady to freshen up without sounding/seeming insulting?

Saw a provider not too long ago. I seen here here and there over the years. I was getting ready to dine out when I noticed she wasn't so fresh. I was so turned off I couldn't get it up. She even tried a little lip service but I just couldn't get past it so I just left after thanking her for her time. I don't want to stop seeing her. So how do I ask her to freshen up in the middle of a session without sounding insulting?

[Parttimehobbyist]

Not sure how do go about it mid session without sounding/seeming insulting, but I would suggest asking her to jump in the shower with you before starting session.

[infamousrock]

If you were ready to dine out and it went downhill completely afterwards I think she knows what the issue is already!

[ccriderridesagain]

If I were a Lady, I'm not sure I'd want to chime in
even though it is a good question and a Lady would
have a better answer for you. Other than that, I do
like PTH thoughts. So far Iv'e not had a problem
with the issue.

[tuckahoe]

I have only had a problem a couple of times and I just let it go. It is something that is difficult to bring up without creating an embarrassing situation.
It seems obvious that both parties should spend some time grooming themselves before going on a date.

PTH solution seems best, but you might not figure it out soon enough.
A shower together can be great even if you are both already fresh.

[Arboater61]

Originally Posted by tuckahoe

I have only had a problem a couple of times and I just let it go. It is something that is difficult to bring up without creating an embarrassing situation.
It seems obvious that both parties should spend some time grooming themselves before going on a date.

PTH solution seems best, but you might not figure it out soon enough.
A shower together can be great even if you are both already fresh.

Agreed, It has happened 1 time since 2010. Just move on.

[Fr8nk&Bnz]

Washing your ass isn't hard.

"Make sure to wash your possibles and impossibles". The kids understand it

[jan-w]

No ladies have responded yet. Hmm.

[Nicky Wayne]

Also the stubble is not a good thing. It might take 3 minutes to sick the ol kitty up.

[MountainJack]

Originally Posted by Nicky Wayne

Also the stubble is not a good thing. It might take 3 minutes to sick the ol kitty up.

^100%

[Zenovia]

That is disgusting!!! Some just don't give a fuck, and that is just so sad.
Hopefully there won't be a next time, but if by chance there is, then you'll know for sure she is just a genuine dirt ball who is showing you her true character.
Just tell the nasty bitch to scrub that whole area THOROUGHLY!!!

[Adrianna xo]

Personally, I would introduce a stem shower as a "mid-stay" pick me up, or change of scenery. Also ALOT of women in the hobby have BV and have grown comfortable with it of unaware. Many factors here, But I always though a steamy shower scene was HOTT, Pun intended!

[MJewel]

That’s gross and shouldn’t happen. I don’t know what her donation is? I’ve wondered often if you get what you pay for? But the BV omg! I hope providers out there are not letting clients do BB. Any potential dates/clients asking for BB should know that’s what causes this and IMO NOT worth the issues that come with that. But if it’s just a BO thing.. idk why she doesn’t shower.