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Old 09-21-2024, 03:15 PM   #16
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You think if she finds out that your going to Asian massage parlors that she won't figure out what's going on, or at least get really suspicious?
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Old 09-21-2024, 03:48 PM   #17
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Thanks for all of the advice. I absolutely love my wife and adore my Grands. I am driven here because literally she will not have sex with me. We are both in our late 50's . I've tried everything with her. Roses etc. she has zero interest in sex so I found this site through a stripper at the Ritz.
Have you tried talking to her about the possibility of you having NSA encounters to fulfill your needs? If she really cares about you she may be ok with you stepping out occasionally to relieve your stress, unless she truly despises you.
Or you could try holding back on something that she enjoys, maybe stop attending her pickle ball tournaments.
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Old 09-21-2024, 03:52 PM   #18
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Thanks for all of the advice. I absolutely love my wife and adore my Grands. I am driven here because literally she will not have sex with me. We are both in our late 50's . I've tried everything with her. Roses etc. she has zero interest in sex so I found this site through a stripper at the Ritz.

I'm a nurse practitioner by trade. If I am caught in a raid I literally will lose my license and have no way of surviving. So again thanks for all the advice. I honestly couldn't live in the hell hole of absolutely no sex. Just can't go to jail
There are probably nurses or doctors that are interested in side action. Thought about that opportunity. I do pretty well with strippers with OTC. Or just see established escorts from here or P411.
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Old 09-21-2024, 05:51 PM   #19
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Take her to the massage place with you on a couples date.

Otherwise, Cendell has the thread winning post.

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If you have to worry this much the hobby’s not for you
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Old 09-22-2024, 06:56 AM   #20
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Thanks Cendell. You are right. I worry a lot and perhaps I shouldn't be doing this. Then I have an meet with a woman that blows my mind. I'm absolutely petrified of getting caught up in a raid by police so I ask for advice and thankful for the words of wisdom here

Before I was literally about to end my marriage. She's a great wife(no sex) successful woman . Has created a great home. Helped me raise our children to where they can now fend for themselves and we have a few Grands.

I had a date with a lady. Had a great time then honestly I came home( bought my wife flowers) and had a real conversation with my wife about why we don't have sex anymore. She agreed to go to therapy with me because there are some issues(infidelity on my part) that she hasn't recovered from.

So yes, this isn't for me, and once my wife starts making love with me I'm done. Just don't want to get arrested before I'm done
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Old 09-23-2024, 02:01 PM   #21
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Thanks for all of the advice. I absolutely love my wife and adore my Grands. I am driven here because literally she will not have sex with me. We are both in our late 50's . I've tried everything with her. Roses etc. she has zero interest in sex so I found this site through a stripper at the Ritz.

I'm a nurse practitioner by trade. If I am caught in a raid I literally will lose my license and have no way of surviving. So again thanks for all the advice. I honestly couldn't live in the hell hole of absolutely no sex. Just can't go to jail
I’m almost in the same exact situation as you are. My advice: find yourself a few reliable independents. Rotate thru them. Less stress than going to spas or agencies, if you’re worried about raids. It satisfies your life but keeps you at a lower risk for busts.
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Old 09-23-2024, 02:23 PM   #22
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^^+1 sir. indies are safer. watch for incalls at hotels with crazy micromanagement, and say nothing about sex.
"what are your qv n hh donations for your college fund for your time only? i'm lonely and would love the companionship of a beautiful girl like yourself."
a da is gonna go, wtf am i supposed to do with this?
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Old 09-24-2024, 09:01 AM   #23
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Exact same situation here, and sound advice from MG. Find a few indies you trust and stick with them.

At least your SO is willing to go with you to therapy. Mine is not interested - end of discussion.

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Old 09-24-2024, 01:37 PM   #24
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"find yourself a few reliable independents. Rotate thru them. Less stress than going to spas or agencies, if you’re worried about raids. It satisfies your life but keeps you at a lower risk for busts".
This^^^^^

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Old 09-24-2024, 04:01 PM   #25
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I finally went to the Amp I was interested in and had a great time but honestly this hobby is complicated and hard to navigate. Had the opportunity to go to therapy with my wife yesterday and it was a great conversation. Things were pointed out to me that I had no idea she didn't like. But the most important thing is the love is there and as I said before I honestly have a great life. This is way too complicated and mentally stressful. So really I'm moving towards cycling out of this business altogether. I really don't want to be here anyway, especially with an incident that happened yesterday that was silly to me by a moderator. So hopefully my wife and I can come to a compromise that works for both of us . Definitely I appreciate all of the advice, this just not might be for me. Too much to think about and I have enough with my job and repairing my marriage.
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Old 09-24-2024, 09:58 PM   #26
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I finally went to the Amp I was interested in and had a great time but honestly this hobby is complicated and hard to navigate. Had the opportunity to go to therapy with my wife yesterday and it was a great conversation. Things were pointed out to me that I had no idea she didn't like. But the most important thing is the love is there and as I said before I honestly have a great life. This is way too complicated and mentally stressful. So really I'm moving towards cycling out of this business altogether. I really don't want to be here anyway, especially with an incident that happened yesterday that was silly to me by a moderator. So hopefully my wife and I can come to a compromise that works for both of us . Definitely I appreciate all of the advice, this just not might be for me. Too much to think about and I have enough with my job and repairing my marriage.
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don't sweat it sir. hilarious, considering we're both white..

and, wtf is even race-baiting..

saying that discrimination is a thing? who knew..

of course all vestiges of slavery are long gone..

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I finally went to the Amp I was interested in and had a great time but honestly this hobby is complicated and hard to navigate. Had the opportunity to go to therapy with my wife yesterday and it was a great conversation. Things were pointed out to me that I had no idea she didn't like. But the most important thing is the love is there and as I said before I honestly have a great life. This is way too complicated and mentally stressful. So really I'm moving towards cycling out of this business altogether. I really don't want to be here anyway, especially with an incident that happened yesterday that was silly to me by a moderator. So hopefully my wife and I can come to a compromise that works for both of us . Definitely I appreciate all of the advice, this just not might be for me. Too much to think about and I have enough with my job and repairing my marriage.
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Old 09-25-2024, 12:01 PM   #28
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don't sweat it sir. hilarious, considering we're both white..

and, wtf is even race-baiting..

saying that discrimination is a thing? who knew..

of course all vestiges of slavery are long gone..
I'm only going to talk about this thread. Yes , I was a little confused about a moderators stance on 2 subjects. Doesn't make any sense. I believe clarity would have been a more appropriate response, especially to someone just diving into this part of the world. In the grand scheme of things is it worth commenting? I don't believe that's prudent but that's solely my opinion.
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