Best way to send anonymous digital payments?

[chipper011]

So lets say I found a nice sugar baby on SA and she is interested in a weekly allowance instead of cash at meets and we're likely to only meet every 3-4 weeks. What are the options for sending her a weekly allowance digitally without revealing any RW information?

[paintedbynumbers]

It sounds like a bad idea. But if you are deadset I would make a dummy email account and link a paypal to it.

[chipper011]

Originally Posted by paintedbynumbers

It sounds like a bad idea. But if you are deadset I would make a dummy email account and link a paypal to it.

Yeah on the surface it could sound like that but it's not a lot of money and she's a real doll and a college student. She really doesn't want a lump sum at meets. She prefers a smaller steady stream to use at coffee shops and places to eat around campus. I'm fine with it as long as no RW info is visible. There is a certain psychology to dealing with many fine college women. If you pick them up once in a while, bang them and hand them a few benji's then she's a "hooker" and she can't have that. If you send her some money every week and visit her and take her out to dinner every once in a while, you can usually lick anything you want and stick most of it, if not all of it and that's well "just two friends enjoying nsa, casual sex" as long as money doesn't change hands then. That approach can open doors and legs that would otherwise be firmly closed and it's, a lot of the time, the legs that make you drool when you drive through a college town.

[onlycryptoal]

Crypto is ideal for this. But must be used in not easy to trace way. So no coinbase, ect.. she can receive in coinbase but i wouldnt send from it. Use a unlinked wallet.

[chipper011]

Originally Posted by onlycryptoal

Crypto is ideal for this. But must be used in not easy to trace way. So no coinbase, ect.. she can receive in coinbase but i wouldnt send from it. Use a unlinked wallet.

Is that hard to set up? I don't have any crypto other than a little in a Robin Hood account

[laserface]

Who are you trying to be "anonymous" with? Just the girl, or everyone?

If you're just wanting to be anonymous with the girl, Cash App would work. You can make your "name" on Cash App anything you want it to be. So you can send cash online to the girl without exposing your own real-world info to her. However, Square (which operates Cash App) will know your real-world info, as well as the girl's.

Crypto is totally not anonymous if you're using one of the crypto exchanges (Coinbase, Robinhood, PayPal, etc.) to hold your crypto wallet. If you want to manage your own wallet, you can be relatively anonymous, but you both somehow need to either exchange fiat currency for crypto, or exchange crypto for fiat currency in order to extract it and use it in the real world, and it's those points of exchange where both parties' anonymity is compromised. Plus, you kind of have to be a bit of a crypto geek in order to do that (and even if you are, it's likely that the girl is not, and the effort required to exchange crypto out of an independently held wallet and turn it into spendable cash is almost certainly more than almost any sugar baby is going to be willing to deal with (or even capable of dealing with).

The reason this is so hard to do completely anonymously is that any entity that will exchange crypto for fiat currency is going to be very highly regulated, and subject to KYC ("Know Your Customer") regulations to try to prevent money laundering.

[chipper011]

Thanks laserface for that great response. I don't care if the payment processor knows my real world info. I just don't want the SB to know it.

[yinzerpgh]

I had started an entire thread on this very subject earlier this year, but I can't find it now.
Regardless, I setup a cashapp account to share with a prospective SB. yes, it needs your RW banking info in the app, but you can set it up with an alias, and you just share that alias name with whoever you're sending money. I'm sure it's not 100% anonymous, but very difficult to get your real identity just from the alias.



Crypto is too complex for me, and I don't trust it, let alone trying to spend it or turn it into greenbacks.

[littlesinned]

Couldn’t you give the SB a prepaid credit card/gift card, and continuously replenish the card w/ amount anonymously?

[laserface]

In addition to being too complicated, crypto is also too volatile. If you exchange $100 for Bitcoin (for example - same problem applies to other forms of crypto too), it might only be worth $70 by the time the SB exchanges it out. Or, of course, it could be worth more than the original amount at that time - it's like a casino, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose...

The prepaid card thing could work too, but it would have to be the type where the SB signs up for a "permanent" card, after giving the issuer her personal info, social security number, etc. - like , Green Dot or similar . "Anonymous" prepaid credit cards can't be replenished - it's that whole anti money laundering thing again...

[chipper011]

Originally Posted by littlesinned

Couldn’t you give the SB a prepaid credit card/gift card, and continuously replenish the card w/ amount anonymously?

That's actually how I've been doing it for now. Every week I go buy a visa gift card and send her a pic of the front and back. She uses it for coffees and lunches. The one's I've been finding are not reloadable though. It's a new card every time with a $5 fee for purchase (not a big deal) but the setup is clumsy at best and she never empties the cards. There's always a dollar or two left on it. I would like to streamline the process.

[chipper011]

Thanks yinzer. I'm going to check into the cashapp thing

[Boredinop]

CashApp is a good way to go, you can add $$ buying pre-paid card and send to her in lower denominations that won't (hopefully) draw attention.