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Originally Posted by V31L
Prostitutes are better than gf cheaper too. Todays dating world is a joke
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it probably is a good idea to keep track. More importantly, to identify WHY you are doing it.
Tracking may help you figure out why. When you figure out the why, you end up with much more control over yourself and what you're actually seeking.
I kept track of the who, when, frequency, how much (rate, tip, hotel, gifts, etc) since the beginning. I would've easily forgot all the minor details by now had I not done that. They matter.
We all have different reasons for being in this hobby. If you're married, you may just see the time as pure sexual release. If you're not married, the time you spend may satisfy a need for intimacy or being around a woman.
Men seeing women providers can have a benefit greater than seeing a doctor, shrink, counselor, drug dealer, personal trainer, or priest COMBINED, if you know what you're searching to satisfy in yourself.