I have been saying the same thing for years, getting crapped on by all my haters because of it, calling me the YMMV king, ect. as if I was saying the moon was made out of cheese or something, Lots of the providers of today have let their service slip as they raise their donation prices. Granted, there are guys who do not mind seeing a provider who, in all her sessions, will basically go through the motions and lay there while he gets his nut. And usually, I can imagine the overwhelmingly vast majority of her clients are one time visitors because those types of guys are more interested in notches on their bedpost then getting a regular provider. The guys that do repeat with her probably have exhausted their attempts in getting in contact with other providers and she is their plan "Z", and since they do not care about anything more than not having to JO themselves they know that she's going to always be available.
It took me a long time and well into the triple digits of provider okays on p411 to find a handful of these working ladies ladies who know what customer service is and treat me like I am glad to be a man instead of a number/wallet whenever I am with them.
Then there are the ladies who say that there has to be a connection in order for them to give a good session. Now, let's just make that passing your screening and his respectful demeanor and fantastic hygiene are all a given. Ladies, do you remember that donation that you're getting paid? Well, I believe that is more than enough to give you the connection you need with that client to show him a good time for that hour or less you are spending with him, making it again, a value for his time and money. After all, isn't seeing a guy who under normal circumstances you probably would not give the time of day to, role playing anyway? As long as it does not go beyond her line of decency, self-respect and personal boundaries, the ladies who do care about what a client desires in a session, are the ones who get frequent repeat visits by the same client.
Of course, if you fill out your p411 profile and/or let a provider know what you like in a session that you pay for, there are some ladies who consider you a possible difficult and demanding client because you have personal standards as opposed to a guy who accepts the "go with the flow" mentality and hopes for the best, but never gets her 100% effort to please, yet, has to pay the 100% of her donation. And when you happen to report your experience, then YOU are the asshole, which is why it is rare that a negative review gets written, especially on an established provider with an account on Eccie or OH2. The general excuse is that she must have had a bad day. I wonder what would happen if a guy told a provider that the ATM machine shorted him $100 of her donation stating it must have been having a bad day?
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