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03-22-2023, 11:01 PM
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Join Date: Feb 15, 2010
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Screening etiquette question
Should one follow up with a lady after screening if said lady hasn’t responded?
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03-22-2023, 11:51 PM
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Join Date: Feb 3, 2018
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It depends on how you introduced yourself to the provider. If you follow there instructions, then I would follow up after a week. If nothing happens, then I would move on.
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03-23-2023, 06:56 AM
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The Grey Knight
Join Date: Apr 12, 2009
Location: South of the Trinity
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^^^Good suggestion^^^
I’d make the follow-up low-key, just checking in to see if she needs anything further, then let if drop. Sometimes I don’t hear back for awhile on an initial inquiry or screening request, and it usually has nothing to do with me.
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03-23-2023, 07:26 AM
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Location: Tarrant County
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Depending upon your availability, if you still wish to see the provider, then I would say at least a couple of days. Usually, the other providers whom you gave as references have not responded to her request so there's very little she can do but try contacting again. There is no reason for her to get upset or angry if you send her a text following up or inquiring status. If she is, then it may also indicate the impersonal session that awaits you with her.
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03-23-2023, 07:54 AM
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Location: Dallas
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I'd definitely follow up, but if they continue to not respond, I'd move on. Don't be a pest either.
They either must be busy or aren't interested.
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03-23-2023, 10:01 AM
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Bday 56yr young
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Join Date: Sep 14, 2013
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I would just send a text or PM and ask her if you passed screening
And if nothing back from her in a few hr's then move on.
You never know what might be going on in her real life
Something might of happen in between the time you first reach out .
I'm a TCB type of person so I respond right away, but I can ,as I have nothing to worrier about in my real world . But sometimes I'm away from my hobby phone and can't answer right away ..
Aways interduce yourself and give as much info she ask for as for screening.. really makes us jump and know you are for real about booking
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03-23-2023, 02:00 PM
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Professional Tush Hog.
Join Date: Mar 27, 2009
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I’d say a couple 9f days unless you have some specific information that it will take longer than that.
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03-25-2023, 07:12 PM
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Join Date: Feb 8, 2019
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Should one follow up with a lady after screening if said lady hasn’t responded?
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Was a specific date and time agreed to? If so, then you definitely need to if it's been more than 12 hours, especially if the date is drawing near. I might reconsider if it's past midnight local time, and before 7 AM.
If no specific date and time was agreed to, then I would give it 24 to 48 hours, and make 1 follow up. If she doesn't respond to the single follow up, I would abandon and she's likely a lousy provider anyhow.
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03-26-2023, 08:05 AM
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Join Date: Jan 28, 2010
Location: Dallas TX
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Should one follow up with a lady after screening if said lady hasn’t responded?
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She might got into her TV streaming, move on
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03-26-2023, 09:54 AM
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Should one follow up with a lady after screening if said lady hasn’t responded?
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By all means, yes. Sometimes we get busy with life and things fall through the cracks, especially if references never reply ... I think communication is always essential. If you remind me or reach out, I can let you know the status of your referrals.
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03-26-2023, 01:33 PM
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Join Date: Feb 15, 2010
Location: Dallas
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Followed up, and no reply unfortunately. Thank you all for your suggestions. I’m moving on
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03-26-2023, 07:32 PM
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Location: Tarrant County
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Never beg a provider to spend your money on her. After you text, call or email that you are interested and you get ignored and she does not respond, walk away. It is called self respect.
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03-27-2023, 09:48 PM
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Join Date: Nov 3, 2010
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No response is a response..the return on subsequent requests is likely to be worse.
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03-28-2023, 09:30 AM
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TCB skills are very important. By contacting a provider, you can pretty much get an indication of how those skills are. The good thing about a provider who does not respond is a provider who does respond, set an appointment and whenever you get ready and drive halfway across town to her incall, she ghosts you and leaves you sitting in your car in the parking lot of the hotel.
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03-28-2023, 11:09 AM
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Join Date: Jul 17, 2019
Location: Dallas, Texas
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Followed up, and no reply unfortunately. Thank you all for your suggestions. I’m moving on
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Not just the ONLY approach, but the BEST approach too.
Important to never take it personally, unless you're just creepy, manipulative or come across as entitled (like plenty of the usual suspects do). It might have been something in your messages or screening that kept her from responding or it (more likely) could have been that you're messages simply got buried and unfortunately passed over and the timing was off. If the provider in question is someone you're really hot after, you could leave it open to maybe circling back around after a good bit of time has passed. Maybe something like "Hello, tried to connect awhile ago but it didn't happen, curious if maybe we could try again?" - but there's a TON of variables that could make this either a terrible idea or the best idea ever.
There's no written formula or standardized protocol to any of this shit...
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