HELP ME! Am I depressed or Addicted?

[CAJUNLOVE123]

I’m grownup with the people who taught and showed me sexual stuff since my childhood. Now, I’m 30 and married. I’m not able to control myself to meet an escort. And with many tensions and stress on my head, the only relief I feel is to meet an escort… I’m not sure what I’m doing..

As I said, when I’m stressed, I prefer to see a girl. Is this kind of depression or am I addicted to sex? Or it’s a common desires every human has?

PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS 😐😐

[albundy]

I’m no psychiatrist (You probably should talk to one.) But from what I have seen and experienced, banging escorts is usually either to be able to do things the wife can’t or won’t do, loneliness, seeking “companionship,” seeking “variety,” or just being horny. But I’m sure there are other reasons.
Usually to fill either an emotional or physical hole.
For me, it depends. Sometimes craving affection, other times I just want to nut.
You may very well be clinically depressed too. If so, seek professional help. Not advice from a hooker board

[Art Lover]

Sex,gambling,alcohol,drugs and even food…..we can turn to then for comfort
I agree with Al…get an appointment with a healthcare professional who specializes in addiction. The good news is you see the problem and are reaching out..

[1blackman1]

Bang away brother.

[Lia88]

It doesn’t entirely sound like depression but more like anxiety. Once you find something that can alleviate things a bit you kinda stick with it that’s pretty much with anything honestly. That doesn’t make you a sex addict it just makes you human. I would try to seek a therapist for a minute to help with coping methods because it seems as though you already have a idea of what your stressors are or even YouTube has some great channels to help.

But most importantly this is a recipe I’ve seen before for eventual hate and obsession towards the hobby and potentially providers due to it seeming from your post you aren’t comfortable constantly taking this route as a solution to alleviate stress so please seek help and be honest with your therapist.

[superbd]

I believe personally everything results from childhood trauma. I am one too I have been in the game since I was 17 it's something runs in the family. I have done triples and homeruns a lot of the years. Don't know what it is besides I started young with a older women. But everyone is different could be anxiety , depression, not getting enough at home, variety wanting something different. But if it's a everyday thing to me u have a issue.. and welcome I'm not only a client I work here tooo

[Ballistixz]

Do you feel sad or hopeless? Then its depression. Do you feel a NEED rather than a want to constantly go to a escort as often as possible? Then its addiction.

Either wat as everyone has said you should se a actual professional therapist about it.

[1blackman1]

Dude you’re neither depressed or addicted. You bang hookers for fun and it satisfies you. It’s an outlet like grabbing a beer, just more expensive. You don’t need professional help, at least not a psychiatrist or therapist. Just enjoy banging ladies and paying them. I’ve been doing this for decades. And it’s still a blast.

You only need to worry when you start feeling hopeless and can’t leave your house and forgo activities. That’s depression. Or when you start opting to bang hookers over paying mortgage and kids tuition. That’s addiction. I seriously doubt you’re on the path to either.

[Kimberly Kisses]

You're only 30. Nuff said.

[Joe Blows]

What 1blacman1 said.

Not everyone who participates in this hobby has issues. “Everything results from childhood trauma” tha fuck? I’m not depressed, addicted, and suffered no childhood trauma. I have a strong desire to have sex and ZERO desire to be in a relationship or date.

[annie@christophers]

Originally Posted by albundy

I’m no psychiatrist (You probably should talk to one.) But from what I have seen and experienced, banging escorts is usually either to be able to do things the wife can’t or won’t do, loneliness, seeking “companionship,” seeking “variety,” or just being horny. But I’m sure there are other reasons.
Usually to fill either an emotional or physical hole.
For me, it depends. Sometimes craving affection, other times I just want to nut.
You may very well be clinically depressed too. If so, seek professional help. Not advice from a hooker board

BAHAHAHAHA

[annie@christophers]

And on the 17th day of May man went forth!
Lol

Xxoo annie