Why are you all so angry?

[Joebillybob]

Originally Posted by ntxguy

I’m sorry your safe sanctuary is having log in problems but please don’t bring your craziness over here. You need some professional medical help with your issues. I would be happy to refer you and your other BSC friends, that have been posting here today, to a doctor that might be able to help.

As well as point you in the direction to receive help with using the basic English language correctly.

Just trying to be helpful

EDIT - STAFF, Medical Speculation is not needed.

[almostfamous]

I really find some of these replies disturbing. I've always felt that my number one obligation in this hobby is to never make a lady feel unsafe or disrespected.

I've had a number of bad experiences with rip off artists, bait and switch photos, outrageous upselling, and just plain rude behavior, that when I find a lady that exceeds all my expectations, I want to be a repeat customer with her. What does it cost me to treat someone with respect?

Bella, I've never met you, but you have every right to feel safe and respected as you perform a service many of us could not get outside of the hobby. If that requires putting a few common sense rules in place, that's your call.

[ntxguy]

Originally Posted by almostfamous

I really find some of these replies disturbing. I've always felt that my number one obligation in this hobby is to never make a lady feel unsafe or disrespected.

I've had a number of bad experiences with rip off artists, bait and switch photos, outrageous upselling, and just plain rude behavior, that when I find a lady that exceeds all my expectations, I want to be a repeat customer with her. What does it cost me to treat someone with respect?

Bella, I've never met you, but you have every right to feel safe and respected as you perform a service many of us could not get outside of the hobby. If that requires putting a few common sense rules in place, that's your call.

But outing individuals with real names, addresses and pictures who have done nothing other than to disagree with her, write a real review or be honest isn’t correct behavior. If she’s been threatened or assaulted then she should do what is necessary. But being a protected provider does NOT make it okay to go as she wants.

[ManSlut]

Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

Mya is just mad that she has yet to find her blind and deaf millionaire who will marry her. Until she does, these are the occasional silly ass rants that will continue from Ms. Delusional on this board.

Actually, quite a while back Mya said she would be happy with a dude that made $70K a year...It’s on record here, I just don’t want to research it, someone else can, if they care.

This whore can’t even get an average dude to hitch up to her wagon, she better lower the bar and start trolling the homeless shelters. She may find her dumbass, marrying man there.

[DallasBella]

Originally Posted by ntxguy

But outing individuals with real names, addresses and pictures who have done nothing other than to disagree with her, write a real review or be honest isn’t correct behavior. If she’s been threatened or assaulted then she should do what is necessary. But being a protected provider does NOT make it okay to go as she wants.

For the millionth time .... The 'client' in question made MULTIPLE handles and used MULTIPLE phone numbers to harass, collect addresses, and no call no show myself and others. I simply posted the many phone numbers and photos he sent for screening as proof that it was all the same person. HE GOT CAUGHT! Also, this was posted as a comment on an alert that was already created by another provider. It's not like I contacted his job or wife for that matter.
(I did make a mistake by not realizing that the post was public and not in the ladies only area. Which the mods promptly corrected)


Don't be dubious and you will have no issues in the hobby. Us hookers aren't as dumb as you all seem to think.

______________________________ ________________________


"If you come to my location and do not park where I tell you to, the appointment will be canceled."

This was brought up because I saw someone posting sarcastically that they had better park where I tell them. Meaning it has been discussed in the Mens lounge lol. I can't see you license plate from that far away. My reasons are actually quite simple: 1: To make sure you are actually THERE before I give you the exact apartment number. And that you are not just a time-wasting troll. This has happened in the past, to myself and others. I may even ask you to shoot me a photo to make sure you are in the right spot.
2: To cut down on unnecessary foot traffic. When you park on the opposite end of the complex and wander around looking at the buildings: that draws attention to ME. It makes it so much easier for the client as well: "Park here and I am under the first set of stairs" ect.

3: to see if you will follow directions! If I can't trust you to walk to my door with no issue, I don't feel that you will follow my direction BEHIND closed doors.

ALSO ... If there are multiple providers in one complex do not tell me you are "Going to park by so-and-sos building and walk over." That is not what I asked of you.

[neighbordude]

I am conflicted.

I have seen Bella several times and liked it every time.
She offers dom and bcd activities which most providers do not.
Or at least she used to, I haven't kept up recently.
It is tough to find someone that can do both.

She made me eat her ass, wow that was fucking hot.

But I have to think with the big head.
I don't remember everything I read on the other site but I do remember being concerned.

If she outed someone for multiple handles or phone numbers, of course I don't agree with it.
That should be something she reported to the mods, not outing.

Here she has an explanation that is comprehensible regarding the parking, however could still be a ruse.

If a provider really wanted your license plate, there are ways to get it, maybe not 100% of the time, but it isn't impossible for a provider to be stealthy about it.

Originally Posted by DallasBella

For the millionth time .... The 'client' in question made MULTIPLE handles and used MULTIPLE phone numbers to harass, collect addresses, and no call no show myself and others. I simply posted the many phone numbers and photos he sent for screening as proof that it was all the same person. HE GOT CAUGHT! Also, this was posted as a comment on an alert that was already created by another provider. It's not like I contacted his job or wife for that matter.
(I did make a mistake by not realizing that the post was public and not in the ladies only area. Which the mods promptly corrected)


Don't be dubious and you will have no issues in the hobby. Us hookers aren't as dumb as you all seem to think.

______________________________ ________________________


"If you come to my location and do not park where I tell you to, the appointment will be canceled."

This was brought up because I saw someone posting sarcastically that they had better park where I tell them. Meaning it has been discussed in the Mens lounge lol. I can't see you license plate from that far away. My reasons are actually quite simple: 1: To make sure you are actually THERE before I give you the exact apartment number. And that you are not just a time-wasting troll. This has happened in the past, to myself and others. I may even ask you to shoot me a photo to make sure you are in the right spot.
2: To cut down on unnecessary foot traffic. When you park on the opposite end of the complex and wander around looking at the buildings: that draws attention to ME. It makes it so much easier for the client as well: "Park here and I am under the first set of stairs" ect.

3: to see if you will follow directions! If I can't trust you to walk to my door with no issue, I don't feel that you will follow my direction BEHIND closed doors.

ALSO ... If there are multiple providers in one complex do not tell me you are "Going to park by so-and-sos building and walk over." That is not what I asked of you.

[BLM69]

Both parties have to be careful and understand the concerns from both sides, this is why reviews were valuable in the old days. I usually park down the street and walk to the incall

[10lbsDangling]

Dallas Bella is a BSC dangerous skank, proceed at your own risk…

[Guest122623]

I’ve been away for over a year, just renewed my premium. This is one of first threads I’ve reviewed, and my first thought was, wasn’t that DallasBella gal BSC???

Well didn’t take long to confirm my memory. Hope she blacklists me!

I’ve probably spent 7-8 years on this site with virtually no issues with any sane provider or hobbyists for that matter. Unfortunately some in this hobby seem to always be in the chaos, buts always someone else’s fault, they are never the issue!!

[Swanlake19]

*sips soda while eating popcorn*

This got intense fast 😵💫 I can see where y'all are all coming from but can't we handle this a little less... Intensely?

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by neighbordude

I am conflicted.

I have seen Bella several times and liked it every time.
She offers dom and bcd activities which most providers do not.
Or at least she used to, I haven't kept up recently.
It is tough to find someone that can do both.

She made me eat her ass, wow that was fucking hot.

But I have to think with the big head.
I don't remember everything I read on the other site but I do remember being concerned.

If she outed someone for multiple handles or phone numbers, of course I don't agree with it.
That should be something she reported to the mods, not outing.

Here she has an explanation that is comprehensible regarding the parking, however could still be a ruse.

If a provider really wanted your license plate, there are ways to get it, maybe not 100% of the time, but it isn't impossible for a provider to be stealthy about it.

I saw Dallas Bella once about 10 years ago, maybe more. I had an awesome session. However, I do not think she told me where to park when I came to see her at her Bedford location (Obviously, where I live and my vehicle I drive have changed so if she kept anything on me, it is no good). I had such a great time, the next week, I contacted her for another appointment. Through text, she went BSC on me and I ceased communications with her, never talking to her since.

I had heard stories about her seeing a mod for amnesty against the rules, but that does not really happen, does it? Of course, after reading many hateful posts by Dallas Bella over the years (not directed at me, but just in general), I would not be surprised. Looks like OH2 gave her the means that she and other providers who out hobbyists, not because they are dangerous, but because they feel slighted is some form or fashion, and BSC providers are always going to feel that way.

If a provider tells you where to park when you come see her, there is nothing wrong with that if she works from an apartment as apartments usually have assigned parking. But, if you park somewhere else and she refuses to see you because you did not park your vehicle where she said she told you to, that is something to be leary of.

While gathering personal info for screening is a provider's option to do, after they see you and you are good to go, the personal info is destroyed. Dallas Bella, as well as other providers like her, keep the info permanently and when they feel jaded, they release it in the companion only areas. If you are good with that, go see here, make sure you kiss her ass, but it will not help as BSC providers will ALWAYS feel slighted by you eventually in the future, it only a matter of time.

[cage196]

she made you eat her ass? People do that????

Originally Posted by neighbordude

I am conflicted.

I have seen Bella several times and liked it every time.
She offers dom and bcd activities which most providers do not.
Or at least she used to, I haven't kept up recently.
It is tough to find someone that can do both.

She made me eat her ass, wow that was fucking hot.

But I have to think with the big head.
I don't remember everything I read on the other site but I do remember being concerned.

If she outed someone for multiple handles or phone numbers, of course I don't agree with it.
That should be something she reported to the mods, not outing.

Here she has an explanation that is comprehensible regarding the parking, however could still be a ruse.

If a provider really wanted your license plate, there are ways to get it, maybe not 100% of the time, but it isn't impossible for a provider to be stealthy about it.

[Cheburashka]

Originally Posted by cage196

she made you eat her ass? People do that????

Hell yes! There is nothing like swapping rimjobs. You should try it, Cage.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

If a provider tells you where to park when you come see her, there is nothing wrong with that if she works from an apartment as apartments usually have assigned parking. But, if you park somewhere else and she refuses to see you because you did not park your vehicle where she said she told you to, that is something to be leary of.

i pretty much agree with you coyote!

if a provider incalls at an apartment, there might be restricted areas or areas where you might get towed. once could risk it and ask her why. (*)

but if she communicates "park right in spot x" and then she cancels or ncns cos you didnt park right there ? that's a BIG NO GO for me.
(like BLM, i often park elsewhere in the complex or area and then walk to the building)


(* when i worked in NYC years ago, one provider wanted me to walk to a spot in front of a specific restaurant across the street from her apartment, then call when i got there. she wanted to visually check me out [why? i didnt ask]. i did, she said "come on up", i did, and enjoyed 1.5 hrs of brazilian delites in upper east side NYC - for about 250 or 300. we fell asleep next to each other after the delites were cumpleted. i woke up about 1hr later and left).

[miabrooke]

Wow!