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Old 01-26-2022, 05:53 PM   #1
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Default Taking the plunge with providers & clients

Guys - what determines that you want to see a certain provider? Do you feel like you need to run through every provider in the book or are you selective with who you want to see? How do you screen out providers? What qualities draw you in: looks, reputation, rate, location / availability, something else or a combination of each.? Also, when you meet with the provider you booked with do you always feel like you need to engage in activities (i.e. take the plunge) or do you sometimes feel that you are better off leaving it in your pants.

Personally, I'm selective and have certain preferences. I don't feel like I need to go through every name in the book although there are certain providers still out there that seem appealing. What draws me in is a combination of looks and rate (too high and I'm not interested) and what keeps me coming back is a good experience.

Girls - have you ever turned away a client after meeting them (i.e. you're not willing to take the plunge).

Feel free to discuss!
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Old 01-26-2022, 06:15 PM   #2
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Price first.
If I cant afford them then I cant afford them.
She has to catch my eye
Make a list of about 10 possibles
Try to contact and see who has the best TCOB
Then curse because I made a bad choice lol
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Old 01-26-2022, 06:32 PM   #3
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I have a theory
there is always something good about a person..so if a guy isnt "my cup of tea",i focus on the positive parts of him
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Old 01-26-2022, 06:43 PM   #4
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I have a theory
there is always something good about a person..so if a guy isnt "my cup of tea",i focus on the positive parts of him
I read an interview with a provider on the internet a while ago and I believe she said the same thing in terms of helping her deal with some clients. Thanks for sharing!
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Old 01-26-2022, 08:07 PM   #5
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Guys - what determines that you want to see a certain provider?
uh lets ...see

...maybe the determiner be a reasonably ...tight cunt an what ...said cunt be attached ta donts be a fat an disgustin pt ...riddled skulls an shit music lyrics tattooed skin monster withs a non ...workin flaccid penis

...now what seems ...ta be a ...determiner ...fer yas?
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Old 01-27-2022, 02:02 AM   #6
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(1) Looks - if I'm not attracted to her in some way, it's a non-starter.
(2) Price - especially lately, if too high then a hard pass
(3) Reputation - looking at reviews here and other sites makes a decision easier.
(4) TCOB/Availability - If unable to communicate or set up a date then attempting to try again is problematic at best
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Old 01-27-2022, 04:51 AM   #7
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Just 1 week ago


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guys theres be way ...too much negativity ons the beloved board
Now


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tight cunt an what ...said cunt be attached ta donts be a fat an disgustin pt ...riddled skulls an shit music lyrics tattooed skin monster withs a non ...workin flaccid penis
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Old 01-27-2022, 08:20 AM   #8
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(1) Looks - if I'm not attracted to her in some way, it's a non-starter.
(2) Price - especially lately, if too high then a hard pass
(3) Reputation - looking at reviews here and other sites makes a decision easier.
(4) TCOB/Availability - If unable to communicate or set up a date then attempting to try again is problematic at best
I agreee with your list! The only item I would add would be:

5) Location! There are some area’s and/or places I just won’t go to anymore.
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Old 01-27-2022, 03:48 PM   #9
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Girls - have you ever turned away a client after meeting them (i.e. you're not willing to take the plunge).

Turned away? No. But I have certainly made my fair share of men take a shower in my presence before we begin. I have a strict hygiene policy. If I’m expected to be fresh as a daisy, then SO ARE YOU! I require light freshening up before play time. If that doesn’t do the trick, I have absolutely no qualms telling the client he needs to shower before we take it further.
Some clients decline the mouthwash part of my clean up routine since they don’t want to kiss but it’s still required…I don’t want to smell your bad breath, gingivitis, cavities and smoke breath.
No schwetty balls. No skid marks. No smelling like smoke. No smelling like cheese between the folds. And you won’t get “turned away”.
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Old 01-27-2022, 04:27 PM   #10
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Turned away? No. But I have certainly made my fair share of men take a shower in my presence before we begin. I have a strict hygiene policy. If I’m expected to be fresh as a daisy, then SO ARE YOU! I require light freshening up before play time. If that doesn’t do the trick, I have absolutely no qualms telling the client he needs to shower before we take it further.
Some clients decline the mouthwash part of my clean up routine since they don’t want to kiss but it’s still required…I don’t want to smell your bad breath, gingivitis, cavities and smoke breath.
No schwetty balls. No skid marks. No smelling like smoke. No smelling like cheese between the folds. And you won’t get “turned away”.
Long list of demands for an obese over the hill provider, at least she knows this and prices her services accordingly
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Old 01-27-2022, 04:32 PM   #11
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Long list of demands for an obese over the hill provider, at least she knows this and prices her services accordingly
The lovely Lexi's list seems fair to me. Not sure why you gotta insult her.
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Old 01-27-2022, 05:36 PM   #12
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Long list of demands for an obese over the hill provider, at least she knows this and prices her services accordingly
Nothing on her list is unreasonable. We expect them to be fresh and clean..Its hard to believe anyone would even show up with a filthy stank ass and expect anyone to get near them.
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Old 01-27-2022, 05:45 PM   #13
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Turned away? No. But I have certainly made my fair share of men take a shower in my presence before we begin. I have a strict hygiene policy. If I’m expected to be fresh as a daisy, then SO ARE YOU! I require light freshening up before play time. If that doesn’t do the trick, I have absolutely no qualms telling the client he needs to shower before we take it further.
Some clients decline the mouthwash part of my clean up routine since they don’t want to kiss but it’s still required…I don’t want to smell your bad breath, gingivitis, cavities and smoke breath.
No schwetty balls. No skid marks. No smelling like smoke. No smelling like cheese between the folds. And you won’t get “turned away”.

mmmmm the story of guy almost died using ncall mouthwash has never been told has it. She was the target. But a client used it before she did mmm
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Old 01-27-2022, 06:39 PM   #14
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I agreee with your list! The only item I would add would be:

5) Location! There are some area’s and/or places I just won’t go to anymore.
Location is a major thing now particularly with the rise of crime and carjackings in Rochester. I used to see Lauren regularly a few years ago and she was ridiculously hot (imagine the porn star Elsa Jean). Her place with her friend Jess was on Lake Ave and that house was buzzing with hood rats. Lauren's attitude was like "don't pay them no mind." Honestly there was a time or two where I thought there was a 20 percent probability that somebody could just bust into the room and point a gun at my head. Would repeat with Lauren but would not repeat at that location especially now.
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Old 01-27-2022, 07:59 PM   #15
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Location is always number 1 with how dangerous things are now. I won’t see anyone in a sketchy environment anymore. Sometimes I look back at how many risks I’ve taken in years past and feel lucky nothing too crazy has ever happened to me. Not worth it for me anymore. But From there, it depends what I’m looking for…

If I only want a blowjob looks don’t mean much, only skill and how easy they are to set up/work with

If I want to fuck then looks are more important, mostly body. I won’t pay to have sex with anyone overweight. I don’t mind higher prices for the right thing as I only do this a few times a year so I’m somewhat selective. Rather save up and spend on the occasional good experience than waste money and time on a few good ones and a lot of bad ones.
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