BDD and Chica Bonita's

[joeykid7675]

Well tuesday was my b-day decided to go have some fun cause I was bored. Was going to go to Buck wild Dallas like normal but they were packed forgot it was super tuesday...

So decided to go to Baby Dolls really not sure why I went I never seem to have any fun there... You guys keep giving great reviews but not sure what I'm really doing wrong in that place because outside of getting a beer quickly no girls ever come up to me even when I go tip them on stage!! So any help would be appreciated??

After a couple of beers decided to check out Chica Bonita's, it was 10 to park 10 to get in and almost immediately had a girl grabbing my junk offering fucky sucky for 150... Did I mention I didn't have a beer yet...Well drank my beer was getting ready to leave when the dancer bought me a beer for my b-day I drank that one and had another while watching EURO 2020 on tv.. But the one thing I learned while there is you can get laid and you need to speak spanish..

[Jayhawk328]

Originally Posted by joeykid7675

Well tuesday was my b-day decided to go have some fun cause I was bored. Was going to go to Buck wild Dallas like normal but they were packed forgot it was super tuesday...

So decided to go to Baby Dolls really not sure why I went I never seem to have any fun there... You guys keep giving great reviews but not sure what I'm really doing wrong in that place because outside of getting a beer quickly no girls ever come up to me even when I go tip them on stage!! So any help would be appreciated??

After a couple of beers decided to check out Chica Bonita's, it was 10 to park 10 to get in and almost immediately had a girl grabbing my junk offering fucky sucky for 150... Did I mention I didn't have a beer yet...Well drank my beer was getting ready to leave when the dancer bought me a beer for my b-day I drank that one and had another while watching EURO 2020 on tv.. But the one thing I learned while there is you can get laid and you need to speak spanish..

When you went up to tip girls onstage at BDD, did you ask them if they would stop by when they're done onstage and they said yes but didn't end up stopping by? Also, how much did you tip the girls onstage? My experience is that tipping girls just $1 doesn't usually get them to stop by where you're sitting. I usually tip girls at least $2 or $3, but if it's a girl that I really want a dance from, I might tip her $5. Some guys will probably tell me I'm an idiot and I'm driving up prices though.

Also, if I have my eye on a girl and I see her walking around or sitting at the bar, I will just walk up to them and ask for a dance. Some guys may say I am a sucker for doing this or whatever, but I don't like sitting around waiting/hoping a girl will approach me.

But the universal suggestion from guys on here will be to tip your waitress well, tell her which types of girls you're interested in, and ask her to bring a girl by when she gets a chance. As far as extras go, I have never told a waitress specific activities I'm looking for, but I usually tell them I'm looking to have "some extra fun".......just be discreet about it.

I wouldn't expect girls to approach you at BDD, and I wouldn't expect them to approach you even after tipping her onstage unless you specifically ask her to stop by.

[pathfinder420]

During the day, you'll get approached quite a bit. In the evenings you'll have to go after them. And the real kicker about BDD is that the day shift is where's the action is. Fun at night is possible, but not like day time.

[joeykid7675]

Originally Posted by Jayhawk328

When you went up to tip girls onstage at BDD, did you ask them if they would stop by when they're done onstage and they said yes but didn't end up stopping by? Also, how much did you tip the girls onstage? My experience is that tipping girls just $1 doesn't usually get them to stop by where you're sitting. I usually tip girls at least $2 or $3, but if it's a girl that I really want a dance from, I might tip her $5. Some guys will probably tell me I'm an idiot and I'm driving up prices though.

Also, if I have my eye on a girl and I see her walking around or sitting at the bar, I will just walk up to them and ask for a dance. Some guys may say I am a sucker for doing this or whatever, but I don't like sitting around waiting/hoping a girl will approach me.

But the universal suggestion from guys on here will be to tip your waitress well, tell her which types of girls you're interested in, and ask her to bring a girl by when she gets a chance. As far as extras go, I have never told a waitress specific activities I'm looking for, but I usually tell them I'm looking to have "some extra fun".......just be discreet about it.

I wouldn't expect girls to approach you at BDD, and I wouldn't expect them to approach you even after tipping her onstage unless you specifically ask her to stop by.

Yeah I never tip just a dollar it's usually 5 if I really like girl more... But even when I do that and tell them I want a dance or come see me when they get off stage they never come..

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by joeykid7675

After a couple of beers decided to check out Chica Bonita's the one thing I learned while there is you can get laid and you need to speak spanish..

Come September 1st, you might learn you don't need to speak Spanish. That new Felony solicitation law will be hard to prosecute, when you know ''no comprende'', and little else.

[Wile E Coyote]

A lot of times at strip clubs, unless you are an old and/or fat guy, most dancers are not going to approach you unless they are new and do not know the protocol.

If you tip on stage to get a particular dancer to come see you when see gets off, so has other dudes. So usually, if you one of the first tippers, you are forgotten about after she makes her rounds on the different stages, and if you tip her on the last stage, she will say you are number 4 in line. Your best bet in the stage scenario is to just approach her as she gets off the last stage.

Another good avenue is get a waitress to get a dancer for you, but do not let her pick, tell her the dancer you want her to BRING you, not just tell the dancer to come over. Tip the waitress after she brings the dancer to you as well, never pre-tip.

I would never just walk up to a dancer not on stage and ask for dances. To the dancers, it sometimes smells of desperation that no one else wants to dance for you, plus, if she does sensual lap dances or extras during her dances and you try to get her just after she finishes with the last guy, I hope you like what his scent is as it will be there. I would want her to freshen up so she does not smell like the dude she was all over prior.

[needbbbj]

Yep tell the waitress to bring her over. If that doesn't work move on.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by needbbbj

Yep tell the waitress to bring her over. If that doesn't work move on.

Not saying that is not a smart move, but...

Does that not smack of a mild sense of entitlement? To beckon an Emissary to fetch your desired girl? Asking her yourself is personal, at least, even if you are #4 in the cue. Regarding desperation, asking yourself seems less desperate, than introducing a go-between to do the legwork. Seems to me, at least.

[Jayhawk328]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

A lot of times at strip clubs, unless you are an old and/or fat guy, most dancers are not going to approach you unless they are new and do not know the protocol.

If you tip on stage to get a particular dancer to come see you when see gets off, so has other dudes. So usually, if you one of the first tippers, you are forgotten about after she makes her rounds on the different stages, and if you tip her on the last stage, she will say you are number 4 in line. Your best bet in the stage scenario is to just approach her as she gets off the last stage.

Another good avenue is get a waitress to get a dancer for you, but do not let her pick, tell her the dancer you want her to BRING you, not just tell the dancer to come over. Tip the waitress after she brings the dancer to you as well, never pre-tip.

I would never just walk up to a dancer not on stage and ask for dances. To the dancers, it sometimes smells of desperation that no one else wants to dance for you, plus, if she does sensual lap dances or extras during her dances and you try to get her just after she finishes with the last guy, I hope you like what his scent is as it will be there. I would want her to freshen up so she does not smell like the dude she was all over prior.

I feel like boiling the ocean would be easier than all these rules you've / we've given him....

I'm just kidding. But just a couple of comments -

A) I think grabbing the girl as she's getting off stage is a good idea, but how would that be different than tipping her on the last stage if there are already 4 guys in queue?

B) using the waitress is definitely your best bet in getting the girl. I don't think it matters if you ask the girl or if the waitress brings her over.

C) As far as coming off as pathetic for asking a girl not on stage for dances.....I mean, you're not trying to date her, you're trying to give her money!!! Only a handful of times have I had a girl say no to my request for dances while she's offstage, so I'm not sure why the girls would think you're pathetic? If I ask a girl for dances when she's offstage, I usually do it upstairs, as most girls walking around upstairs are looking for guys to give dances to. Sitting at the bar at the top of the stairs is the best place to be. Now, with all that being said, if you approach a girl very awkwardly and/or act weird, chances are she will tell you that she's busy. And in your scenario of grabbing the girl when she just got done getting dances, so you tell the girl she needs to go freshen up before she gives you dances? For some reason I don't see this going over with her very well, haha. For all she knows, you could have been getting dances from other girls for the last 3 hours, so how does she know you're not smelly?

D) Regarding fat and/or old guys, I do agree with this comment. If you're younger, a lot of the time girls will assume you have no money and are just there to watch girls onstage.

E) Another observation is that the Tier 1 of the hottest girls at BDD usually sit with their regulars and are bought offstage, so you will only see them when they're walking back to the dressing room. If they haven't been bought offstage, don't count on them being available for dances.

[needbbbj]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Not saying that is not a smart move, but...

Does that not smack of a mild sense of entitlement? To beckon an Emissary to fetch your desired girl? Asking her yourself is personal, at least, even if you are #4 in the cue. Regarding desperation, asking yourself seems less desperate, than introducing a go-between to do the legwork. Seems to me, at least.

Not so much entitlement but a level of trust. The girl knows the waitress. I look at the waitress as a screener. If she likes you and you take good care of her when you order her drink she will be more inclined to get the girl and put in a good word on your behalf in the process.

So what I usually do is have a seat. Order a drink through my waitress and while she is getting the drink I quickly scan the room. I see who I want if she is with a guy or not. When the waitress comes back I give her a generous tip for the drink, tell her a funny joke and at then ask her to grab the girl over there for me. Or I will say let me know the funnest girl in the club and see if you can bring her over as soon as possible.

This has worked 100% of the time. I have had girls with clients leave their client over to me at times. That level of trust between the waitress and the girl goes along way in your favor if you use it right.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Jayhawk328

I feel like boiling the ocean would be easier than all these rules you've / we've given him....

I'm just kidding. But just a couple of comments -

A) I think grabbing the girl as she's getting off stage is a good idea, but how would that be different than tipping her on the last stage if there are already 4 guys in queue?

It does not matter about the other guys, you are there and want to spend money on her. THAT is the most important issue.

B) using the waitress is definitely your best bet in getting the girl. I don't think it matters if you ask the girl or if the waitress brings her over.

C) As far as coming off as pathetic for asking a girl not on stage for dances.....I mean, you're not trying to date her, you're trying to give her money!!! Only a handful of times have I had a girl say no to my request for dances while she's offstage, so I'm not sure why the girls would think you're pathetic? If I ask a girl for dances when she's offstage, I usually do it upstairs, as most girls walking around upstairs are looking for guys to give dances to. Sitting at the bar at the top of the stairs is the best place to be. Now, with all that being said, if you approach a girl very awkwardly and/or act weird, chances are she will tell you that she's busy. And in your scenario of grabbing the girl when she just got done getting dances, so you tell the girl she needs to go freshen up before she gives you dances? For some reason I don't see this going over with her very well, haha. For all she knows, you could have been getting dances from other girls for the last 3 hours, so how does she know you're not smelly?

If you see a dancer giving dances and you see the guy sucking on her tits/kissing her or she is giving him a HJ (no matter how discreet they try to make it, you can see her arm going up and down), would you want her to dance for you immediately after that?

D) Regarding fat and/or old guys, I do agree with this comment. If you're younger, a lot of the time girls will assume you have no money and are just there to watch girls onstage.

E) Another observation is that the Tier 1 of the hottest girls at BDD usually sit with their regulars and are bought offstage, so you will only see them when they're walking back to the dressing room. If they haven't been bought offstage, don't count on them being available for dances.

This not just at BDD, but just about any club. I am a Buck's VIP member so it is obvious what club I go to.

[SSDman]

Originally Posted by Jayhawk328

D) Regarding fat and/or old guys, I do agree with this comment. If you're younger, a lot of the time girls will assume you have no money and are just there to watch girls onstage.

Can confirm. 10 years ago I had to brute force any encounter if I wanted any fun. I never thought I'd be so glad to get gray hairs.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Not saying that is not a smart move, but...

Does that not smack of a mild sense of entitlement? To beckon an Emissary to fetch your desired girl? Asking her yourself is personal, at least, even if you are #4 in the cue. Regarding desperation, asking yourself seems less desperate, than introducing a go-between to do the legwork. Seems to me, at least.

We all know why other guys (at least any member here) goes to a strip club, and it is not to just drink alcohol as there are places that are cheaper in price.

What kind of idiot comes into a club and spends his time and money on whoever happens to walk up to him? Lots of guys know what they want and who they want to spend their money on. Besides, tipping a waitress for fetching the right girl for you is much bigger than the $1 she gets for bringing you a drink, and they know it!