i guess with this "thing of ours," going back to "la cosa nostra," in their early days, they had members shy away from things that occur in personal arenas. Now whatever you do in your personal arena is your thing, but fact of the matter is, whatever type it is, in the state of Iowa, it is a no_No, along with "this thing of ours."
So plain and simple, to both the ladies & gents, play it safe, don't get involved in a situation where things will happen. From keeping up with P.C Inmates or whatever was on the one local TV page, i've seen numerous ladies i have met over time from the old e.com, BP, STG, even SA that participated in the harder type and end up behind the bar. Heck, we've all seen ladies who probably once could of graced the cover of the booby mag, who over time dabbled in things, and then present themselves on the mug way less fortunate. i do recall seeing a lady from "e .com" and weeks later was advertising for trades with certain things, and boom, John Q. Law caught up.
I even recall posting in summer 2020 of a lady who dabbled a little to hard, and many of us considered her looks and services, and now, won't even come around the Midwest due to her own situations.
just a rant, but for both sides, play it safe, don't involve in situations that could harm all.
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