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Originally Posted by theonean
That kind of risk is probably to be expected and does not matter if its her fault or not, its just the nature of the beast and makes having a plan B necessary as pain in the ass as that is.
So if any providers want to call themselves plan B, that could be interesting.
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To me a plan B is someone I’m already screened with that knows I’m legit and Im aiming to see her anyways that can fill in a voided time slot quick if needed and available. This is usually someone you have already seen or someone who has screened you well and knows your not flaky.
A plan B is not someone you as a client has on standby in case a provider cancels. At least not for me since I don’t book hourly. Thats sorta disrespectful in my case because I book overnights and weekends they could have been available to other gents with. I have to take that into consideration. Still doesn’t make it right if she ncns me though. It’s blatantly disrespectful and twatswatting (female version of cockblocking) that pushes the act over the line. Taking a possible opportunity from another accommodating provider through selfishness of knowing she can’t show up or probably won’t. Because she has either overbooked or doesn’t want to keep that obligation.
IF A PROVIDER HAD YOU BOOKED AS A REGULAR FOR AN HOUR SESSION, AND SHE TOLD YOU SHE WANTED TO CANCEL WITH YOU FOR BIGGER MONEY APPOINTMENT WOULD YOU BE MAD IF SHE ASKED IF SHE COULD CANCEL ON YOU? Hopefully if you have self respect and she has courtesy or respects you as a client she wouldn’t unless you approved. But anyone that would allow that would and should definitely feel slighted.
When a provider makes a client a plan B thats not as detrimental to her business in the short term. Long term yes because if guys know or assume she’s flaky that’s ultimately their fault given the knowledge we have with reviews available and reports. Had I heeded my own advice here I would have booked her but respectfully had a plan b in case she couldn’t make it. But I would have also been real and told her that upfront. Same stuff I’ll type anywhere on board I would say to anyone’s face. That’s just me.
But also sometimes I believe in hobby karma, and if a situation falls through sometimes not having a session or a plan B works out better. Your already pissed, it changes the mood, your sexually vulnerable to stupid last minute decisions cause your not thinking with the right head and just the carnal need. I don’t want to settle on a plan, or a level of service. It’s either the same as what I had planned or an obvious upgrade.
Money is not the motivating factor or how nice you appear as a client in the grand scheme of things for her not to be flaky. Some ladies thats just part of their shtick. And you notice it review for review. We are a mere fraction of ladies bottom line as long as she has the amount of traffic that suits her. Hypothetically losing me as a potential client was worth the gamble cause she had steady business. When that business model doesn’t suffice, or enough people get pissed off and review or report it, or the reciprocal starts happening to them changes might occur. But most times they don’t because it doesn’t matter. Someone will pay and someone will accommodate.
Having a “backup” is the traditional sense of what a plan b is and I do concede and agree to that. But when we are working with verified providers (pros) versus ladies who are amateurs (non pros) guarantee you that lady you feel is your back up can’t be someone you haven’t seen before and sometimes ladies you know. Because they might feel suddenly slighted since you weren’t there first choice and pick. Might even resent being used as a references cause what have you done for her lately lol. I’ve had that happen before in the past. Or some may negotiate to get more money from you to your detriment since no one showed up and you now are in dire need of their services. It’s gets quite savage.
There’s no good way to let a lady or client know they are the backup plan. I’d just rather take my lick and be done with it. You post what happened so your fellow dawgs and providers know; or you let it slide while you hold the rage inside. Lol.
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