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Blaquehawk · 11-09-2019, 11:58 PM

Honestly. I don't think I've ever felt more unwanted and ignored than I have since visiting Phoenix. As a black man in the hobby I'm already pretty used to the stigma girls have against us but this is the first time I've felt like quiting the hobby. From initial contact and being ghosted to the out right "no black men" replies it honestly got pretty painful for me. I know every woman has her preference and I'm not owed anything but I just wanted to be treated like any other hobbyist, have some fun, and enjoy the company of a beautiful lady. Rant over long story short being black in the hobby sucks.

mirandalee · 12-09-2019, 10:45 AM

Oh sorry to hear this babe. I'm thinking about moving to Phoenix hope its not a raciest place hmm maybe I should visit first

Goddess Jezebel · 12-21-2019, 11:53 PM

That is truly unfortunate. I will be heading that way tomorrow & I do not discriminate on ethnicity only assholes lol. If your a gentleman, I'm your Jezebel.

Feel free to email me directly. Happy Holidays xo

carguy1989 · 12-27-2019, 02:59 PM

You appear to be a fairly new guy, at least to this site. It is possible that you were treated poorly due to you color, OR it could be that the ladies are extra careful and your lack of posts and reviews made them uneasy. I have had runs in different areas where I had ncns, no return calls and rejected because of my age. Don't get too discouraged... sometimes the magic works and sometimes it does not. Have you considered p411?

DMan6500 · 12-28-2019, 06:52 AM

As the saying goes "Get in where you fit in". If one provider or AMP turns you away don't dwell on it. There are many others out there who will see you and appreciate you, your time and your money.

Blaquehawk · 01-21-2020, 10:11 PM

I have but I'm not too comfortable posting that much personal information on their site, no matter how secure they claim to be.

Magen · 01-23-2020, 11:01 AM

im currently in Scottsdale

Blaquehawk · 01-23-2020, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Magen

im currently in Scottsdale

I appreciate that hun, but i only come up to phx scarcely. I'm generally in the Tucson area. I was just venting after a crappy weekend. The only thing now is that I've lost contact with my regular out here. I hope shes okay.

Sienna91 · 05-16-2020, 10:51 AM

To be honest I never understood why people don't see black men. I've never had a problem with them.

I think people who say that have a bad clientele in general because they're on the lower end of the spectrum just my two cents

I've always thought it was racist