First contact and beyond, what seems to work the best?

[bc1969]

When you initiate an encounter do you ask questions?

I’m talking about after the semi formal introduction of yourself and some kind of background and you’re in a situation where you know you’re talking to a like minded person and you think they feel the same of you.

Do you then turn your questions into information on what to expect?

I have noticed more often than not when it’s a new date that I  receive questions from the provider sometimes which I think the majority of those questions is how long are you looking for?

Sometimes when I answer that and if I’m not feeling “it” I can be kinda vague in my answer because I might be looking for two minutes if you’re acting like a little bitch, but outside of that I’ll say half hour or hour and they will usually send me a dollar amount to agree to.

Is that the end of the conversation? Or is there more that should be talked about?

Other than the obvious like what day what time what’s your address?

Is there enough information passed in say six text messages and maybe one phone call if you’re into that, and is that enough to go for it?

[Gottahavemore]

I usually greet with a complement cuz hell I like the looks of all women especially in some cheeky panties or thong but I like to see a little material with some of the cheek exposed lol ... guess a fetish I have!

But after the complement I ask if she’s available and what part of town she’s located

Text response ( if any ) I’ll get a thank you and where ever the location is and either a can be ready within the hour or let’s do this time ?

Reply with that sounds great can do and then I ask what would your donation for time to hang out be ? ( if it’s someone I haven’t met or someone I haven’t seen in a while )

I get the text back with fee and it’s usually off tot he races I go.

There have been a few that have asked if if I want a certain outfit or activities and will banter back and forth. I remember Gwen venom would go into a deep convo before the meeting and ask all kinds of questions to get to know your kinks and desires. That was a good time wish she was still around she would do things your GF or SO wouldn’t lol

Then there are the regulars or the ones you have seen in the past and have a good chat with from time to time and keep in contact with and they remember and know what you want .... send a text with someone you have seen quite often and there is no discretion so it good to get a text with I want to have your hard cock in my mouth right about now ! I’m like hell yeah I’ll be there in 20 min haha

But for the most part I try to keep it simple making first contact and if she initiates more convo I go with it and keep it flowing till the meeting if not I show up and have a good time

[Guest072020]

After much trial and error, this is works for me.

If she’s been reviewed, I’ll start with reading her reviews. I try to get familiar with her rate, her tendencies, where she operates out of, rules and if we have mutual friends.

If we do have mutual friends, I’ll tell that person I’m thinking to see her, and ask if there’s anything I should know.

When I initiate contact, I want to be ready to go at that moment if she says now.

I’ll do a short intro. I’ll say my name is X. My handle on Eccie is this. We have mutual friends, and they think you’d be the perfect person to help me with my project. Wondering if we can start with an hour consultation to see if we’d be a good fit.

I let them dictate the pace. Usually, the referral will put them at ease, and they’ll ask their friend about you.

Be vague and please don’t be vulgar. Discretion is everything. Be subtle. If you use proper English, it shows some semblances of class. I’m not saying you should open up a thesaurus and use big, fancy words. Keep your communications short and to the point.

As far as 20 questions go, I’ll let the girl control the pace. If she likes to text, then I’ll ask whatever questions that come to mind.

She might be business-oriented, while she doesn’t want to communicate a lot. It’s a case-by-case basis, and always let the woman lead.

[hotrix1]

Sorry it took so long bc, been out of the circuit this past couple weeks.

I happen to think that the more open you are to letting them know your wants and needs the better the experience tends to be. I don't hold back on what I'm looking for and allow them plenty of room to provide what I seek. Most of the time, the imagination of the provider makes the session either on point, lackluster or over the top. Then, I gauge their willingness to please after. Whether to return for more, or chalk it up to experience and write it off. Can't really expect them to read your mind from sucking on your dick can you?

Can't really expect them to please everybody now, can we? But being open to their needs also opens other avenues of opportunity, if not other holes.

BTW, has anyone seen OI812 post? He's skipped town or something? No answers from my PM's

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by blackbird_nevermore

I let them dictate(dick taste) the pace. Usually, the referral(DATY) will put them at ease, and they’ll ask their friend(pussy) about you.

It’s a case-by-case basis, and always let the woman lead.(Up to the point of no return, then I take over)

My policy? Fuck 'em, fuck 'em all. Take the best, leave the rest.

[duraman]

Back before she blacklisted me, Scheduling with Vanessa Ink was fun because she would flirt text with you until the appt date which was nice. Asking what outfits you like for her to wear and what you want to do. I pretty much reach out to a girl about her availability and schedule a date and time. I try to confirm the day of, a few hours before, when I am on my way and when I arrive. Afterwards, send them a thank you text for their time.

I am pretty plain when it comes to sex and have no real fetishes so I let the girl pretty much ask me what I am looking for and make no demands and have no expectations apart from what I have read about her in her reviews or heard from others.

When I find a girl I like, I tend to stick with her until something changes becasue you reach a comfort level with them. You reach it fast if they are good. I may wonder off the ranch every once in a while but end up supporting my regulars. I have 3 I see continually but I had to put one in the dog house recently. Hope we can work things out.

If the girl is new to me, I always schedule a 1/2 hr appt if they offer 1/2 hr appts. Sometimes the girl is not what you expect and you just want to get done and get out. I have scheduled 1/2 hr appts and wish they were an hour after getting there and starting the appt. I will most likely repeat and do the hour. My first appt with the Princess was for a 1/2 hour. I never scheduled another 1/2 hr appt with her after that unless she was busy with appts or didn't have much time.

Having Boeingguy for referrals and the infamous Blackbird reviews, I do not have to do much research on a girl besides that.

[bc1969]

Me too, don’t make a big deal of things during the texting and pm’s. I’m kinda plain but also but when it gets going I have certain things I want, but find them hard to express because it’s not something that I can say with a straight face—like “hey baby, straddle my face now” or “let me eat that p~” I can’t even type it with out giggling. Now my favorite position is the ff, Im pretty good at saying that, I’ll say, “come to the end of the bed on your stomach, I want to face f___ you” but it still feels wrong to type that out here. But I think a lot of it is just not knowing your limitations with new people, my wife for instance, I’m gonna give it to her whether it’s her thing or not, that’s fun. But, so while I can be an easy first date, I’m also very easily to be disappointed in being taken advantage off.

The provider should take control when the guy is submissive, we watch a lot of porn and there’s not much that we wont do or expect to happen, but there’s plenty of that stuff that you just don’t know how to say it, not a vocabulary word that I use, but the reward for that going the extra mile and helping your client with the words, will be very special to that person.

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by duraman

Back before she blacklisted me, Scheduling with Vanessa Ink was fun.....Damn, duraman. What the hell did you do to deserve that? Review somebody else besides her?
Having Boeingguy for referrals and the infamous Blackbird reviews, I do not have to do much research on a girl besides that.

Blackbird is really already a review board unto himself, alone, and in a class of his own.

Where the hell were you guys when I prowled the Panhandle for poontang?

[Guest072020]

Originally Posted by hotrix1

Blackbird is really already a review board unto himself, alone, and in a class of his own.

Where the hell were you guys when I prowled the Panhandle for poontang?

You’re too kind.

Back then, I was in England. I was drinking tea and learning to be a gentleman during the day, and indulging in debauchery at night.

A real life sort of Dr. Jeckyl and Mr. Hyde.

[bc1969]

Originally Posted by hotrix1

Blackbird is really already a review board unto himself, alone, and in a class of his own.

Where the hell were you guys when I prowled the Panhandle for poontang?

Great, you just spammed my topic,,asshole—thanks a lot

[sealsam77]

Haha. Y’all crack me up.

To get back in topic, I usually reach out a few days in advance when possible. I travel a lot so I usually have to try to set up my dance card for when I’m on the road so as to not waste precious time. I start with giving an introduction, tell the provider I’m visiting her area, that I saw her listing/review on Eccie (or another site), and that I’d like the opportunity to meet for a half hour incall/outcall. Then I give some more information about myself (my age, ethnicity, my body-type, and I let them know I’m respectful). If they mention screening in their listings, I will also let them know I have references available or my handle on whatever site they utilize.

After that, I let the conversation flow naturally, but if I’m doing incall, I usually ask for what area they are generally located. I sometimes confirm rates if their latest listing doesn’t mention them. I enjoy banter and getting to know a gal, so I appreciate when she stays in communication, but at this point...since I reach out a few days in advance, it goes radio silent. I then reach out again the day before or morning of to confirm our appointment...and again, I let the conversation flow naturally.