What if the tables were turned??

[SchnellerFahrer]

There was a similar thread to this a while ago.....

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...328&highlight=

I would think I should be a "middle of the road" provider, and UTR as much as possible. I'm a decent guy in good condition and appearance for my age, but not a super-stud Ryan Reynolds type. Would probably cater to middle aged women, as I don't suspect younger hotties would pay for a guy in his 50's.

again - for the things I'd do:

Manage appointments VERY professionally. NO NCNS or other stupidity like this. be on time, every time. Followup in a professional time and manner. NO GHOSTING.

Immaculate appearance, behavior, grooming, etc. Take lessons in manners, Etiquette, making drinks, food, eating, dressing, in other words - be a 100% gentleman. Maintain my fitness, grooming, incall location, etc.

Entire package - not just show up for a session. Get to know her, perhaps attend an event, dinner or activity beforehand, treat her like the woman/lady she is, and embrace her entire mental (her Mind) and physical traits and desires. If she wanted to attend another venue or event - discuss it, and try to accommodate her needs. Customer service!!

Performance - ask what she wants/needs, and cater to her the best I can. I pride myself on DATY and fulfilling the entire package, and do my best to do so.

Followup- Don't ghost her. Thank her for her time and be gracious. Send a thank you gift or note, and ensure to remember her birthdays, special event/occasions, or other niceties that are good to remember.

Touch base! Proactively touch base to see how she's doing, and be sincere about it, not just looking for another appointment. Treat her like a friend and/or a Lover, not just a wandering soul with some $.

Be Safe - As always, safe practices in screening, activities, and otherwise. Be reasonable, and only work with good clients who are on the same mindset.

Now having said all that - realistically, I could do (almost) everything on this and other lists/posts, with the exception of longevity, I'm not blessed like some guys who can pound away for extended periods of time.

[SchnellerFahrer]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Guys are visual creatures....unless you are popping supplements every day most would not be "UP" for the challenge. It is a tad different for ladies.

Not me (I think/hope). When I'm in a IRL relationship, it's all day/every day, multiple times a day. My former g/friend and I had an inside joke "All it takes is to Walk into the Door". We were insatiable.

Now of course, there is that thing - attractiveness (or not) to each other. One other guy (don't recall his username) posted a perfect example: Imagine you had to bang the first lady you see walking into a WalMart, as you never know what's going to show up at your door.

[Guest122922]

Originally Posted by SchnellerFahrer

Manage appointments VERY professionally. ...read on
Immaculate appearance, behavior, grooming, etc. ...read on
Entire package...read on
Performance ...read on
Followup- Don't ghost her ... read on
Touch base! Proactively ... read on
Be Safe ... read on
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Wow! SF, your enthusiasm is commendable!
Many of what you mentioned are a must anyways for us gals.

Reality is however, to maintain that kind of attention, referring to:

"get to know her, perhaps attend an event, dinner or activity beforehand"
"embrace her entire mental ...and physical traits and desires"
"Send a thank you gift or note, and ensure to remember her birthday"
"touch base to see how she's doing"

...to each and every client we encounter is impossible.
I guess that's why ATF's come into the picture.

Altho, you CAN choose carefully and screen to the hilt of your preferences (ie; personal net worth, background, social circles, etc).
That being said, you should charge $1,000 minimum per hour and probably a 3hr mandatory time spent for every encounter.
Unfortunately, our ATF's don't normally fall into that category.

The outline you presented is very attractive, sounds more like pursuing a RW partner.
No doubt would definitely work!

Hugs!
T

[SchnellerFahrer]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Wow! SF, your enthusiasm is commendable!...….
...to each and every client we encounter is impossible.
I guess that's why ATF's come into the picture.
……...
The outline you presented is very attractive, sounds more like pursuing a RW partner.
No doubt would definitely work!

Hugs!
T

Thanks Torre! I could and would do this if I were a Provider, I'll tell you why...…

I believe VERY strongly about Mutual respect and Funtime. Anyone who knows me personally will say that I am organized, respectful, and very conscientious of others' time, feelings, and enjoying time together. I was raised that way, so I consider this normal, and treat all my friends, family, and close relationships in this way.

My ATF's (you ladies know who you are, if you are reading this! *wink*) are treated in this manner by myself, as I adore their time, personality, and having a blast together.

I am the same way in other venues, such as Work, Personal, Sports, Hobbies, etc - I grew up learning how to respect and treat people right, and - I'm moral and ethical enough and intelligent enough to see, understand, and respect those feelings with others.

I'll get off my high horse now, I don't want to sound like an over-confident jackass, but I DO know how to treat women. (all people, really). I would especially do that, if I were on the other side, so to speak.

[pyramider]

I would be more busy than I am right now... The ladies love my knowledge of the taint, and my 1.3" of dangling death.

[mtabsw]

Every time I have this fantasy, I go to Walmart. I take a look at the FIRST TEN women I see, and imagine HAVING to lick every part they want for as long as they want and fuck them senseless. All of this REGARDLESS of their age, size, hygiene and ability to gargle my swim team.

I'm not talking about my normal for me, one and done fuck - I'm talking about getting them to a shuddering, eyes rolled back, screaming orgasm. And then dealing with their insistence on round 2.