fetishes?

[sue_nami]

There are so many fetishes out there. Just today I had a fun afternoon where I just loved on and stroked his armpits. Super light touching and stroking his arm pits drove him wild. It was so fun and sexy to make him so happy. My fetishes are squirting and pegging and combination of that is very hot to me. I am also a voyeur and exhibitionist ( surprised right? LOL). What fetishes do you enjoy? Have you ever tried the super light touch, stroking all over sort of play for extended periods of time before? I do enjoy some kink with my playtime and wonder about y'all's kink o meter. what kinky stuff do you like? Have you gotten more kinky as you got older? Let's talk kinky...ohhh dirty talk...I like that too.

[winn dixie]

Another thread ?? Advertising your menu!!

[ztonk]

Sensory deprivation and temperature play (ice cubes, candle wax) are fun things to try, too.

[Kickrocks]

How desensitized to sex do you have to get to have a need for fetishes? I wonder if its because the easy access to porn via the internet.


How crazy will the fetishes be 20 or 30 years from now?

[sue_nami]

au contraire. I think fetishes makes the sex even more sensitized and special. it is catering to your own special secret desires and very joyful to be teased in just the exact way you like.

[Kickrocks]

If I'm with a hot lady, there's no need to have to spice it up.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by sue_nami

au contraire. I think fetishes makes the sex even more sensitized and special. it is catering to your own special secret desires and very joyful to be teased in just the exact way you like.

Anything that makes you a buck right? You are a prostitute advertising her menu in these threads.

(staff edit; z)

[sue_nami]

Yep, kickrocks everyone has their own deal and I am glad you have yours. there is no accounting for personal taste and desires. In the big picture, that is what makes eccie so cool, it is like a smorgasbord of choices and options and everyone can find exactly what they want and need. it does no good to belittle other's choices or desires because we are all different and we should celebrate that. Viva la Difference.

[Kickrocks]

Who belittled you? Guess I'm saying my fetish is hot chick, it is becoming more scarce now days.

[sue_nami]

not saying you did hun, I was just saying in a general the way, that the way some folks here jump on those who are different does no good. there will always be all kinds of people seeking all kinds of fun and a live and let live attitude makes it all go more smoothly. tolerance and acceptance of a diversity of people are goals I think eccie is trying to embrace and i am all for it. You know, everyone's definition of a hot chick is quite different. a ts girl is a hot chick to some guys here and we should be tolerant of those who are different than us and be respectful of everyone, regardless of their different tastes than our own. Hugs and an olive branch of peace baby

[Kickrocks]

[beamereater]

Originally Posted by sue_nami

There are so many fetishes out there. Just today I had a fun afternoon where I just loved on and stroked his armpits. Super light touching and stroking his arm pits drove him wild. It was so fun and sexy to make him so happy. My fetishes are squirting and pegging and combination of that is very hot to me. I am also a voyeur and exhibitionist ( surprised right? LOL). What fetishes do you enjoy? Have you ever tried the super light touch, stroking all over sort of play for extended periods of time before? I do enjoy some kink with my playtime and wonder about y'all's kink o meter. what kinky stuff do you like? Have you gotten more kinky as you got older? Let's talk kinky...ohhh dirty talk...I like that too.

I'm so fucking ticklish this would probably kill me.

[Little Monster]

Originally Posted by Kickrocks

How desensitized to sex do you have to get to have a need for fetishes? I wonder if its because the easy access to porn via the internet.


How crazy will the fetishes be 20 or 30 years from now?

I'm siding with Sue on this one. Fetishes are a gift not a flaw. If you don't have any then I feel sorry for you

[Dev Null]

Fetishes have been around much longer than internet porn, but maybe they are more mainstream now because of all the fetishes in internet porn. Maybe there is a bit of monkey see monkey do, but maybe it's just discovering that you have a taste for taboo. Or maybe it just looks like a lot of fun.

My go-to lately is munching a woman's ass, but not every woman enjoys that. I told one of my regulars, "Maybe you don't want to kiss me now because you know where my mouth has been." She said, "Well, we do clean up for you," and I said, "Yeah but I'm hoping you missed a spot." She said, "You're dirty. I like that." I was delighted.

The whole GFE thing might be partly a fetish for kissing, which was once taboo in the sex-worker community. Not all gals do that even today.

I also like electrostim, but I've never done that in a session. I have a prostate attachment that makes me feel like a bull being milked for semen. I just use it for personal play, though, and I don't know if I'd ever let someone else at the controls. It would have to be someone that I really trusted, and that level of trust might be its own kind of kink.

Maybe some of these things don't seem natural because they're not practiced in the animal kingdom. You never see animals using condoms either. Sometimes we can't get off the usual way because the cover limits stimulation to the fun places, but there are other ways to have fun.

At the moment of truth, Mr. Happy doesn't really care if it's a kitty, mouth, hands, feet, or what have you. It's all fun to him, and any other concerns are all in our big heads. Kink just adds tension to the build-up, and that can be a huge turn-on.

[sue_nami]

Wow, thanks for that well thought and interesting post Dev. Fetishes are as old as sex. they are varied and different across cultures but they are indeed ubiquitous across the world.


mmmm yea, I like E-stim as a top and enjoy offering that option. I'll tell you what, electro play really triggers some folks to a higher sexual plane. the violet wand makes some people cum their brains out and repels others. I do not like it on me one bit but love to drive someone wild with it. It is a real panty dropper at a party. you either love it or hate it but not much in between.


you are so right about the points you made here. kink is the whipped creme and cherry on top of an already delicious banana split. thanks for contributing.