Romance in the Hobby, advice from the ladies plz

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

That’s her job to make u feel that way.

With that being said romance is something that seems to have been lost in the hobby over the past few years. Even in my bp and Craigslist days my Incall was always full of fresh flowers. Guys would bring thoughtful gifts cards ect. At one point I shared an Incall with two other ladies and guys would always come and bring us all lunch coffee or other goodies just to be nice. They would read our showcase and bring our favorite drinks or perfume. Oh and sometimes they would even tip (shock face) Now days those guys would be called suckers and stupid on this board.

I really miss those days.

I still have a few good guys who haven’t lost the romance (y’all know who you are)

I really do appreciate those clients.

It's a rarity to get a client or two who actually want to the counter the GFE experience with the BFE. I usually go all out of my way to provide an extraordinary GFE experience (always dressed to the 9's, candles lit, two wine glasses out) but gents these days just want to fuck and go.

Which, there's nothing wrong with that as I've stop advertising GFE (it's too emotionally taxing). On the other hand, I'd rather do the aforementioned with clients who actually desire and request that kind of experience.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by theone7885

I know since we all are jaded cynics that this is kinda poo pood but I think it may have happened to me. We just seem to fit each others tastes and from what she said, on face value, she is interested to. I'm just not very good and readying social queues but I'm really hoping this is real, I really like this lady. I'm just don't know to take it on face value or not. Ladies, your thoughts?

I'm not going to do a review either, it just doesn't feel right, not sure how to express it. I felt a connection.

Don't try to make things bigger than what they really are. She is doing her job, and you are paying her.

[Poppa_Viagra]

Playing with fire, dude.
Get feelings, get gone.
Lessonn in this story:
Best friend... (RIP) fell in love with a coke-snorting total 10 hooker.
She gave him a sob story about getting up to OKC to see her dying mother.
He rented her a car with his company Discover.
Surprise, she disappeared for a week or 10 days, then called him needing cash.
He told her he needed the car back. Crickets.
He finally turned it in as stolen.
Cops figured it out by the hooker's priors.
FBI knew which chop shop to check.
They recovered the unibody and 2 or 3 hubcaps.
Insurance denied the claim (third party),
He got fired.
He got sued.
He got divorced and lost everything except the dog that his wife hated.
He married a fat ugly woman for a place to stay.
Finally he had a heart attack out in the carport, fat ugly woman waited for him to die before she called 911.
There is no moral to the story

[PetrusMaximus]

Dude, man, it's OK to feel good about the experience.

It is what I feel as well.

When she rides on me, that feels awesome. No problem with that, the connection is there, for sure.

Just like what they say: if a tree falls in the forest with no one around, does it make a sound?

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Not being cynical, but 99 times out of 100, it's just an illusion. Escorts are selling a fantasy and she apparently is really good at her job.

Do yourself a favor and don't get attached, your pocketbook will thank you. And imo, you should write a review. It's the best way to help her business, especially with the holidays coming up.

Very true. All providers advertise in one form or fashion that they are nymphos, do the best GFE, ect., but there is a very big difference between advertising to get the johns in the door and actually doing what they say. And that difference is her being an ATF with lots of steady repeat clients due to those skills. And as Jules said, the above and beyond gifts will likely accompany those guys when they set appointments.

However, I can also see the perspective of the provider that goes through the motions or worse BCD because there are some guys whose elevator does not go all the way to the top, realizing that this is a business first. So, when a provider makes those hobbyists feel special and glad to be a man, those particular guys think she really likes him and eventually becomes her stalker.

It does become a sticky situation in the fact that the first time a provider meets a hobbyist for a session, it is a hard challenge to be passionate and romantic with a guy she met 5 minutes ago, but as the old saying goes, you never get a second chance to make a first impression and if she does not make a good one, there will probably not be a second time. Hence the difficult situation.

Originally Posted by TheOracle

See if she wants to spend time w/ you without you paying for it. If not, you probably have your answer. Lol.

Yep, no better way to see if the feeling is mutual.