To Write...or Not to Write...that is the question

[Grace Preston]

One No will not make most women refuse to see you. The only way that no reviews influence me is if I see just a huge % of No reviews... or if I see a No review that just looks flat out vindictive on the surface. Keep it factual, don't make a shitbag topic line, and state your case without rhetoric or emotion... that's a proper No.

[milfy2002]

There are always three sides to the story, I say write the NO review and then wait for the rebuttal to come out.

This way you will regain your ROS status to be able to get helpful behind the scenes info to use when choosing your next lady, plus if it was "something you did" you (and the rest of ECCIE) will be made aware if it and be able to correct the action in future sessions. OR not lol.

[Laura Lynn]

If you didn't do your research or if you read her reviews and you knew what you were getting, then you should not write a no. Maybe write "she's wasn't for me" in the recommendation. It's not a no or a yes.

However, if her previous reviews all say one thing and you got a service that was different, then by all means you should write a no.

1 "no" isn't going to kill your hobby and it won't kill hers either. Maybe it's just me, but the terminology a gent uses in the description (and his overall board presence) is way more important than the number or yes's or no's he gives.

If you're worried about WK's jumping to her defense and bashing you, maybe post on TER so no comments can be made. Just a thought.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Gottahavit55

So Wile, a lady’s listed menu means nothing? Do u have to get in writing what u seek out of a session? I generally send the ladies a profile of myself, delineating what i lke, n describe myself. I i only visit ladies whose menu i like. And if it had YMMV, i bypass.

To be clear, I'm requesting ur opinion on whether to write the review (or not), not trying to determine if it was a “no” or negative session.

Thx for ur feedback

As you have said in the above quote, if you do not like her listed menu, then you would not have contacted her in the first place, right? A provider's menu of services is usually listed on her showcase/p411 profile/ad, so that is the majority of writing you need when determining to see her and spend your money or not. If it is not listed, ask her.

You are totally spot on in post #4, about a provider getting the same donation then choosing to be YMMV with her services. The last time I looked, all accepted money spends the same, so one guy being able to have a world class experience while another gets a disappointing one does not make sense. But I wonder what would happen if you were YMMV with your donation? That subject may be another interesting topic of discussion on another thread.

Yes, it is always a good idea to let a provider know what your wants are in a session you pay for (which is why I love p411) and if any lady has a problem with that, then politely stop the conversation and you move on.

As far as my opinion on writing the review goes, I answered that in the first portion of my post you chose not to quote. To reiterate, yes, write the review, this is an info sharing site. IMO, when she agrees to see you, sets the appointment and takes your money, then does not perform for whatever reason, you are not the asshole for writing a negative review, she is for underwhelming. Honest reviews (not fluff or ads) are not only what this site is about, they can also be a learning tool for a provider that she may need improvement in an area or more of her TCB skills/BCD services.

But, if you are afraid of another "no" review added to your list of reviews or her profile, like a few have already suggested, recommend her, but put all the details in the ROS from the time you made initial contact to when you walked out the door after the session.

[Gottahavit55]

Thank you all for your comments. Especially the ladies who chimed in...i needed your perspective.

[pyramider]

The mangina runs deep with this one.

[FunInDFW]

Always write the review.

[Eva Damita]

There are several ladies on here including myself, who have a solid reputation for being an authentic GFE. Sometimes, I understand it can be tedious to filter through the thousands of women (site wide), and do efficient research, but it definitely pays off. Best wishes to you and I hope that you soon find an authentic GFE visit.

[rexdutchman]

Its Clearly a NO REVIEW , based on false ad , its just that simple

[Gottahavit55]

Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Its Clearly a NO REVIEW , based on false ad , its just that simple

I was not debating whether it should b a ‘no’ review...but whether I should write.

In any event, its been written.

Thx all for ur input.

[micktoz]

Originally Posted by Gottahavit55

Don’t believe i would visit with her agsin...thx all for chiming in.

Any ladies wish to comment?

You got LL to answer, she's level headed.

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by txman123

gotta, your concern for the lady is admirable, but your angst over a NO review is unnecessary.
You would not recommend her due to poor performance and not providing her advertised service, thus a NO review is appropriate and justified.
The lady bears responsibility for providing her advertised services.

I could not have said this right here better myself....

- - ->You would not recommend her due to poor performance and not providing her advertised service, thus a NO review is appropriate and justified.<- ''

[rexdutchman]

Sorry my point was clearly a No review should Always be written ( this topic has come up many times and I think the no reviews are sometimes more telling then the yes)

[waterfalllover]

based on what he has told us so far.

he ain't gunn'a get it no more and...

he can't have it no more...

Ha ha ha ha Chicken....... Bach Bach Bach Bach Bach Bach Bach....

he's done. Life goes on.... No since in worrying about it..