I'm interesting in become a sugar daddy, question for providers.

[darkmoonmaster]

I'm being doing research on the subject. SA very interesting page.And I'm wondering how much money per month it takes for a provider to become exclusive for a hobbyist? I know there several level of sugar babies. But seeing only one guy vs many has its advantages.

[Jules Jaguar]

One thing to think about is are you willing to pay as much/more than a provider is making escorting?

[Grace Preston]

Are you wondering how much it would take a provider to be exclusive?

Or are you wondering how much it would cost to make a SB exclusive?

Those are two different things.

[snowbunni]

If you do some research then you should be willing to do $5000-$6000 a month.

[casey_carlin]

I have done 2 different arrangements. Now this is with someone I knew for quite a few years before doing an exclusive arrangement.

The first 3 years was $4000 a month and he saw me 6 days a month 9am-3pm each of those days. Then we moved to $3000 a month for half of the time because travel issues that lasted for 2 years. He would let me know at the beginning of the month what days he was coming in and I would keep those weeks completely open. I have a non hobby business that I ran when he wasn’t in town.

If he wanted to end it he had to give 30 days notice with one month severance. For me to end it I gave 30 days notice no severance. I like to have specifics lined out so everyone knows what to be expected.

Casey

[Zee Man]

So Casey... Is this something you would repeat? Do you feel it was successful for both sides? Did you part friends?

[~Ze~]

I've also had nearly the exact same arrangements as Casey.

A set number of days/month, priority and flexible scheduling. Trips were always compensated extra but usually at a reasonable term. Didn't mind that I stayed in this lifestyle as long as our arrangement never fell "behind".

Lasted 3 years, ended when he moved cross country for a new startup.

Would I repeat? Sure.

I loved having a much deeper connection with him, we were more adventurous than I think you can get even with a "semi regular" hobby situation. We were friends, lovers, companions, teacher, student, it was great.

Negotiating the terms is by far the hardest part of a SB/SD relationship. Some people will say you shouldn't negotiate and just let things happen naturally, I say that is a recipe for failure. Once you lay out the basic desires of both parties, it becomes easier to build around and reach an agreement. Both sides need to be able to compromise and consider the other.

Anywho, whether you are spending 5k or 500 a month, there are plenty of levels to this lifestyle. Something for everyone. Find a companion that suits your major check boxes, and go from there.

[mtabsw]

Exclusive?

[Butch Cassidy]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

I have done 2 different arrangements. Now this is with someone I knew for quite a few years before doing an exclusive arrangement.

The first 3 years was $4000 a month and he saw me 6 days a month 9am-3pm each of those days. Then we moved to $3000 a month for half of the time because travel issues that lasted for 2 years. He would let me know at the beginning of the month what days he was coming in and I would keep those weeks completely open. I have a non hobby business that I ran when he wasn’t in town.

If he wanted to end it he had to give 30 days notice with one month severance. For me to end it I gave 30 days notice no severance. I like to have specifics lined out so everyone knows what to be expected.

Casey

If I did my math right 4000.00÷6=666.6 per meet

9am-3pm is 6 hours

666÷6=111.00 per hour

Is that right?

Is being given the 4k up front what made this doable?(i realize you mentioned knowing him for awhile)

Thank you for sharing your experience!

[Willow Breeze]

I have also been a sugar baby a few years ago and for me it was 4000. I had an arrangement similar to what Casey_Carlin did.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

If I did my math right 4000.00÷6=666.6 per meet

9am-3pm is 6 hours

666÷6=111.00 per hour

Is that right?

Is being given the 4k up front what made this doable?(i realize you mentioned knowing him for awhile)

Thank you for sharing your experience!

I'm contribute $111 a hour for a hot chick, half of that if you're old or fat and quarter of $111 if you're old and fat. I'll work around your schedule too. Any takers?

[honeydavis]

Find a UTR or retired provider looking for the same. I'm currently entertaining the idea of going full sugar baby instead of going back to providing. I do like the idea of learning what someone likes more and more every time you get together. Also there's some things that might interest me that I would never do on the first meet...

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

If I did my math right 4000.00÷6=666.6 per meet

9am-3pm is 6 hours

666÷6=111.00 per hour

Is that right?

Is being given the 4k up front what made this doable?(i realize you mentioned knowing him for awhile)

Thank you for sharing your experience!

Guaranteed income combined with a client you know and enjoy spending time with makes exclusive arrangements more attractive.

[Rodrigos]

Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster

I'm being doing research on the subject. SA very interesting page.And I'm wondering how much money per month it takes for a provider to become exclusive for a hobbyist? I know there several level of sugar babies. But seeing only one guy vs many has its advantages.

I just started on SA last month,premium. I have 2 NSA with 2 gorgeous girls 30's and 40's. $300 a month is my arrangement, per visit per lady with no clock watching more of a relationship. I'm spending about 2 hours per visit that is all I can go on a single occasion. LOL $4000 who are these guys.

Do your research man. Check out the mens forum on SA. $4000 is way too high. There are plenty great ladies for the choosing at a reasonable arrangement.

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Rodrigos

I just started on SA last month,premium. I have 2 NSA with 2 gorgeous girls 30's and 40's. $300 a month is my arrangement, per visit per lady with no clock watching more of a relationship. I'm spending about 2 hours per visit that is all I can go on a single occasion. LOL $4000 who are these guys.

Do your research man. Check out the mens forum on SA. $4000 is way too high. There are plenty great ladies for the choosing at a reasonable arrangement.

He is asking for an exclusive arrangement, meaning-- the lady is not seeing anyone else. At 300/month, I can assure you that you don't have an exclusive arrangement. Of course, if you mean 300 per visit, then you don't have a sugar baby, you have an escort. That is not the same thing.

$4000 is actually on the lower end for this level of relationship. I've seen ladies who have been given 200k for a year long arrangement, no joke.