appropriate to ask a escort how you perform?

[Valery69]

Everyone should ask , i like when they tell me what theywantand how they want it !! Is the best way for them to be happy

[ck1942]

Actually, you should not "ask," so much as you should "tell."

Meaning, that if you already know you have physical issues or problems, letting a lady know in advance could possibly encourage significant success in your endeavor.

Also, you need to explore what you really want.

My formula calls for communication, chemistry and companionship well ahead of copulation. Perhaps, as in many encounters, compassion is also a big part.

There are many very caring ladies in hobby.

It is up to you to specify what you feel you need and expect.

Ladies should not be blinfolded nor blind sided but should be treated as true "partners" in this evoultion of ours.

Disregard all harsh assessments and opinions.

It is your adventure!

[gentlemantoo]

If your looking for companionship in this place, you are in the wrong place. If you want chemistry again wrong place. Those things take integrity, none here. How can a woman respect you enough for chemistry when you pay for her body. Do any of you realize how disrespectful it is to pay a woman to lay with you? If you really care for her, stop paying her to lay with you, be a person of integrity and just try being her friend without sex. Will not last too long because she wants the cash.

We pay for sex, not time. Do not bullshit yourself, try paying her an hour to clean your kitchen, that is still time but neither of you would do that, because you are paying her to drop to her knees and suck you off, nothing else. Time is just how long she will do it, it is the amount of product we get for our dollars.

Okay, Bullshit out of the way. You are disrespectful enough to pay her to lay with you, why would you ever ask her how good you were? Never get an honest answer for her, she wantsore money. If you are that good she will call you and no fee. You are not that good, no man that pays for sex is. So you have your answer. When a woman wants you, you do not have to chase her, pay her, play games with her. She is there for you. How many of these ladies are there for any of us? How many ladies want you to be there for her? Is it balanced where you are there for each other? You are not a good lover because you pay herr, see?

[ck1942]

Gtoo, that is the reason you are here.

Your view is hardly representative of all the hobbyists here.

Companionship, chemistry, communication are serious considerations for many hobbyists.

The hobby has never been totally about copulation.

Sorry you haven't figured that out.

ijs

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[JohnnyYanks]

Lol the bitter doofus. More please.

[gentlemantoo]

I am entertained by your denial, lol. A large number of you, lol.

I agree Colonel, my view is not the same as a large number of people here, that does not make my statements false. Some if us live in reality some in denial, each of us chooses which. Looking for chemistry and companionship, did anyone here ever realize those things are free? Actually cannot be bought, but you can buy an actress, a role play, but that is not chemistry nor companionship. you do realize Julia Roberts never did fall in love with Richard Here, it was a movie - acting. Know the difference between what is real and what is not?

Maybe you never had a woman love you, never had a woman take interest in you for free. That is sad but would explain why the denial. A woman that loved me, never charged me a dime to spend time with me, she touched me willingly and happily because she wanted to not for the cash, she called me and took care of my every need. That was chemistry and companionship. She gave me money when we needed it and supported me when we were down. Try some real companionship and you will see that this place is fake and business. It is a release not chemistry. If she liked you, she would see you without charging you. See? Get that? Or did Tom Cruise really shoot down Russian planes in Top Gun?

Sometimes reality is bitter, does not mean we should all say it sweett.

[offshoredrilling]

If a repeating clien,t acting wears fast

[gentlemantoo]

There is a difference in her wanting you and her tolerating you. Tolerance is not chemistry, being wanted is. If you cannot tell the difference look in your wallet after meeting if a couple hundred less in there - it is tolerance not chemistry. Did she call you for a session or did you have to track her down, another indication of tolerance not companionship. Did she call you? Want you to take her sexually without cash? That is real, not acting.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by bankai

is it appropriate to ask?

or not?

do you care?

compared to other clients, should I care?

or not something you want to ask?

I have sickle cell and I may have erectile issues and stamina because of the disease. I'm thinking it's probably not for me because I'm pretty tough on myself compared to normal,healthier clients or men in general.

should I just leave the industry since I think about this or stick it out.

sickle cell is a issue with blood flow, stamina tiredness and overall sluggishness.

Sure its okay ... but do not expect a honest answer. It is not in the lady's best interest to be honest about performance. Just accept the fact you are inadequate and try again.