I am sure it's all subjective, but to me, my definition of GFE is
Angel. Not being a WK or anything, but every time I see her it's like seeing an old girlfriend. Sure she has time for me. When I walk in the door, I am always greeted with a hug and a kiss. We always catch up with what each other is doing. Then the fun begins and we know what each other likes and desires. There's no looking at the clock, but we are both mindful of each other's time, as we know it is precious. There is lots of kissing, all types, and all places, all without covers. And we both try to make the other feel good, physically and mentally as we know it just makes the time better for both of us.
As for a board definition, when I see GFE, I expect kissing, LFK, DFK, DATY, and BBBJ. Unfortunately, I don't usually get all of that, or it's limited in some way.
As was mentioned above, hygiene is important for both parties. I am always fairly recently showered (desk job, so not going to be all sweaty), but I do smoke. First thing I do is drop the donation, but then I excuse myself to go brush my teeth, and wash my hands and face. I've always offered to shower, but usually told its not needed.
I think we all just have different opinions on what all should be included.
