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Old 07-17-2017, 10:27 PM   #1
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if you have a session with a girl & your satisfyed & enjoy your self you should write a review for a few different reasons

1�� it helps the girls business and it gives the other potential clients something to read about that girl

2✨ the girl can read your reveiws while trying to screen and varify you as a safe client to see & to me it makes it soooooo much easier !!!!

But if your not a guy who writes reveiws you should be upfront & tell the girl you dont write reveiws and of course thats ok . but not following thru with your reveiw is not cool
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Old 07-17-2017, 10:37 PM   #2
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Yep if you agree to do something you should do it!!
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Old 07-17-2017, 10:58 PM   #3
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if you have a session with a girl & your satisfyed & enjoy your self you should write a few fee different reasons

1💜 it helps the girls business and it gives the other potential clients something to read about that girl

2✨ the girl can read your reveiws while trying to screen and varify you as a safe client to see & to me it makes it soooooo much easier !!!!

But if your not a guy who writes reveiws you should be upfront & tell the girl you dont write reveiws and of course thats ok . but not following thru with your reveiw is not cool
I would certainly agree with your first point, Danni... if it is a well-written review that contains sufficient information to help assess what future expectations might be. Unfortunately, lately, the lion's share of reviews do not provide anything other than "yeah, I met here" intel.

As to your 2nd point, I have read on several ladies' ads and profiles that, for a variety of reasons, they do not use a guy's reviews of other providers as a means for positive screening. While a provider may look at a potential client's review of a provider he has also given contact/reference info on, they are not using the review by itself as a screening tool.

And, finally, as to someone saying they will write a review and then they don't, it would really only be not cool if the client was provided a special discount for a visit on the premise that he would write a review (the infamous "review special") which he took advantage of and then reneged on the promise.

Sometimes, though, for various reasons, we simply don't write the review. Mine, for example, are all generally centered around one specific "dining theme" and don't necessarily help the potential client who is looking at the review for other, more "mainstream" info.

Good topic, though, Danni!
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Old 07-18-2017, 12:03 AM   #4
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I personally love reviews because it gives me feedback on my services, informs the community about me (especially in new areas) &... well, I like to collect reviews lol, it's like a business portfolio to me.
I NEVER base my screening around how many reviews a gent wrote. It may tell me what he likes, but it doesn't tell me what kind of guy he is. References should always be a must & I like it when a lady is detailed with her response back to me. I always let a lady know when she reaches out to me if the gent is respectful, clean, on time & if I would see him again. Granted not all clients are the same with every provider, but some details are VERY important.
When offering a review special, I suggest you put in your ad a time frame a gent has to write the review. If he doesn't do the review & doesn't communicate with you as to why it wasn't done (because sometimes, life happens) then I would suggest reporting him just to make other ladies aware he has a tendency to take advantage.
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you are so right kat i also love to gather reveiws the feedback i get on my services makes me feel good although i never thought about looking at my reveiws as a business portfolio �� i like that idea lol but deffinitly no i dont base my screening on only reveiws because much more important info besides a reveiw is needed to varify a safe client of course. Also in my opinion if a guy gives a reference and she hasent responed yet the lady could always find another provider on the gents reveiws to check as a ref for quicker screening


But like i said to me a reveiw a guy has written just gives a lady something to read while trying to varify and it gives another potential client something to read about the girl while deciding if shes the 1 for him
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Old 07-18-2017, 12:52 PM   #6
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I'm the worlds worst at this; I've got full intentions to write reviews (when asked too) but something(s) always comes up. My apologies to all the ladies I should have reviewed. The last person I promised a review of our session in OKC was the hotness in my avatar. I hope some day she'll forgive me...(...and come back to OKC).
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Old 07-18-2017, 04:22 PM   #7
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I'm the worlds worst at this; I've got full intentions to write reviews (when asked too) but something(s) always comes up. My apologies to all the ladies I should have reviewed. The last person I promised a review of our session in OKC was the hotness in my avatar. I hope some day she'll forgive me...(...and come back to OKC).
its okay honey, we've both discussed how busy your life is, so I completely understand! I'm contemplating coming to OKC within the next week or so
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Old 07-18-2017, 05:26 PM   #8
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i think p411 okays are the best way for girls to screen guys, a lot of times guys dont write about bad things in eccie reviews because of drama and only write good stuff.
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Old 07-20-2017, 10:51 AM   #9
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cmore. I think there's a fine line between writing bad comments and writing honest comments. If the service or experience was mediorce, then I greatly appreciate those comments in the review. It doesn't mean that we have to be mean or assholes about it, but I know it happens sometimes drama follows. But those of us that can be mature about it would understand that although a lady wasn't his cup of tea, I may be attracted to her for various other reasons.

I know that's probably too idealistic, but I would like to think that some of us do that.
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Old 07-20-2017, 01:00 PM   #10
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cmore. I think there's a fine line between writing bad comments and writing honest comments. If the service or experience was mediorce, then I greatly appreciate those comments in the review. It doesn't mean that we have to be mean or assholes about it, but I know it happens sometimes drama follows. But those of us that can be mature about it would understand that although a lady wasn't his cup of tea, I may be attracted to her for various other reasons.

I know that's probably too idealistic, but I would like to think that some of us do that.
I've met quite a few gents who absolutely hate writing reviews because they feel they can't be 100% honest in them. Even the slightest thing like admitting a provider is missing teeth can cause an uproar from not only the provider, but her clients as well. Most guys just write reviews for the credit & to have access.
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I think that's a fair statement Kat. Being 100% honest is difficult without someone being offended. Putting physical appearance aside, at least things like poor TCB skills or getting stood up on an appt should be noted.
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I completely agree with that, but in the same tense, a lady can be great for a few guys & not so great with another. Reviews are so complicated, lol!
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Old 07-20-2017, 02:17 PM   #13
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a lady can be great for a few guys & not so great with another.
That's the rub. People need to realize that honest reviews are the best way to improve service and make smart decisions on how to hobby safe. But they cannot be honest and please everyone all the time...
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Old 07-20-2017, 02:32 PM   #14
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... getting stood up on an appt should be noted.
Unfortunately this can't be in a review since no meeting takes place. While I don't do reviews for many of the reasons discussed here, I will post in the ML NCNS since that is one of my pet peeves. What's worse is a NCNS from a provider that has a cancellation policy...what a joke!!
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Old 07-20-2017, 03:18 PM   #15
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Too bad we can't do what they do in speed dating. The first face to face interaction makes the world of difference to know if you click with someone.
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