Stealthing?! WTF!

[Big Heretic]

Ladies,

I hope no guys here would be such a rat basted to do something like this to you. I just read abut it and it appears to have been a "thing" for a while. Felt I should put this out there just in case I'm not the last person to hear about stealthing.

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-st...-a7796846.html

[dj8rocks]

That was a rat bastard to pull that crap. I have heard of it before and also the infamous "it slipped off and I didn't realize it" bullshit.
I have always had a practice to have the provider "pinch" the condom around the base of the shaft upon removal. I tend to go flaccid very quickly after ejac, so I have found this method to be very beneficial for both our comfort and safety.

[Guest091823]

Seriously, why this has become a thing is beyond me. It's just real immature and a potential risk on a multitude of levels. There are people in the world that DONT want to be pregnant or have a lifelong health condition to monitor and is that not an easy enough wish to respect? It's baffling. A female friend that's my age just recently told me about young guy she was dating and how going condomless was a thing with this young set of guys. I managed to not get anyone pregnant and not catch anything that required a Dr visit in 30 years by using condoms (and the sex was still pretty damn fun). Maybe becoming sexually active in the late 80's with AIDS ripping through the world was a keystone to that.
Sex makes people do some disrespectful and stupid shit sometime and when people make a game of it, it sort of takes the cake. I can only hope these guys catch whatever nastiness they deserve. It's just dumb.

[GigiGabore]

I mean why a guy feels safe inside a hooker is beyond me. Let's take specific people out of the equation and look at just what the job title sounds like. Guys think we see 6 a day sometimes! Guys think I stay so busy and in reality, a normal month is me playing maybe 3 times. Regardless, if you think a girl sees that many guys why would you want to risk going bare.
And I know there are girls that say they're always safe but they still have ymmv clients that they'll go bare for.
Swapping any fluids just isn't safe in this hobby.

I'm not saying anyone has anything, and I find my clients to be very clean and heath conscious. However, you're not the only guy she is seeing so be careful.

I mean, really the only truly safe ones are those that do everything covered, and don't offer daty or kissing.

I can't not kiss, and plastic tastes gross. Those are just my preferences. There's a risk operating this way though.

I'm clean, 100% but the way that guys seem to be okay with risking their health for some fun makes it seem maybe they aren't clean themselves and just don't care.

Regardless, stealthing is crazy talk. That one good feeling could cost you your life.

Get tested often everyone.

And there are alternatives to male condoms, such as a female condom, not the sexiest thing ever but it won't be tight around you and keeps everyone safe!

A lot of us see the same guys, so could you imagine the ripple effect of someone getting burned?

Scary.