Moving appointments up or back

[drinkindreamin]

After reading several reviews and experiencing this several times myself. I thought I would see what the co-ed opinions are on the issue of changing appointments. Considering the business is what it is and we know what comes along with it. When a lady contacts her client to move an appointment up or back 30 minutes saying she had an emergency. She usually asks is it a problem? Yes, it is a problem because when you contact us to move the appointment we automatically think damn she pushed somebody ahead of me. The mood is fucked up from that point on. It's just better as clients that we don't know if your going to pull such as that. We can't very well question the move nor do we want to say you lied to us but most likely you've lost a client. For instance if you had a date at 7:30. The lady calls at 7 to tell you she's running 30min late then she goes MIA til 9pm then sends a text at 9pm. I'm in my way don't be mad. WTF is a client supposed to think? Then by that time a client is pissed because he feels you've run somebody ahead of him. If you cancel the lady is like I'm dressed I'm on my way.. Don't do this to me. I had emergency. You squabble over the appointment and the mood is fucked. So just reschedule or consider it a loss. Honestly it's this type bullshit that has made me question my involvement in the hobby and I try to keep my Shit on the up and up. Or at least be a gentleman about it. Last couple times this happened I went ahead with the appointment and surrendered my donation. As I feel most ladies hobby because there is a reason behind there circumstances. We had a couple drinks and talked. We usually part ways from that point as I can't see somebody I can't trust or have to question. Thats my opinion. I also might add that many of us that hobby only have a limited time window to do this. When the time frames start changing and things get delayed it causes flaws in the plan which usually leads to questions.

[danceman]

When she asks if it is a problem...
...if it is, say yes
...if it's not, say no

Either way be sure to write something so fellow hobbyist will know. Maybe a pattern will emerge that will help everybody.

I too think that moving an appointment changes the mood.

[Headkeeper]

Danceman nailed it.

[mrredcat43]

I experienced something similar this weekend. I had PMed a provider I wanted to see, I was going out of town to Galveston, and made the provider aware of such, and she let me know she has a full time job outside the hobby, ok cool. We start scheduling, she requests 10 in the evening, I formulate my plan, then she does a follow up PM asking to push it to 11pm, which starts to throw my cover story off, but I agree to it, her reasoning made sense, but at the time, it was off-putting. The next day comes, I'm nervous all morning, then she texts and asks if we can move it up to 5 or 6pm, which honestly, worked out in my favor. We agree on 6, I head out at 430, and hit south houston traffic, and finally arrive to outcall about 6pm.

After talking face to face with her, I find out that she came straight from her RW job.

Basically, for me, it seems off putting, but sometimes works out in my favor. If I EVER found out my scheduled time was pushed back to fit in ANOTHER appt, you can better believe I'd decline the appt, and i would explain why EXACTLY I cancelled.

Nobody has time for games