Age versus age

[Lena Duvall]

Any elder gentleman who's been having a problem elsewhere, please feel free to swing my way! My lower age limit is 21, but ideally late 20's. And I don't have an upper age limit when it comes to who I'll do the nasty with. If your heart is still beating and your still kicking, come on over!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

While this is off the subject a little, it is about advertising. While I never purchase off of backpage I do window shop and I have seen a large number of ads now specifying that they are into in shape, attractive men with large members. One lady even said old and fat men do not contact me. I thought to myself how many hottie dudes out there fit this requirement and how the hell can these ladies stay in business. I am just shaking my head, man the business has sure changed.

...how the hell can these ladies stay in business.

There are a few of the ladies who are not in business for the money: they are in it for the slight, the very slight, chance that they might get a chance to get laid and have a pleasant time.

What did he mean by that?

You can think about it a while and see if you can understand it. Don't ask which lady could define that approach, because I won't answer that.

JR

[SweetSuzanna]

Are you saying providers say they are younger than they are? Age is a number! I have had 60+ yr old men who can go 2 rounds and perform like 20 yr olds! Some 20 yr olds who can't keep it up. Everyone is different! And by the way, I personally don't prefer hugeones. Ouch. Average sized ones rock! Oh I am open about my age

[billtunes]

For me, it just seems creepy to visit with someone who is not older than my adult children.

[Guest123017]

Providers will post the content they need to maintain and grow their customer base - always been the case, always will be the case...

Age, weight, bust size, waist size, ass size, etc are all tailored to cultivate dates...

But, there are few checks and balances in place to address this issue. Current and honest reviews help a lot - and - updated/recent pics (selfies) help a lot. Coupled, those two factors should tell/show you everything you need to know to hobby safely and smartly and not be blindsided when you walk through the door and your 'date' isn't much like what you were led to believe.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by billtunes

For me, it just seems creepy to visit with someone who is not older than my adult children.

Then what are you going to do when you're in your 80's, billtunes?!? LOL

[billtunes]

Escorts will most likely be a total waste of cash for me by then. Or maybe I'll be hustling the hot chicks at the old folk's home.

[ksuengineer]

I have to comment on this.

First, I have never posted before and haven't popped my hobby cherry yet.

I am approaching the OFF status. To tell the truth the O is the only thing that I'd say isn't official. I start the downhill slide in June. While I love looking at young beautiful women I'm not sure that would be my first pick. At least not the really young. I do have a type, again not totally true, I'd pretty much do a door if someone would remove the knob. But I appreciate the ladies that are a little bit older especially the ones that have kept themselves in such great shape. I like a little conversation; before, during, and after; and can't imagine what I'd talk to a lower twenty something about. Plus, I could be wrong about this, while they might be experienced, and very talented, the are some things that just aren't learned without some extra years under your belt.

I want to make sure it's clear, I don't have anything against a young, beautiful, lady. And I do hope to treat myself to one eventually. I just think starting out I'd rather have a lady that couldn't be my granddaughter.

[ck1942]

imo, chronological age has very little relation to successful hobbying for either gender.

It is our psychological age and actual attitude that do have a great impact on success.

"Chemistry" can happen regardless of age.

"Communication" and "companionship" as well.

As for "copulation," who cares about age if the earlier mentioned "C's" are operating properly!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by ck1942

imo, chronological age has very little relation to successful hobbying for either gender.
It is our psychological age and actual attitude that do have a great impact on success.
"Chemistry" can happen regardless of age.
"Communication" and "companionship" as well.
As for "copulation," who cares about age if the earlier mentioned "C's" are operating properly!

We can call this:
CK's rule of the 5 Cs.
Chemistry
Communication
Companionship
Copulation
allows us to ignore
Chronological

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

While this is off the subject a little, it is about advertising. While I never purchase off of backpage I do window shop and I have seen a large number of ads now specifying that they are into in shape, attractive men with large members. One lady even said old and fat men do not contact me. I thought to myself how many hottie dudes out there fit this requirement and how the hell can these ladies stay in business. I am just shaking my head, man the business has sure changed.

"...ads now specifying that they are into in shape, attractive men with large members."

Plus the biggest aphrodisiac is money. If a guy has a good job, or money, and is have way good looking, the women line up as his door for a chance to have a gy look after them.

About 45 years ago I fit that description. After my first wife died the phone rang all the time, and the women would come over to see why I did not answer the phone. I started to use the hobby for my needs just because I wasn't ready to date. When I was ready for another real relationship I left the hobby for the real world. They are not the same.

Now that I am old and gray - well you guys know what I am talking about.

As a man, the hobby is about looking after my needs and security. After all is said and done; we don't pay them for their time, we pay them to leave.

JR

[ck1942]

U_C - thanks!

JR - my most constant and successful "wingman" has always been my close buddy Benji and his many bretheren. Simply amazing how so many ladies will cozy up when my buddies "Benji"1 are hanging with me.

And, just a note to the curious ladies out there, also imo:

More gents 45 and older (especially a lot older) usually have more disposable income than the younger dudes have. And, if were we to elimiate all gents over, say 50, from the hobby, many many ladies would be hard pressed to survive on who is left.

jmho, of course.