FYI for new hobbyists

[Guest040719]

If you call me and ask "Are you still providing escort services", you're going to get hung up on.

[Kat VonDee]

LOL! Let's add a little to this list to inform new hobbyists of what is acceptable & not acceptable.
-If you're interested in seeing a provider, do a little homework to find out what kind of services she offers & what her rates are. I will cease all communication the minute a guy starts to ask me what my rates are or what services I offer. Read the reviews or do a little research.

[DallasRain]

AND if ya text me,please please pleasze identify yourself...and if we have never met then let me know you are new to me

[Sarah Renee]

If I don't answer the phone, don't blow it up by calling 10+ times in an hour. It makes you come across as threatening by being impatient. It is even worse when I have no clue who you are and you have not cleared screening.

[Davelamd]

Keep it coming ladies. I find it hard all this needs to be said, but apparently it does!

[Crystal West]

Damn I've tried to word this 5 different times now and no matter how I word it someone will take it wrong so here goes.

Escorting is Legal.
http://desirehire.com/news-blogs-tip...legal-trouble/

What is NOT legal any where but Nevada is the agreement of money,goods,property, or anything that can be viewed as gain by a person or persons in exchange for any form of sexual act or acts. Known as Prostitution.

While the OP just as the rest of us has her own rules.
I would like to point out asking "Do you still provide escort services" is not the same as "Do you do (insert sexual act)". Also if the new gentlemen are doing google searches and reading they are only following what is written as proper ways to contact an Escort.
Here is one of many
https://www.nationalblacklist.com/AG...tEtiquette.htm

So in this case if I was a new gentlemen who had done my research on how to contact a provider found these articles posted by long time active and retired providers I would follow it as well.

My advice for new gentlemen is this
1) Research and find Newbie friendly providers. There is no point in wasting a providers time or yours if she is not newbie friendly. This can be found in ads , on profiles as well as on a providers website.
2) Now that you have you list of ladies research further into what providers do and do not provide and their donations. Again this can be found in profiles, on websites, and in reviews here on ECCIE it is not a bad investment to gain access to ROS so you are able to see the full review.
NEVER ASK ABOUT:
Donations / Rates / Roses / Discounts / Specials
Services she provides / If she provides or offers any kind of sexual act
3) Contact one provider at a time if the provider doesn't contact you right away or doesn't answer give her some time. The established gentlemen of the board can give insight on what is acceptable before moving on to the next provider.
4) Be honest that you are new and before you ever start in the hobby make up your mind if you are willing to provide information for screening. Do not be rude screening goes quickly the more open you are.
5) Be sure that the appointment time and date work for you if something comes up contact the provider and let her know the more notice the better.
6) BE on time if you are running late contact the provider and let her know. Early is not ok unless you have contacted the provider prior to arrange this. I personally do not spend my every moment in high heels and thigh highs nor are they my preference when in public.
7) Be clean .. Showered ect if not ask if it is ok to freshen up at her location nothing worse the bad smelling makes for a bad appointment
8) RELAX AND HAVE FUN
9) Repeat the process will get easier ....

Again I did not mean to offend anyone only trying to help.
For me in 6 years some of the most amazing gentlemen I've met have been new to the hobby. It would be a shame to loose some amazing gentlemen over frustration and confusion just as it is when amazing new providers are lost. We where all NEW at one time something I never forget.


Now that I've written a book I'm going back to my corner..

Stay safe and HAVE FUN