How to tell if a provider is pimped or managed?

[pyramider]

False. Okays on p are not a reference. Plenty of abusers have hundreds of okays.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by pyramider

False. Okays on p are not a reference. Plenty of abusers have hundreds of okays.

Exactly, I had a fella with many oks and he robbed me.

I listen to my gut over all other...


On the texting... may VP's in my area use texting so Im not sure if thats really an indicator in all areas you may travel.

I text now, I was sick of living in emails. Its become more efficient with my time(most of the time haha) and I can screen/ref check just as easily.

[onetyme281]

This thread is great.

[ICU 812]

AMP and Agency by definition are "managed" if not trafficked in some way.

An Indy who has to "check-in" during a session.

[joejohn]

When you get to the hotel drive around and look for the pimp car (park in sight) then text you are there. Before you get the text with the room number odds are the mystery pimp comes walking out a side door.

One time I was walking up and the pimp was in his car parked in reverse and videoed me as I walked by (he was holding up his phone acting like he was texting). I did not realize that was what happened until after the session. It turned out to be a really hot session and I was very satisfied, but from now on I will walk behind any cars backed in and I no longer park where my vehicle can be identified.

One time I pulled up and got nothing when I texted. As I was waiting in my car, two pimp thugs pull up with a skank in the back. They gave me the stare down and the skank gets out tells me a hard luck story and said they needed money. Then she pulls out some pills out of her bra saying the only thing she has is these drugs and would like to sell them to me. I said no to the drugs and gave her 40 dollars just to get them to leave. As soon as they drive off I get a text with the room number, I am kinda of shaken up but think damn I need some stress relief. I go to the room and no answer, realizing it was a total scam, I bailed and then kept getting texts for an hour demanding money. These were all ECCIE girls not BP. Be safe.

[CummingsLane]

Originally Posted by Alluring_Amber

Some of your guys logic is funny. I don't think because a woman prefers incall & doesn't necessarily do outs means she's pimped. But that's just me.. lol.
I don't think truthfully there are real signs a woman is being pimped... unless you see him leave the room/men's clothes in the room like previously stated.. but who knows. Lol.
Another thing.. just because someone doesn't want to blur that business provider line by spending quality time outside of the hobby with hobbiest doesn't exactly mean their pimped.. lol. I spend a lot of time working so when I'm not working I prefer to spend time with my family... lol.

+1

[CummingsLane]

Originally Posted by GemmaFox

I do not care if I'm seeing the pope and it's his 30th appointment.. I expect to be paid before anything happens. Thankfully I've never been scammed but still, it only has to happen once.

Funny but true.

[joesmo888]

if she gets dropped off by a car with spinning rims and hydrolics then she is likely pimped.

[Lovely_Lita]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

An Indy who has to "check-in" during a session.

Bogus.
Whether you notice it or not, every girl has (or should have) a friend they keep in contact with before and after a date.
While you're washing up, guess what we are all doing? Letting a friend know we are still breathing.
This is escorting safety 101.

[Guest010719]

Originally Posted by tucson

I have been playing at this for a while and the couple I know have pimps are hard to tell about them. IF her talking is much different than her texts that may be a tip off. One I have in mind has no education and I can tell if she or her pimp has written the add. The other pimps I have met were passed off as the providers boy friend. All of the pimped girls I know of all hang out together with the pimps always near by. Another thing I have noticed are in their early to late 30s. It's a safe bet that if the gal is in her 40s she has separated from any pimp. Texting is the preferred method of communication by owned women.

I honestly don't think there is any Sure to know that I've meant ladies in their forties who definitely had pimps. I've met ladies that have pimps and great reviews and nobody even knows it. You would be very surprised

[bamscram]

Originally Posted by Lovely_Lita

Bogus.
Whether you notice it or not, every girl has (or should have) a friend they keep in contact with before and after a date.
While you're washing up, guess what we are all doing? Letting a friend know we are still breathing.
This is escorting safety 101.

Diff between security and managed.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Lovely_Lita

Bogus.
Whether you notice it or not, every girl has (or should have) a friend they keep in contact with before and after a date.
While you're washing up, guess what we are all doing? Letting a friend know we are still breathing.
This is escorting safety 101.

This is quite the blanket statement... I do not know of any gals in my area that check in like that unless its their pimp...

I dont and I dont feel the need to and neither do some of my ho buds.

[Guest030824]

All joking aside. There is no way the client will ever know a gal is pimped. The idea of a pimp will differ with each of us. The pimp in my mind is some one that controls a girl with fear or getting her hooked on drugs. I do not condone controlling any one and it could as well be another woman taking advantage of a naïve young woman by getting control of her computer. I have had experience with another provider bringing a young woman from back east and in my opinion holding her as a slave. Her computer was taken away from her and the other woman was booking sessions for her. With out transportation she was at the mercy of the handler for every thing.

[Gotyour6]

Pimp or hooker BF is the same thing.
Lowest form of scum there is.

They rely on the income of the hooker.

[Lovely_Lita]

So, essentially being a hooker means you're relegated to being forever alone? Must be a lonely existence.
A statememt like that kinda completely perpetuates the "unlovable hooker" narrative that people force on us. It's poisonous and I'm sorry you bought in to that.

Not every guy is out there to piggyback on your earnings.
The key is to stop dating losers.