Relationships

[mongostryker]

Or, as I also heard from a wise old man, "if it flies, floats, or fucks, it 's cheaper to rent it."[/QUOTE]

LOL I've heard that a time or two as well.. do we know each other ?

Thanks for the input everyone.. just to be clear, I am in no way looking for a relationship from a provider.. shit, not looking for a relationship at all. I do like a connection.. and it would be nice to develop a level of trust with a woman or two.. but by no means do I hope for a provider who can cook and rear children... maybe rear me once and a while.. lol

[TYS269]

Originally Posted by zeejoe

Over time, it is certainly possible and quite nice to develop relationships within the hobby. Outside of it.... not so much.

Advice for a newbie- make wise decisions about who you see in the first place, be cool, respectful, generous and consistent about how you conduct yourself, and you will be very pleased with what the upside is on the whole "your mileage may vary" part of the escort equation with some gals.

The above advice more closely identifies with how my first year has been so far and is the best answer you have yet received IMO. For numbers, I have seen about 20 different ladies, some multiple times, but definitely have both personal favorites and ones I will not see again. I am now appreciating the cream of my mind's crop with top 5-6, subject to amendment ;-) Hope you find what you're looking for.

[KenMonk]

Yes, it does happen, but very rarely does it work out.

[Mizzou82]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

I have to establish a connection with someone..or it just isn't happening.
I have developed friendships guarded of course with some of the people in this industry... some have lasted for 6 years and some have dissipated but I can just kind of Presume that OP is stating that he would like to develop some connections with a few people instead of bouncing all over the board. Perhaps relationship was the wrong term to use.

I know what you mean. I have only hobbied single, so never worried about blackmail. Over the course of a couple years, spent several $k on a provider. Off the charts IOP from the get go, why I saw her every time she was in town. Eventually started hitting the casino or dinner OTC. Great girl and we got along very well out and about, that is rare. I had no problem telling her who I was and she showed me her DL. Over the 3 yrs it turned into talk of dating and ended up just a deal where she wouldn't let me pay her and we would meet up in CoMo on the couple days she takes off between KC and StL. When she left the hobby, we talked a little about relocating, but were honest that there would be no strings or financial consideration other than sharing expense, just monogamy. Dropped the idea, didn't want to leave my family. You can make good friends. A Monogamous relationship I would think is next to impossible from both sides

[NASDAQ]

Originally Posted by mongostryker

Or, as I also heard from a wise old man, "if it flies, floats, or fucks, it 's cheaper to rent it."

LOL I've heard that a time or two as well.. do we know each other ?

Thanks for the input everyone.. just to be clear, I am in no way looking for a relationship from a provider.. shit, not looking for a relationship at all. I do like a connection.. and it would be nice to develop a level of trust with a woman or two.. but by no means do I hope for a provider who can cook and rear children... maybe rear me once and a while.. lol[/QUOTE]

I think you've got it...all the wise man sayings aside, be good and don't have low standards(i.e. the red headed Porky tatto girl and her pimp). I think of the girls like I do my attorney or my accountant providing a service. I am personal friends and I do certainly care about my attorney and acountants's lives and their well being etc. It's even nice to spend some civilian time with them if they let you that close. That's especially true for the traveling girls that are bored out of their mind or exhausted and just want something to eat etc. However, if you aren't paying don't have any expectations. It's just company. I don't expect my attorney to write briefs for free although it's not uncommon to "write off" the catchup portion of a meeting. No sexy lingerie or crazy makeup bc in th RW they wear sweats,etc.,etc. It can either be nice to see how similar a provider is to you or maybe it's like seeing Mickey Mouse without his mask on at Disney. I

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by mongostryker

Or, as I also heard from a wise old man, "if it flies, floats, or fucks, it 's cheaper to rent it."

LOL . maybe rear me once and a while.. lol[/QUOTE]


I 'll rear ya!!!
JK..
Couldn't help myself.
Be safe..be smart..be picky
Lots of Beautiful ladies here & who come here regularly & all very unique.

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

LOL . maybe rear me once and a while.. lol

I 'll rear ya!!!
JK..
Couldn't help myself.
Be safe..be smart..be picky
Lots of Beautiful ladies here & who come here regularly & all very unique.[/QUOTE]

Would like to rear you........

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

I 'll rear ya!!!
JK..
Couldn't help myself.
Be safe..be smart..be picky
Lots of Beautiful ladies here & who come here regularly & all very unique.

Would like to rear you........[/QUOTE]

I could probably use a good rearing!!!
Rumor has it ...that I ❤❤❤❤ it!!

[algrace]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ok let me add a statement to my earlier post....I was raised by a southern Baptist Momma so I was taught to "love everybody"...So when i grew up and life handed me "lemons",I learned that trust and love is special and has to be earned & treasured.......Now,I HAVE become "close" friends with quite a few of my clients,but I am very selective of who I trust in this hobby.....I have known most of these gents a few years or more...one of them I have known ten years and he has even made a wood rocking horse for my grandman!


just be careful who you trust and how much you trust!

DR, your words show such sincerity & I love how you see it for what it is & so often call it as it is