Welcome to ECCIE - Sign up today!

robinhood12 · 05-08-2016, 08:47 AM

Just wanting some insite on http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=5662 (Kennedy). Been stood up 3x by her. Is this her MO/Norm?

SpursFan · 05-08-2016, 09:23 AM

Didn't know she was still around...

Hasn't posted since February, you must be a persistent person.

Maybe it's time to move on.

I have met KofSA but never hobbied with her.

SF

catchmeeifucan · 05-08-2016, 09:36 AM

It happens...

Exithere · 05-08-2016, 11:40 PM

Been with her a couple of times with no issues but that was a long time ago.

Guest070316-1 · 05-09-2016, 01:48 AM

Think she responded to an email long ago, but then crickets after she asked me for a time. Was probably around the beginning of the year.

ck1942 · 05-09-2016, 07:44 AM

Just like most folks here Kennedy has a Real World life that may take precedence over the hobby when necessary.

As always, best to do thorough research and also have in place a strong Plan B and Plan C to help minimize lost time opportunities.

Guest070316-1 · 05-09-2016, 09:41 AM

Is that when plan B and c should know your plans so they don't think you ncns or stood them up? I think some guys get themselves in trouble setting up more than they can handle and don't communicate. I personally try not to set up b or c as to not waste their time either.

Communication is key.

I understood in kennedys case, she may have a busy rw going on and chalked it up to that as nothing was set in stone. Moved along and had fun.

At the very least, I usually have a couple ladies in mind but usually end up short notice if plan A doesn't go through. If nothing comes around, usually go out for the night and put the funds toward an extended date later on. Sometimes it works out better that way too.

DocHolyday · 05-09-2016, 10:58 AM

RH, why are you so obsessed with this one lady? Maybe your obsession with her is a red flag for her. Start by looking in the mirror at your own behavior and stop placing the blame all on Kof SA. Move on! Plenty of ladies out there. Try setting something up with another lady. If a lady is hesitant about seeing Ol' Doc, I thank her for her time and move on. Ladies, gentlemen, good day!

JohnnyYanks · 05-09-2016, 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by robinhood12

Quote:

Been stood up 3x by her.

Haven't you read your Weldon? Let me help: "… The Italians having a Proverb, He that deceives me Once, it's his Fault; but Twice it is my fault."

I can't imagine what they'd say about 3X.

Quote:

Is this her MO/Norm?

Perhaps a better question: Is this your MO?

Inquiring minds, and all that.