NCNS: spicycups

[John4229]

Had an NCNS incident this past week with spicycups (http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=328352) and figured it was worth sharing so others may be cautioned:

I made arrangements with her the week before I came to town and we texted the day before the appointment to confirm we were still on. Then, on the day, she didn't show. I texted 15 minutes after the appointed time to ask if she was running late and needed more time. No response. Then after 30 minutes to declare it a no-show. No response ever since, by text nor by PM, to apologize for leaving me hanging.

It's been a couple of days, so the benefit of the doubt has expired. Caveat emptor.

I realize she's a BP girl trying to transition to ECCIE, but really needs to step up her game if she's going to play in these waters to serve customers who expect a better level of service and compete with providers who deliver.

Fortunately, I had a couple positive experiences with more established ECCIE providers on my visit - reviews to follow.

[Lacey Companion]

Awesome delivery Babe and I just want to Thank you for setting the example of how to do this with class. BIG KISS TO U! And if she is joining us, I hope u tell her what u said here... standards define us and sharing info keeps us safe and happy. That is the two key concepts IMHO.

[spicycups]

I do apologize. A family emergency arose that required me to leave promptly. We communicated up until i received a call from family. i became overwhelmed and dropped the ball. I am so sorry . It's no excuse for not letting you know. I am very sorry. I am very punctual and respectful of other's time. It was very uncharacteristic of me. I apologize. Hopefully you will give me an opportunity to make it up to you? I would like to show you that I am very professional. Also i was really looking forward to it. I think we can still have a great time. Pm me maybe you will let me make it right.

[John4229]

No worries, spicycups ... I did wait a couple of days before posting the NCNS, figuring that would be time enough for you to get back to me. But sometimes, emergencies pop up and it takes more than a couple of days to resolve the problem. I hope that you were able to take care of the problem and that life is back to normal for you.

Since I was visiting Biloxi from out of town, I'm no longer in the area or I'd take you up on the offer for a make-up session. You handled communications very well up to the point that you dropped off the radar, which is part of the reason it came as a shock when you went dark.

Anyway, I don't hold grudges and will say "all is forgiven" and just let the matter drop.

To the rest of the Biloxi ECCIE community, I'd like to take back the "caveat emptor" ... unless other customers chime in to tell similar tales, please accept her reason as valid, legitimate, and completely understandable.

[Guest043022]

spicycups, at least now you are giving some clue as to what happened.I had a NCNS in Baton Rouge the other night.I text her when I was on the way to let her know I hit traffic and would be a few minutes late, she replied with ok.Got to her incall 12 minutes late and after several texts' calls and pm's, plus waiting for over an hour, I still have not heard from her and have no clue what happened to her or why she did this.Props to you for the explanation.

[Nicolet]

This is wonderful to see! Both situations, in Biloxi and BR were handled in a humble and very professional fashion.

Brava to both ladies!

[Lacey Companion]

I agree Nicolet but I was just appreciating this man for being classy and tactful. It's lovely to see aftet dealing w the trolls.

[Guest043022]

I pm'ed my lady today and she replied with what was a believable excuse as to what happened so that at least solves my mystery.I agree with you Lacey that the OP handled this situation very nicely.Bottom line is sometimes life gets in the way and causes situations out of our control, no need to bash someone before you know the facts.

[Lacey Companion]

BIG KISS to u Riverstud. I feel this way in my personal life too. Never get upset til u know what is upsetting u and be graceful as two wrongs don't make anything right. We ladies see old movies where most all gents have class and character. Now, it's few in a crowd. And thank u both for being in the few.

[Guest043022]

Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

BIG KISS to u Riverstud. I feel this way in my personal life too. Never get upset til u know what is upsetting u and be graceful as two wrongs don't make anything right. We ladies see old movies where most all gents have class and character. Now, it's few in a crowd. And thank u both for being in the few.

Thanks Lacey!You are a beautiful young woman BTW, sure hope I get a chance to meet you one day!!

[Lacey Companion]

BIG KISS! Hopefully 8)

[bonediddly275]

Glad you worked it out. She's always been punctual and very accommodating with me. Happens to the best of us!