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FireR4me · 01-03-2016, 01:43 PM

Set up an with her through Preferred411 and agreed on a date and time. After that I haven't heard a word from her. I had read favorable reviews and was looking forward to meeting her but she was a no NCNS. I just want to warn others that this may happen so don't count on her.

greyghost48 · 01-03-2016, 06:56 PM

Thanks for the heads up. I was thinking of giving her a try but would have to make a drive to see her. I think she was traveling the coast route a while back when I first contacted her. She seemed agreeable about coming my way but timing was off then.

I will hold out hope.

Mansruin · 01-03-2016, 08:43 PM

My question would be this. Did you confirm you appointment or try to with her the day before or the day of? Did you try to contact her and got no response back? If you answer yes and did attempt these things and got no response back then you could report her on P411 through her profile click "report a problem" All that does is they cut off her profile until she contacts them and discuss what happens and they make a notation for their records at P411. Then they normally cut back on her profile. However, I usually only reserve this if it was a major inconvenience to me. Drove an hour to her incall, or book a room because she was outcall only. It's always best to wait 2-3 day's incase of an accident or emergency that truly prevented her from canceling.Only one time have I had a lady that confirmed through P411 cancel and I was almost there after an hour drive. She did offer an extra 30 minutes on our appointment or $100 off my choice. Most respectable providers like her offer it up with out asking just like she did.

If you did not attempt any of those things and no attempt of contact I would not bother reporting. While technically she still should have kept the appointment or contact you to confirm, I usually take it upon myself to confirm the day before, then 3 hours before the appointment, and then just send a courtesy text when I'm leaving to go see her or for outcall that I'm hopping in the shower.

Of course I'm OCD and real picky about keeping appointments, being on time, and canceling asap when needed. I have found most appreciate this line of communication as it puts us both at ease that the appointment is still on.

Not a conversation just a simple email or text saying "I'm just confirming our appointment for tomorrow @ 7:00pm" "I can't wait to meet you today" something along those lines short, sweet, and to the point.

FireR4me · 01-03-2016, 09:50 PM

I did try to confirm with her. I sent both PM's through Preferred and by email. I even included my phone number to try and make it more convenient and got nothing. After I sent her a message explaining how hard it was for me to find time to make appointments and that I felt it was unprofessional. She had ample time to respond. After she read that message and still didn't respond I posted the above comments. I'm sure you know when you PM someone on Preferred it shows when they have read the message.

bamaboy1 · 01-07-2016, 12:30 AM

I have seen baby several times and she has always been the best. She did have a car accident last week and has been having some trouble getting around. I am sure that given the chance she would have made it.

FireR4me · 01-08-2016, 05:27 PM

I would have been cool and totally understand of that. But I received no corresponden. She was getting my messages and just not responding. Take about a minute to send a email or text. She did finally give somewhat of an apology about a day a go after all was said and done.

french cannon · 01-11-2016, 09:25 PM

I have not had any trouble with her ncns. Shes always on time when our schedules match up

War damn · 01-12-2016, 02:38 AM

I had an a similar issue where we agreed on a time and then 5 minutes before she moved it back, waited thirty minutes and then she just kept moving it back. She called me about two hours later and asked I was still around and I happened to be right next to her hotel leaving town and I want to see how she would make it up. Let's just say, she made up for it!

Lacey Companion · 02-03-2016, 01:03 AM

Sometimes providers get spooked; especially when they are newbie. Sometimes girly issues arise. Sometimes the babysitter calls w an emergency or other things happen like I knew a girl whose sister's husband was beating on her sister and she had to run out of a double w me and my special friend w no explanation. He was insulted thinking it was to do w him. It's just not sexy so they r nervous to tell ya. I don't know Baby. She seems sweet and fun but she is new so I would say don't pry, give her a chance to make it up without pushing the "why" question. Overall, she seems to being doing pretty well and she will develop more professionalism as time goes on. If u were 20 and had a first date w a girl in the real world and got sick w the Hershey squirts as u were preparing to leave... just put urself in those shoes for a minute as a comparative analysis. Sometimes u just can't say the words so honest people just clam up.

Just a provider's .o2