Hagglers

[wildwing]

Three types of Johns.

Cheap hagglers who only consider themselves.

Responsible hobbyist who try to balance their finances along with their desire to share some time with someone who can brighten their day. I would guess 40% of hobbyist are in this category. Most would love to do an hour but most of the time I bet a lower cost is all they can do.
Then there are the affluent and they typically can be very generous. They typically set the bar for expensive companionship.

I am definitely in the second group. My favorite session is 30 minutes around lunchtime. It keeps me well UTR and I get what I desire. Overtime I have learned that some things just don't happen unless a unusual situation presents itself. So be it.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by BassCat

I am guilty of asking for for half hour visits even if its not advertised. I personally dont think of it as cheap or rude as long as your respectful. I seldom can get msog in an hour anymore and rarely care to try these days. Plus half hour visits fit my schedule much better since I hobby primarily during the day. I also get to hobby more since the price of the half is usually considerably less than the hour. I usually offer to either not review at all or say that I came for the hour and state usual rate or advertised rate in the review.

I kind of feel responsible for this post since I sent a pm to Heidi inquiring about a half hour visit with one of her girls vising biloxi. I am sorry if I came across as cheap or rude and did not mean to upset you in anyway. I truly respect and appreciate the job the ladies perform and fully support their getting compensated what they deem adequate for their time. I like to think that I am known as a decent guy who treats the women I meet kindly and with respect. I am just of the mindset that it doesn't hurt to ask, and I will continue to do so. If told no I move on and only inquirer again in the future if I see a review stating a half was available.

Before contacting her did you do your research & see if she offers half ? When you contacted her did you tell her you would write her a review?

Why do you even feel its necessary to tell a provider about a review we all know clients ate capable of writing a review so why include it in your inquiry?

[BassCat]

I did check a few reviews to see if I saw a half offered. I did not see any so I sent a pm stating that I would be interested in a half hour at half her hourly rate while she was visiting my town. I stated that I would either not leave a review or leave a review for an hour, as common sense implies that if she doesn't offer half hour visits normally she would not want a review for a half hour. I see that as merely common sense and its what I have done before in the past.

I truly did not mean to offend anyone. I have been hobbying for the better part of two decades now and have never had a single issue asking for a half hour before in the past. They either say yes, no, or dont respond at all. I dont see whats wrong with asking as long as your not pushy or impolite. I have had many accept and had a great time visiting them for the half. I have also had many say no and I never saw them or eventually saw them for the full hour.

I dont see it as insulting to ask. If you keep on asking after being told no then thats different altogether. I would not nor have I ever pestered someone who declined. I am smart enough to know that if you say no once then there is no reason to ask again. A simple if you change your mind let me know will suffice.

[wildwing]

I would like to understand the OP's point though. $150 for 30 minutes is still pretty nice wages especially if you check out the reviews of the guy. For instance, drew D offered a 90 minute session for a 60 minute session price. Just so happen at that time I could do it although it ended up cutting into my gambling budget. As I thought she was top notch provider and it was awesome. I would LOVE to love all those ladies but I can't without drawing attention by my SO. But that's OK I accept that please don't consider someone like me cheap. Damn there are quite a few very passionate ladies in BR that love me, just wanted to expand my opportunities.

[Nicolet]

Another thing that seems to be overlooked is, while a guy is having his drive thru lunch with a provider, either in a hotel or private residence, there may be eyes watching how long the drive thru lane is, ie: hotel staff or nosy neighbors.

Edit: While your wiping your face from your quick lunchtime treat, the provider is there with the prying eyes.

Just offering a different perspective.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by BassCat

I did check a few reviews to see if I saw a half offered. I did not see any so I sent a pm stating that I would be interested in a half hour at half her hourly rate while she was visiting my town. I stated that I would either not leave a review or leave a review for an hour, as common sense implies that if she doesn't offer half hour visits normally she would not want a review for a half hour. I see that as merely common sense and its what I have done before in the past.

I truly did not mean to offend anyone. I have been hobbying for the better part of two decades now and have never had a single issue asking for a half hour before in the past. They either say yes, no, or dont respond at all. I dont see whats wrong with asking as long as your not pushy or impolite. I have had many accept and had a great time visiting them for the half. I have also had many say no and I never saw them or eventually saw them for the full hour.

I dont see it as insulting to ask. If you keep on asking after being told no then thats different altogether. I would not nor have I ever pestered someone who declined. I am smart enough to know that if you say no once then there is no reason to ask again. A simple if you change your mind let me know will suffice.

Wel I don't see anything wrong then idk every girl is different

[redfish15]

I would never attempt to haggle over a providers fee. It is what it is. And although I've never asked for or wanted a 30 minute session since I enjoy the sensuality of a session and I don't feel I can get that rushing thru an appt., I have no problems "ordering items not on the menu". Occasionally when I'm in the mood and have the time, I like to invite the lady for lunch/dinner before or after our session. Now, I don't mind giving the lady something for this added time if she requests it, but I'm not interested in paying her full bcd rates. If she is so inclined then great. If not no big deal. The main thing I feel is--ask politely and be a gentleman. That'll keep you out of most of the drama.

[disilene]

Some of you are protesting that you don't do this tooooooo much.......sounds guilty to me

[jl11]

Originally Posted by BassCat

I did check a few reviews to see if I saw a half offered. I did not see any so I sent a pm stating that I would be interested in a half hour at half her hourly rate while she was visiting my town. I stated that I would either not leave a review or leave a review for an hour, as common sense implies that if she doesn't offer half hour visits normally she would not want a review for a half hour. I see that as merely common sense and its what I have done before in the past.

I truly did not mean to offend anyone. I have been hobbying for the better part of two decades now and have never had a single issue asking for a half hour before in the past. They either say yes, no, or dont respond at all. I dont see whats wrong with asking as long as your not pushy or impolite. I have had many accept and had a great time visiting them for the half. I have also had many say no and I never saw them or eventually saw them for the full hour.

I dont see it as insulting to ask. If you keep on asking after being told no then thats different altogether. I would not nor have I ever pestered someone who declined. I am smart enough to know that if you say no once then there is no reason to ask again. A simple if you change your mind let me know will suffice.

Oh come on now dude. Apologizing and explaining yourself to pretentious hookers that call you cheap for asking a legit non offensive question eh. Let the ladies wear the panties.

[BassCat]

I cant help it my mother beat it into me when I was a little boy "play nice" I can still hear her say it in my head, god rest her soul.

I dont think that apologizing makes me any less of a man. I honestly had no intention of offending her in anyway. I only apologized because it seems even though it wasn't my intention I did offend her with my pm asking for a half hour appointment.

Heidi has always been nothing but nice to me in the past. She did not personally call me out in the thread or even reply to any of my post. I just dont see any reason to act any other way. She has every right to the way she feels about half hour appointments. So if being polite makes me a girl so be it. I probably will look good in pink lace panties anyway. Maybe I should change my handle to Caitlyn Jenner

[DallasRain]

Woohooo I luv a guy in lacey pink panties!

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Woohooo I luv a guy in lacey pink panties!

Haha My Mental Image Eyes Are Burning

[wildwing]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

Another thing that seems to be overlooked is, while a guy is having his drive thru lunch with a provider, either in a hotel or private residence, there may be eyes watching how long the drive thru lane is, ie: hotel staff or nosy neighbors.

Edit: While your wiping your face from your quick lunchtime treat, the provider is there with the prying eyes.

Just offering a different perspective.

Agree with your aspect so sometimes I use props, go down exit stairs, bring lunch anything to make it seem normal. Next time I might use my Dominoes shirt and pizza carrier.

Back to the main topic though, Jr. doesn't manage my bank account so he is not allowed to set my life style. Also being my age, why would I always want to have an extended session when there is no point. 20 years ago it would have made a lot of sense but I was not in the hobby back then.

On the other hand if a provider has good FBSM skills ala Skylar then an hour has added value.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by wildwing

Agree with your aspect so sometimes I use props, go down exit stairs, bring lunch anything to make it seem normal. Next time I might use my Dominoes shirt and pizza carrier.

Back to the main topic though, Jr. doesn't manage my bank account so he is not allowed to set my life style. Also being my age, why would I always want to have an extended session when there is no point. 20 years ago it would have made a lot of sense but I was not in the hobby back then.

On the other hand if a provider has good FBSM skills ala Skylar then an hour has added value.

Just like skylar who has fantastic FBSM skills I also offer a hour session with bbbj because I find alot of men enjoy this session... It also keeps those who don't understand the true meaning of pure relaxation of a awesome body rub with a release at the end... I get alot of people asking for 30 Min fbsm for a true fbsm you can't accomplish it in 30 min its pointless... In reality it would be 15 min of massage & 15 min of bbbj which is retarded

[turbo-dog]

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

In reality it would be 15 min of massage & 15 min of bbbj which is retarded

. IDK... Anything than ends in a BBBJ is a winner in my book!