Hagglers

[radio109]

Originally Posted by Discreet referrals

If a girl offers half hours, wouldn't she advertise it?
QUOTE=radio109;1057663580]I'm definitely guilty of hitting girls up for half hours lol, I do it constantly. Whats wrong with it though? I'm not trying to be a smart ass. I always thought if I didn't see it listed on her showcase it wouldn't hurt or be that big of a deal to ask.

I think most guys don't ask enough questions and it leads to negative reviews(although they are usually "yes" reviews), that or they get incomplete answers and their exceptions weren't met. Just my opinion and I'm a noob so take it for what its worth.

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longdong said it better than I ever could, some do some don't.

Originally Posted by albundy

I can understand why it would annoy a provider if the guy haggled when they got to the appointment. It's your pussy, charge what you think you can get or what's comfortable to you. I never haggle. I find out if she's in budget BEFORE I ever contact a lady. You advertise a set rate and that's that. I get it.

One thing that always annoyed me though, is the way some providers call someone that CAN'T afford $300-$400 an hour "cheap". Not being able to afford something is not "cheap". For instance, I can't afford over, maybe $150 right now, and that's pushing it. Things are slow as shit right now. I still want to fuck though, so it's bargain hunting time for me.

I've heard, "Just save". Well, saving for that long just to nut one time, then start saving again is hard to do. Also, if I have $400, I'm buying 2 girls for 2 separate hours instead of the one girl for one hour. I've found there is precious little difference between the providers that offer $150/$200hr and the ones that offer $300/$400 an hour.

One problem is that when things are slow, $150 is actually harder to part with than the $300 is to part with when things are going good. But, it is what it is. I realize there are a bunch of doctors and lawyers on here that think nothing of spending $1200 on a bottle of wine, so $300 is like vending machine money to them. For me and some of the other guys on here, not so much.

Don't get me wrong, if you can get a lot of money for an hour, I don't blame you. You'd be foolish not to charge what you can get. I'm just saying I'm not "cheap".


FUCK! I wish Gianna freakin' lived down here. $220 hr/$140hhr, good looking, sloppy bbj, really passionate, nice as can be, allows pics and videos, and is budget friendly enough to not have to wait forever between visits.

I hear that bundy, cheap and generous are relative terms. There are a lot of wealthy men in Louisiana but unfortunately I am not one of them.

[rfl]

I agree with Al, it doesn't necessarily make you cheap. I see nothing wrong with asking for half hours. If I don't want MSOG, a half hour is plenty of time. What i do see wrong is when someone tries to keep asking you after you give an answer. Not accepting her answer and continuing to haggle is wrong. But please don't assume we are cheap because we don't need a full hour.

[Lena Duvall]

I don't think it is inherently cheap if a gent wants to book a half hour appointment. But for me "cheap" is less about access to money, or lack of access to money for that matter. Ultra rich people can indeed be cheap. Either way, in my opinion, haggling with a provider about her rate has much more to do with power than it has to do with money.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by albundy

I can understand why it would annoy a provider if the guy haggled when they got to the appointment. It's your pussy, charge what you think you can get or what's comfortable to you. I never haggle. I find out if she's in budget BEFORE I ever contact a lady. You advertise a set rate and that's that. I get it.

One thing that always annoyed me though, is the way some providers call someone that CAN'T afford $300-$400 an hour "cheap". Not being able to afford something is not "cheap". For instance, I can't afford over, maybe $150 right now, and that's pushing it. Things are slow as shit right now. I still want to fuck though, so it's bargain hunting time for me.

I've heard, "Just save". Well, saving for that long just to nut one time, then start saving again is hard to do. Also, if I have $400, I'm buying 2 girls for 2 separate hours instead of the one girl for one hour. I've found that there is precious little difference between the providers that offer $150/$200 an hour and the ones that offer $300/$400 an hour.

One problem is that when things are slow, $150 is actually harder to part with than the $300 is to part with when things are going good. But, it is what it is. I realize there are a bunch of doctors and lawyers on here that think nothing of spending $1200 on a bottle of wine, so $300 is like vending machine money to them. For me and some of the other guys on here, not so much.

Don't get me wrong, if you can get a lot of money for an hour, I don't blame you. You'd be foolish not to charge what you can get. I'm just saying I'm not "cheap".


FUCK! I wish Gianna freakin' lived down here. $220 hr/$140hhr, good looking, sloppy bbj, really passionate, nice as can be, allows pics and videos, and is budget friendly enough to not have to wait forever between visits.

Well I hate when high dollar providers disrespect me for being in the low range as far as rates & disrespect the clients who see lower dollar girls that pisses me off.. I could be high dollar but choose to have reasonable rates because not everyone is a walking atm & ive met alot of awesome guys who aren't rich.. It never happened texas but it did in OKC..

They said the clients that see lower dollar girls are uneducated which is completely bullshit...

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

I don't think it is inherently cheap if a gent wants to book a half hour appointment. But for me "cheap" is less about access to money, or lack of access to money for that matter. Ultra rich people can indeed be cheap. Either way, in my opinion, haggling with a provider about her rate has much more to do with power than it has to do with money.

For me cheap is when they want to negotiate rates wanting a half hour isn't being cheap in all cases not all guys have a hour to kill & thats understandable but if they were to do there research they would know weather they offer that type of session or not..

[radio109]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

I don't think it is inherently cheap if a gent wants to book a half hour appointment. But for me "cheap" is less about access to money, or lack of access to money for that matter. Ultra rich people can indeed be cheap. Either way, in my opinion, haggling with a provider about her rate has much more to do with power than it has to do with money.

LOL, I have to deal with these rich cheap people way to often it seems. Most wealthy people are very intelligent and generous imo though.

I cant imagine pulling some of the douche shit mentioned in this thread but I'm to horny and to busy trying to get some puss/head to deal with that bs lol.

[trekker]

The only time I ever negotiated a lower rate was really accidental. An old favorite who goes in and out of the business sent me a PM saying she was going to be available for a few days and I told her I wasn't going to be able to hook up with her because I'd already spent all my discretionary funds. She cut $100 off her hourly rate and I assured her that I wasn't trying to haggle, but had to decline her offer because I really was broke. She went down another $100, brought dinner, fucked me silly, and stayed overnight. All because of a history of treating her well and being honest with her.

[lakenight]

Ironic how half the ad's says ask "ask about my specials".

[Lena Duvall]

Yes, I think the part about doing one's research is important. As an example, I've offered half hour sessions. But I'm not inclined to at the moment. Yet there is no shortage of providers who currently do. I guess I just get a little confused as to why some gents don't move onto inquiring with a provider who is in line with their needs. Or maybe perhaps checking back another time. As for specials, if I take the time to communicate when a special ends, I do not have the space to entertain inquiries about specials when I'm not offering one.

Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

For me cheap is when they want to negotiate rates wanting a half hour isn't being cheap in all cases not all guys have a hour to kill & thats understandable but if they were to do there research they would know weather they offer that type of session or not..

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

I wouldn't put them on blast.....just say no and disconnect the call/delete the pm (or email) and ignore them. I don't entertain bargain hunting or haggling but I won't get my panties (if i'm wearing any) in a bunch about it either. Luckily it also very rarely happens and if/when it does happen well again a simple 'no' does the trick.

[weebbadd]

Having been around for a while I agree it's a lack of research on the front side. If you want a half hour girl there are plenty just look around. I believe Dorthy that there are so many dumb fucks around that they don't research just presume all of the ladies are the same.
Truth is anything and everything is out there you just have to fined what you like.
I wouldn't ask an lady for a "discount" or "special" if it's not advertised in advance. Now I am a firm believer in a free market but come on dude do your research. If you are a half hour guy look for ladies who advertise as such don't try to get a deal from someone who doesn't advertise anything but an hour rate.
I have been given discounts and deals from regular ladies and have taken them up on it, it's a ymmv thing for sure.
Dudes do the research. You want a discount go to the flea market.
The lady's price is well worth it.

[Discreet referrals]

To each his/her own. It's just not part of the experience for us. I totally offer perks to loyal clients, but not some random guy.

[R.M.]

Most tards that live their life's on this board seem to be the main ones haggling. Not so much on P411 TER or Eros. Just my experience. If you cant afford this hobby move on to one that fits you're financial needs or jack off to the show cases here. They are very vivid.

[BassCat]

I am guilty of asking for for half hour visits even if its not advertised. I personally dont think of it as cheap or rude as long as your respectful. I seldom can get msog in an hour anymore and rarely care to try these days. Plus half hour visits fit my schedule much better since I hobby primarily during the day. I also get to hobby more since the price of the half is usually considerably less than the hour. I usually offer to either not review at all or say that I came for the hour and state usual rate or advertised rate in the review.

I kind of feel responsible for this post since I sent a pm to Heidi inquiring about a half hour visit with one of her girls vising biloxi. I am sorry if I came across as cheap or rude and did not mean to upset you in anyway. I truly respect and appreciate the job the ladies perform and fully support their getting compensated what they deem adequate for their time. I like to think that I am known as a decent guy who treats the women I meet kindly and with respect. I am just of the mindset that it doesn't hurt to ask, and I will continue to do so. If told no I move on and only inquirer again in the future if I see a review stating a half was available.

[Raindog115]

It depends on one's definition of "haggling."

Simply inquiring about the possibility of half hour sessions with a provider when it isn't stated in their ad is not haggling. It is simply asking for clarification on what is available.

I also don't think providers should get bent out of shape if a member sends them a PM stating they only have a certain amount of funds available for an evening and questioning if they are interested. The providers can always say no or not respond. I've done this once or twice and had them respond favorably. There are occasions when providers have nothing scheduled, and they calculate that some money is better than no money. What's wrong with that?

Haggling to me is when a john aggressively talks a provider down on their stated prices or insists on a session length that is explicitly established as not available.