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Originally Posted by biglatinmale
I'm actually a big teddy bear and not a rude person unless if I'm attacked, these threads are discussions and everybody has their opinions but when you start attacking and start the name calling and insults I awnser back in the same matter.
About the ball busting, it's my opinion of the way you act in here, you don't believe me? Go back and read what you typed and how you respond to people who have different opinions than yours.
I will not get into a discussion about the my opinions about you in here, if you would like to discuss it you can pm if you choose to.
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I almost did, but you've had a tendency to take everything I say personally and get defensive before ya even evaluate I might have a valid point. It's like you've been on a mission or something to discredit everything I share and you twist it as if I was addressing everyone in an angry tone. My mission, is to ensure the gents provide what we need in order to stay safe. What exactly is yours? I mean this case, it's awful what happened to the police officer. I feel bad for him and understand it must have been a horrible position to be in. I completely agree, but I see other factors almost everybody overlooked and took for granted without giving it a second thought. Does that make me argumentative? I didn't think so....was just bringing a different view and other aspects to light. And then what happened.........
Glad to know that you are, but go back and read how You, talk to the ladies. Kinda condescending even if ya don't think so. And I didn't start name calling or trying to convince others what your agenda is, if I recall correctly, but I definitely have asked that you back off several times. Once a gent starts.....isn't it fair game to go back at him? I didn't go around whining everywhere what your agenda was, did I? I don't really care, to be frank. Like I've said to plenty of others in my life, we don't have to agree on anything, I'm more than happy to disagree...I'm simply discussing and trying to learn why men might think it's ok to behave certain ways here.
Can nobody imagine how what they say and how they say it might influence....gee...I dunno....someone who ain't quite right. Let's say, someone who might even hurt a lady, because he felt others felt as he really really feels. I mean, he read how horrible all whores are right here in a public forum, where rarely anyone stands up and says hey man, that is not the way it is at all. How many women did that crazy guy kill, here a while back, before the escort shot him dead? What lead him in that direction, to kill prostitutes? It would be horrible to discover others incited his irrational hate of women, don't ya think? I guess it goes with how everyone was angry after 911 and some took it upon themselves to meet out justice concerning that. Be careful what ya share and how ya share it. It very well may incite harm to the ladies. Why wouldn't I want the gents to settle down here?
I dunno, maybe you were never reading what I wrote, in the right tone or something.
I already had haters before I came back to figure out why no one is doing anything about this screening thing. Why all the ladies are caving to not giving refs to other ladies when asked, etc.....
It is not my fault folks get defensive and feel it's an attack when I state facts. They see others getting all riled up and think they'll just join in....it's like being the pied piper calling out to some around here at times. I've tried sugar coating, using a whole lot of words, big and small, stating just the facts and it doesn't matter. Some just choose to side on the side of the angry righteous, and I wonder if it isn't really, that they see in themselves what I am saying is true. Don't know. I ask all the time, but rarely get straight answers. Geez, Teddy Bear....if ya only knew......lol You'd laugh too. ijs
The lady in the story may actually have been a victim, but she doesn't stand a chance one way or another. Mostly because she's a prostitute and then a woman. Look around and take note, my Teddy Bear friend, lots here don't like either one. To me that lady has every bit of value as the police officer. Someone may have just known she worked as she did, and thought they might hold her and her next client up. IDK, because I don't have all the facts. And sure the DA cuts deal with criminals every day. So, who would ya think they'd implicate, even if she wasn't guilty. Guess who is gonna get the most time, because they are gonna be offered plea bargains. ijs If she actually was involved, then yes....she needs to be punished to the fullest extent of the law.
Hey, I have been a woman, my whole life. I completely understand my value to certain men. Those men, are not the men I choose to provide for. I kinda wish the ladies here would value themselves more than they allow others to convince them what that value is.
I really hope both the gents and the ladies learned something from what happened to the police officer who went to see a lady who didn't Hobby safely. It's not as easy as taking/making a call and allowing just any one to come on over for a good time. Stay safe ya'll.
