Mature Providers: What do you want from one?

[Lea Madisson]

Okay...

This is not a young versus old thread... I want to hear from you guys as to what you look for in a mature (over 45) provider... what makes you attracted to one?

I am definitely a mature provider (approaching the fossil catagory!! LOL), and I find in conversations with my guys a broad spectrum of reasons.

I also find that many like the variety, young, older, small, larger... etc...

I also find that different regions have different "leanings"... like New Orleans. NOLA has been good to me as a mature provider. I hope that will be true this week, too!!

So, sure your thoughts!

Smooch!

Lea

[Boe5121]

For me it is just a natural thing. I am a younger guy. In my personal life I have never dated a someone younger than me. In the hobby life I have dabbled with some girls my age or a little younger. I have never really cared for them though. I just find more mature women to be more friendly towards me. You never know though. I might find a younger girl that I enjoy time with, but for now, I will keep up with the mature women.

[Old Horn Dog]

I'm the opposite of Boe: I normally see escorts younger than I, but not always; in RL it's called "age-appropriate," which I've both done & not-done (I got yelled at by a friend's wife for dating an 'age-inappropriate!' girl in her 20's when I was in my 40's). What I look for in a mature provider when I do see one is two things: unhurried laid-back lovemaking & kissing (which a LOT of younger women won't do for various reasons). I have found that w/younger women as well, but more frequently w/more mature women.

[Bigpapa1]

Great subject Lea! I prefer mature women over younger providers, but my reasons may be different than others. My main reason would be my kids are 18/19 and I would never look at my daughters friends in that type of way. Sure I notice if one of them has a nice body or pretty face, but to give them the "please fuck me look", no, not for me. To each his own, but that's why I'm not crazy about seeing the 18/19 year olds. I've always been attracted to ladies older than I am in real life. Just something sexy about them, especially if they have a great body. I find mature women to be more professional, prompt and enjoying what they do for a living.

[Rjames]

Personally I just think mature women are sexy. I love younger women to but mature women just do it for me. I have an appointment with a very sex mature woman Friday morning and I wouldn't trade that for a dozen dates with a younger woman. To each his own.

[rogerdodger]

i haven't met any 'mature' providers in a long time. if i did, i would want the same basic things i want from the providers i do meet ... 1st, is an attractive and honest person who doesn't attempt to fool me with her looks, IOP, or skills. I'm not looking for a PSE, but a seriously great GFE with someone who 'might' be a connection of the limited sort that this situation can have.

2nd, no games. you know your body, i know mine, and i HOPE we both enjoy sex a LOT so that this can be a LOT of fun. some communication about this is really good.

3rd. somewhat lack of inhibition - what i mean by that is ... i'm game for most of what is in my interests and i would want the provider to be that way too. never anything dangerous or painful, but a 'let's try this attitude goes a Long way' ..

frankly, a couple of my favorites are not 19 yo, or hard bodies, or even super skilled. but, they seemed to really enjoy making love ... we weren;t fucking after a few minutes ... and we liked each other.

perhaps i hallucinate ?

[wildwing]

Originally Posted by Boe5121

For me it is just a natural thing. I am a younger guy. In my personal life I have never dated a someone younger than me. In the hobby life I have dabbled with some girls my age or a little younger. I have never really cared for them though. I just find more mature women to be more friendly towards me. You never know though. I might find a younger girl that I enjoy time with, but for now, I will keep up with the mature women.

+1

[luvme98]

The first provider i ever saw, was a mature provider (Angie of louisiana) she was great. It was over 10yrs ago. i was in my early 20's. she got me hooked on the hobby. So for me with a mature provider im just looking for a women that really knows how to take care of me. All i have to do is show up (with donation) lay back and enjoy the ride.

[Ninotsugi]

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

Okay...

This is not a young versus old thread... I want to hear from you guys as to what you look for in a mature (over 45) provider... what makes you attracted to one?

I am definitely a mature provider (approaching the fossil catagory!! LOL), and I find in conversations with my guys a broad spectrum of reasons.

I also find that many like the variety, young, older, small, larger... etc...

I also find that different regions have different "leanings"... like New Orleans. NOLA has been good to me as a mature provider. I hope that will be true this week, too!!

So, sure your thoughts!

Smooch!

Lea

Great Subject Mz. Lea... I don't see that you are making this a Young versus Old Thread,
and I'm hoping that you wanted to hear from more than just the Gentleman of our Board.
I do think that the age criteria of a Mature Provider is perhaps more in the line of Forty and up,
as far as what makes them attracted to us is as varied as ones imagination.

Variety is the Spice of Life... much like when you purchase an Automobile that is Fully-Loaded or
an Amerasian Provider, you will always desire the option that covers the widest imaginable spectrum.

Regions should be taken into account... N.O.L.A. has always been diverse they have the Pallet to prove it;
I'll be there the 28th, 29th, 30th, we should rely try and meet for Lunch!

[gimme_that]

The few rare times I have strategically tried to see an 45 year old or older lady it has been ladies who would be cougars in civilian life. They have a youthful enthusiasm to them that makes age noot significant. They don't appear to look like other ladies their age. They prefer dating younger guys under 35 like me ( I think moreso because she's at her sexual peak, and the younger guys are too for a perfect physical match), they are secure in their sexual inhbitions and thresholds based on their experiences, they are very attentive and moreso pampering to attention to detail things some providers don't , they have nice soft skin, and they are talkatve durng the quiet moments when gregarousness is apprecated.

Still treat her like I would any provider. Id expect her performance to be on par with the younger ladies with no service deficiences. I still want good hearty sex from an attractve older woman facially, with no disclaimers due to age. Haven't met a full handful of ladies yet who match this criteria provider wise. And those that did and peaked my interest had the whole.....butterface syndrome. Attractive fit bodies for ther age, but that face though.........

[bistraight69]

Since we hobby as a couple we enjoy seeing a variety of women. When it comes the mature provider, it can be difficult because you never know what you are going to get. We have had some bad experiences so we are not gonna go there again. It's the misleading photos that make it difficult to figure out what you are gonna get - they are so air-brushed! Plus, the ages some women list are off by like a decade so again it makes it hard to know what you are going to get. Lastly, when you ask one of their customers specifics about how a mature provider looks they often don't answer or just say she is a mature provider what do you expect???

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by bistraight69

Since we hobby as a couple we enjoy seeing a variety of women. When it comes the mature provider, it can be difficult because you never know what you are going to get. We have had some bad experiences so we are not gonna go there again. It's the misleading photos that make it difficult to figure out what you are gonna get - they are so air-brushed! Plus, the ages some women list are off by like a decade so again it makes it hard to know what you are going to get. Lastly, when you ask one of their customers specifics about how a mature provider looks they often don't answer or just say she is a mature provider what do you expect???

I whole heartedly agree with this, especially in regards to getting info from prior customers. Its like they are walking a tight rope and can't say anything even remotely negative about an apearance without getting the horns. They are trained well to focus on the positive and omit any and all negatives revew for review.

[CRISTY-CUPPS]

interesting topic, i see that younger men are answering. I always thought a lot of mature providers did not see younger men.

[albundy]

I just saw your showcase Cristy. 50 + years of age only? I understand the logic but wouldn't that drastically cut down on potential customers? (Nice pictures by the way and yes to your signature line, Nice tits). I don't mean to offend you, by the way. Your body, your rules. I was just curious.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

interesting topic, i see that younger men are answering. I always thought a lot of mature providers did not see younger men.

Usually they don't. But every now and then there's a lady whos the exception to the rule. There are many ladies I saw who I thought were in their thirties but were really fourty.

Reasons I have heard more mature providers don't or won't see younger men.

1. They have to much stamina, and want too much sex that the older ladies aren't as accustomed too. Although I'm sure viagra has evened the odds here. Lol

2. They review the ladies with more of a bluntly honest view than their older counterparts who may butter up a review on body characterstics older folk won't be as concerned with..

3. They are too close to her childrens age, and she wants to avoid incidents where the younger guy may be in the same age group as her children.

4. Younger guys tend to want to have more creative control in sessons where she's moreso submissive........where's as older clients tend to go wth the flow of the session and let her lead.

5. Younger guys tend to see ladies when they are single, and may have more of a tendency to get clingy.
5a. Younger guys have more tendency to be pimps.
6. They can't relate to younger age groups because they are too out of touch with a slightly younger demographic.