Proper etiquette for a hobbyist

[dsmcurious]

I'm a newbie planning on meeting with a gorgeous provider for the very first time soon.
My question is regarding proper etiquette once the day and time are set. When I show up at the location what do I do first, what is the proper behavior for a hobbyist?

May sound like a stupid question, but I'd hate to put the provider in an uncomfortable spot by my own ignorance in not knowing how things are supposed to work.

This question is for males or females alike. Feel free to pm me if you like.

Thanks

[ShockerSteve]

Ask her for her preference but I'd say by phone. Read reviews if you have access to see how comfortable she is. Donation in an envelope, left quietly on the dresser or where she directs you to. Then just follow her lead. Her job is to make you comfortable and at ease. You've done your homework, she's done hers. Enjoy the time-it's what you want right?

Probably the national forum has some info and provider websites often have etiquette preferences. Be freshly showered and shaven or ask to use her facilities ahead of time. Likewise with mouthwash but rinse with water so you don't overpower her. Dressed for success. No cologne or scents that will turn her off.

Remember-she likes regulars. First time is fun but it's the next ones that really rock it-like any relationship the more comfortable you get the better the company.

Act like you belong then follow her lead. Please, thank you, genuine compliments, hug and friendly kiss on the way out. I've never taken flowers or gifts but check her profile page and get a gift card if you'd like. She's a woman, but a professional, she's done this before she'll put you at ease but reciprocate.

[normalguy21]

What shocker said -add that to just be your self .

If you were at work and a customer came and asked you[ what would be a good day for you at work] -What would you reply ?

Most i have known would say not to be at work .If you want to be nice take them on a real date -maybe you might get lucky . Maybe

[livn2do]

If she has a website, read it and do what it says.

[JennaKae]

All providers have their own way of doing things, so I can only speak for myself.

If I have screened you, there should be no reason to discuss money , or for you to have to mention it or direct me to an envelope you have 'discreetly' placed somewhere.
If I am comfortable enough to see you, I should be comfortable enough to wait until our time together ends to deal with the 'donation'.

You should be clear on the session time/rate from a provider's ad or website. No need to ask about money/services ~ ESPECIALLY during your first meeting.
Absolutely hate when first time clients ask me to confirm my rate as they are taking out their wallet before even sitting down!!

I realize many girls insist on the donation up front. I just feel if I screened you well enough, I should not have to worry and I have NEVER been ripped off.


Also, you can NEVER go wrong grabbing a bottle of wine and/or flowers for a girl. You can grab a cute bundle of flowers and a bottle of wine at Trader Joes for $10 - $15.

Just my two cents worth!!
Ya'all have a happy day!!
peace n love....J

[DallasRain]

Ditto on all above answers

Rule number one...read the reviews and her web page and posts here to get a "feel" for her & who she is

have fun!!!