would you marry/have child by provider?

[planojim]

THN is a HOOT isn't she Berkleigh!

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Jesus Fucking Christ I'm dying laughing!

[hk toys]

Would provider be able to get away with a regular wife's excuse?

"I'm tired (from work), don't feel like doing the head thing honey"

Husband:

"But joepacksixinches on TER went into detail of your relentless dome work in his four hour extravaganza"

My personal answer is no and never to the relationship/marriage part. In the most heated of arguments one or both of us will cite this former life and I feel that's just irrecoverable. My only way of being in a committed comfortable relationship with a provider is if I've made a personal sweared vow to never call her a hooker, whore, prostitute, provider, etc.. or even think on or remember that life of hers.

Being pregnant with my child? Yes. Delivering and co-parenting my child- No.

Many a woman here are so smoking hot and I'd love to inseminate naturally and watch as my seed grows in them. The part after the child comes out, the legal work, the responsibilities, the 18 year obligation, etc. - NO. So if it's terminated before infancy well, then I'm all good.

[Reverseheadstock]

Short answer, no.
Long answer, no. Because I do not want a pregnancy to give me stretch marks. You think I work this fucking hard on this body to let a baby ruin it?

[daltx_m]

Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

Short answer, no.
Long answer, no.

Ditto times 10

[Guest062217]

Yes...I would have a relationship with a provider....would I get married? hmmm can't say been there done that but I am not anti-marriage.

[timothe]

I don't have an SO but I found that an SD/SB relationship has most of the same benefits of marriage without the emotional pitfalls. (It's certainly a more honest exchange.) But It does not have the same emotional benefits, which I miss on occasion and there is no joy of the shared experience of raising children with an SB, That said, I enjoy my freedom much more often than I bemoan my loneliness. And if the SB relationship goes bad, I can just get another one with little emotional residue.

[Permission Granted]

Not with a provider, but I have with strippers... 2 different times actually. First wife didn't work out all that well after I was laid off and she went back to work, decided she hated men, me included.

Thought I'd never do that again but many years later I met the one... Fell hard and fast and spent years together, then finally got married. There was always some type of drama, but she was beautiful, bi sexual, and lots of fun. I'd still be married to her if she hasn't passed away from a tragic auto accident.

Now, I'm trying hard to stay single and just play, but my ATF stripper is thinking of getting out of the business, and I just might have to see if she's up for a SB SD arrangement.

Every relationship is different, they all have their perks and their drawbacks. Just be sure jealousy isn't a part of the relationship on either side regarding past or present or you're headed in the wrong direction.

[Scribe]

What difference does it make (in these arguments) that she was a provider or he, a hobbyist?

(Give me a second here to set this up... (1) Don't be ridiculous here in assuming any marriage is going to last with an "active provider" or "active hobbyist" involved... any more than a marriage with infidelity will last. (2) Going in to raising a child in a situation with a 95% failure rate - even if the active provider and/or the hobbying client are "wonderful people" - is just f'ing "weak"... A kid needs a chance in this world; what kind of selfish bastards would bring a kid into this world with this as a starting point?)

Now the reality... IF both the hobbyist and the provider completely stopped outside sex after they married. and committed to each other to remain faithful, were honest and dedicated, good people suitable for parenthood; with similar financial and life goals and were financially stable (without needing "provider money")...

...then what difference would it make that she was a provider and he a hobbyist, before the marriage?

My point is EVERYBODY who's not a virgin at marriage has had sex. I've known (and married) women who (I'll bet) have had more "play" than some providers... but that doesn't mean anything because "before is before" and "now is now"...

So, yeah - I'd marry a provider, and (if it was in the cards) we'd have a kid... but only if the intention was to "move forward on that joint path - and leave the rest in the past".

[Biff Biffington]

I would like to marry OldButStillGoing's avatar. She makes my pants go crazy!

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Biff Biffington

I would like to marry OldButStillGoing's avatar. She makes my pants go crazy!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WfEmN-50el8