Screening in Houston

[Luvs2Purrr]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

so gentlemen members shouldn't assume that being here is ALL that they will need for screening.

AMEN SISTER!

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by onawalkabout

Ok listen up
Do you know what this board is for?

It is a place for people like me to inform other people like me about providers.
2nd it's a place for Providers to inform us of there services.
3rd it's a place for providers to share there thoughts on people like me.
And a place to vent about whatever.
And don't worry about ONA I have plenty of ladies that know me.
It is not about safety. It's about you not ripping me off or intruding on my life.
Some bitches be crazy.

You just stated my case that this is NOT a screening site. It is informational, a haven for discussion and debate. Said exchange does help alleviate concerns about safety (physically and mentally) for providers and clients alike, and it helps protect our respective time and wallets. Privacy must be respected on both sides, but...

Some dudes be nuts.

[FoxyNC]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Some dudes be nuts.

You got that right!!!

Don't act surprised, as though this were news, Sir.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by onawalkabout

Do you know what this board is for?

It is a place for people like me to inform other people like me about providers.
2nd it's a place for Providers to inform us of there services.
3rd it's a place for providers to share there thoughts on people like me.
And a place to vent about whatever.
And don't worry about ONA I have plenty of ladies that know me.
It is not about safety. It's about you not ripping me off or intruding on my life.
Some bitches be crazy.

You Want Pussy Then You Have To Follow The Rules To Get The Pussy If You Are That Worried About Information Then Take Your Ass To BP & Stop Whining If You Want A Higher Class Lady.. Then You Have To Give Information If You Don't Like There Screening Then Move On If Your Not Hiding Anything Then You Wouldn't Have A Problem...

Reviews Dont Mean Anything When Will People Realize This Grrrrr

Your Just Lazy & Lazy Will Get You Absolutely No Where.... Just Fill Out There Information Everyone Does You Are Not A Gift From Holy Tebow You Have To Do It To...

He contacted me and when I told him to follow rhe directions on my showcase he said it's to much work and he passes... His loss

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

From some of the screenings I have seen most ask for. Which, if they are able to get all of it....I say its great and good for them. But I think I have a more hassle-free screening. As I am also Newbie Friendly. But I do ask for certain things that have kept myself save from trouble in almost 5 years of hobbying and I'm not about to change the way I do things for just one person. AIN'T HAPPENING! MOVE ON

Because if we change it for one person then screening wouldnt really be screening! For every guy who can't follow direction's there are 10 that will...

[Headman]

I think some ladies should realize that we are NOT giving out personal information ; many of us have a lot more to lose than providers. I know there are crazy dudes out there but references should be sufficient.

On another note -- some guys should realize that some providers use screening as a marketing ploy... " if I play hard to get with this pussy.. Maybe you will think it's special"... Guess what it is isn't any more special than the next kitty.. Probably worn out anyway... Just move around to the next provider whose screening isn't overly crazy.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Headman

I think some ladies should realize that we are NOT giving out personal information ; many of us have a lot more to lose than providers. I know there are crazy dudes out there but references should be sufficient.

On another note -- some guys should realize that some providers use screening as a marketing ploy... " if I play hard to get with this pussy.. Maybe you will think it's special"... Guess what it is isn't any more special than the next kitty.. Probably worn out anyway... Just move around to the next provider whose screening isn't overly crazy.

References, if they are GOOD ones, often are sufficient when combined with, say, a searchable handle on a Hobby site and a contact method. To get right down to it, not every lady who gives a reference is considered trustworthy by every other lady, so make sure that you see known providers, at least occasionally. We also need a way to get hold of you OTHER than a PM if an emergency arises.

With all due respect, Headman, I am offended that you think providers have LESS to lose than gentlemen. How so? We are putting our privacy, freedom, and even our lives on the line. This is our profession, just like what you choose to do for work is your profession. We both have to take precautions, and knowing a wee bit about you helps safeguard our personal safety. For one thing, arrest records show the risk of incarceration for a provider far surpasses that of a client. Guys can stalk us once they get our contact info, description, and find out where our incalls are, ruin our relationships by divulging info to our families. (How often do we hear about a hooker's kid being removed by social services, but when was the last time you heard about a "john" losing his kids just for getting handcuffed?) Some ladies do this part-time to make ends meet, and our regular careers can also be killed when the bull hits the boss, and not like we're going to go your job and beat you up if you don't do it to our liking, which DOES happen to us. The physical menace is greater overall for a woman alone in a room with a man, especially a man angry at something that may have nothing to do with her. Statistically the bad stuff occurs at a higher frequency for ladies than the other way around, so tell me again how this is all more hazardous for fellows, please, and how you have more to lose?

And exactly WHO plays screening games based on the perceived value of their pussy4hire over their health and well-being? Name them. I have never even gotten a whiff of a provider doing such a thing. Perhaps this is a delusion of the neanderthal sexist chauvinist teen boy beastmind? Put him back and pull the mature, smart gentleman out again.

I think it comes back to being aware of who you are dealing with; a well-reviewed provider with an established presence is going to be discreet with your info as her reputation depends on how well she treats you in AND out of the bedroom.

[FoxyNC]

Fancy, I may just have to quote some of that last post.

As usual you are a hum-dinger! I mean that in the swellest ways possible!

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Headman

I think some ladies should realize that we are NOT giving out personal information ; many of us have a lot more to lose than providers. I know there are crazy dudes out there but references should be sufficient.
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Want to know the real irony of your statement? In my years in this business, the higher profile, have the MOST to lose gents.. are WAY more likely to give up all the information a lady asks of. The gents who play at a high level are going to be less keen on sharing who they've been with than who they are, where they work, etc.

[anita]

I just need references and your contact infos. If you are a newbie I am going to need real world infos, not willing to provide that it's okay... I just won't be able to see you.

[pyramider]

What if I see you photos of my legendary 1.3" of dangling death dressed in seasonal costumes?

[Guest021817-2]

I know a pretty good company that will put new screens on your place...

You just have to get past the fact.... The screens use to be fishing nets... They are cheap!

[Headman]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

Want to know the real irony of your statement? In my years in this business, the higher profile, have the MOST to lose gents.. are WAY more likely to give up all the information a lady asks of. The gents who play at a high level are going to be less keen on sharing who they've been with than who they are, where they work, etc.

Then those dudes are idiots.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

It depends on what the OP finds excessive information. Your name and phone number? Something beyond that?

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by onawalkabout

I am experiencing allot of request for personal information.
What screening is and is not.
Ladies please be safe. I'm in no way saying don't screen.

What you need from me or any other hobbiest.
1. at least 2 provider references from current providers.
and the reference name (mine is onawalkabout).
If you need to call me something else.
Call me Horney.

What I need from you.
1. Read a few of the ref provider reviews see if she is legit.
2. Contact her ask her about me.
3. Repeat steps 1 and 2 with next provider.
4. Call, text or PM me with the all clear
5. Give me a good time (you can have one too but that's optional)
6. Add to my pool of references.

I am a hobbiest from way back.
I have been all across America, Canada, and as far out as China.
I like to sample the menu wherever I go.

We can both be safe.

Food for thought
Maybe you aren't Crazy or a criminal or LE.
But let's say you have a file of information on people like me.
Nothing good can come of a file.

Just me 2 cents

And I not going to change.

And I have money and time
The rest will fall line it always does.

ONA

Happy hunting

I need you to bend over & kiss your ass back to China...

Proof Your lazy smh If you don't want to do screening go find a street walker...

REVIEWS DONT MEAN ANYTHING ANYONE CAN WRITE ONE... WITH this attitude you will not be seen by anyone