About Welding

[Doove]

Originally Posted by Taskmaster

Well, no it is not. The funny thing about irony is how ironic it can be. Here is irony. A few posts ago, you said that you were believing her story more with each post. As you have stated earlier , her story was that I controlled her through her habits , thus making her my pawn. Now you suggest that it is ironic that I , of all people, call you her pawn - thus implying that I was her pawn. Which is it Dovlin? And that ultimate irony is your next quote!

Maybe it is you who needs to pay more attention to what you say.

A guy who got taken to the cleaners by SAB referred to me as being a pawn of SAB. I'm not sure how my thoughts are at all relevant on whether or not that makes you look foolish. But if you wanna try to turn it around and play a little rope-a-dope, then by all means.

Put it to rest Dovelin.

Dovelin. Good one!

You are going to buy her story that I started and supported her poor health choices and controlled her that way.

Didn't say i buy her story. I simply made the point that the worse you allow yourself to look with your postings, the more credible her story looks. I have little doubt she did what you say she did. Though i'm not as convinced as everyone else around here seems to be since your eloquence only goes so far with me. Nevertheless, when you allow yourself to participate in the gutter, it only makes it seem all the more possible that you also did what she claims you did.

You base that on her story and that I have posts about my Dom relationship with another woman. One , you don't know me at all, and two, you don't understand the Dom/sub relationship -- which is a partnership. Anyone who knows the old "Saige" would know that she would not allow herself to be randomly controlled and abused. It is a dynamic which you just don't get.

There's a fine line separating a D/s relationship and an emotionally abusive one. And when it involves a well established 40something male, and a 22 year old ex-prostitute, i think that line only gets thinner. Frankly, there are woman who allow themselves to be physically abused in a relationship, so i'm not particularly interested in your justification for your controlling of SAB - or Saige for that matter - based on the girl allowing it.

As for the other -- I have run several ultramarathons, climbed to the highpoint of all 50 states, and soon to complete the 7 continental summits. I live a healthy lifestyle. I have an office where I have a complete gym for my staff and they get a 90 minute paid workout session every day with the option of a paid personal trainer and massage therapist. They get paid for not smoking , and get bonuses for lowering their weight and cholesterol. I endorse random drug and nicotine testing for me, my SO, and my staff to assure compliance by all. You may consider this "controlling" while I consider it encouraging a healthy lifestyle.

Entirely irrelevant. But thanks for letting us all know how awesome you are.

Yet you have the gall to accuse me of what you did.

Accuse? No. Point out the possibility that there may be a second side to the story? Guilty as charged. But if you don't like it, then perhaps you should stop throwing yourself into pretty much every conversation about her. Or, as you did in this thread, starting conversations about her.

You don't believe it? Put your money where your mouth is. You spew rumors while I give facts. You give me all your personal info and I will give you mine (although she probably has as she is pretty loose with that stuff) and you can check it out if you wish. Please report back to show if it is all true.

I believe ya. Or i don't. Either way, i believe you as much as i care to believe you, so there's no need to go through all that trouble.

So the only irony is that I let that blood sucking lying thieving infection into my life.

There ya go again.

I have enough introspection to step back and see if that is case with me as I have had some spats with you, jokacz, Lexxxy, MG , and bj (although interestingly MG and bj and I seem to have buried the hatchets). As I looked , I decided that I am comfortable with that , given who I have argued with.

I've had perpetual spats with NB, Jokacz,...and that's pretty much it. My perpetual spat with GP the poster was offset by my praise of him as a moderator. Heck, even with Paulwantsya, i had no problem with him until he got his panties in a bunch and started going after me because i said i thought he lost his way over GP the moderator and Victoria Lane. To a lesser extent, yeah, i've had run-ins with people like Perryay, you, MG, and CC....but i also at one time was considered one of the biggest white-knights on the board. So when people come here and leave people alone, they don't hear so much as "boo" from me.

You , on the other hand? The list would be shorter if we tallied who you have NOT had disagreements with.

Well, that's a lie. But ok.

I was one of the last holdouts who used to think you were not malicious , but just misunderstood. Maybe it is time for you to realize that the problem isn't everyone else. It's you.

Or maybe it's the guys who go around telling a provider she needs more than one area code. And proceed to express disdain for her explanation for her weight issues.

As for welder -- jury is still out. He may be fine, and maybe not. We will need more data.

Agreed.

[elghund]

Originally Posted by welder550

Hey elg..... ur friend kendra has a new add up on bp. Y dont u call her up and tell her I said u can see her for mabe 20min . On me with my 80.00 go 4 it . Then you can give her the review.

Hey Noobie.......

I don't live in Buffalo and never travel to hobby. Never will see the chick because of that. And I don't give a shit who sees her.

But, it seems you missed the whole point, noobie, so here it is:

Don't be a one sentence slammer. Something happens, put the whole fucking story out at once. That's what an information exchange is all about.

Now that you've kindly said what happened, everyone can benefit with that info. And, Kendra has the opportunity to refute your claim, if she wants.

elg......

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by elghund

Hey Noobie.......

I don't live in Buffalo and never travel to hobby. Never will see the chick because of that. And I don't give a shit who sees her.

But, it seems you missed the whole point, noobie, so here it is:

Don't be a one sentence slammer. Something happens, put the whole fucking story out at once. That's what an information exchange is all about.

Now that you've kindly said what happened, everyone can benefit with that info. And, Kendra has the opportunity to refute your claim, if she wants.

elg......

AND .......
Don't fuck with:
fuckin elg....

[elghund]

Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

AND .......
Don't fuck with:
fuckin elg....

Nice to be recognized by a fuckin Rockstard.....


elg.....

[welder550]

[Boatguy]

Welder thanks for the details. Agree with everyone else that a one sentence slam was the main reason not being taken seriously. Now that have more info we can make informed choices about activity towards this girl. I contacted her also , said she had no incall and I could take the hotel out of her donation. Did not follow through, because it do not know her and the risk was to high and all the hotel rooms in the city were booked or crazy expensive because of the concert this weekend. I said no, also because I read she had incall on sycamore. A street I visited a certain known girl many times last summer, and I liked the location. She did text back that she could get to sycamore, but by then it was too late I had other plans.
So welder I think my experience corroborates you story. There is just no way I am giving cash to a girl I just met to g t a room and expect her to come back.

[welder550]

thanks boatguy ! i know now but i thought i could trust some one like they should be able to trust me but i know now ! very dumb lol!!!!!!!

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by welder550

thanks boatguy ! i know now but i thought i could trust some one like they should be able to trust me but i know now ! very dumb lol!!!!!!!

Hopefully you learned that making this your first ever post on ECCIE:
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...2&postcount=12

you were going to come under scrutiny.
Nice to see you posting after nearly 2 years of lurking.
Everything must have been okay up until now?

[welder550]

i did and then some thanks rockstard ! and u can just call me one liner lol.

[elghund]

Back atcha Welder!

Time to start over.....glad you are beginning to post!

elg......

[welder550]

hey thank elg.... im thinking we wont here from my friend kendra !

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by Doove

A guy who got taken to the cleaners by SAB referred to me as being a pawn of SAB. I'm not sure how my thoughts are at all relevant on whether or not that makes you look foolish. But if you wanna try to turn it around and play a little rope-a-dope, then by all means.




Dovelin. Good one!



Didn't say i buy her story. I simply made the point that the worse you allow yourself to look with your postings, the more credible her story looks. I have little doubt she did what you say she did. Though i'm not as convinced as everyone else around here seems to be since your eloquence only goes so far with me. Nevertheless, when you allow yourself to participate in the gutter, it only makes it seem all the more possible that you also did what she claims you did.




There's a fine line separating a D/s relationship and an emotionally abusive one. And when it involves a well established 40something male, and a 22 year old ex-prostitute, i think that line only gets thinner. Frankly, there are woman who allow themselves to be physically abused in a relationship, so i'm not particularly interested in your justification for your controlling of SAB - or Saige for that matter - based on the girl allowing it.




Entirely irrelevant. But thanks for letting us all know how awesome you are.



Accuse? No. Point out the possibility that there may be a second side to the story? Guilty as charged. But if you don't like it, then perhaps you should stop throwing yourself into pretty much every conversation about her. Or, as you did in this thread, starting conversations about her.



I believe ya. Or i don't. Either way, i believe you as much as i care to believe you, so there's no need to go through all that trouble.



There ya go again.



I've had perpetual spats with NB, Jokacz,...and that's pretty much it. My perpetual spat with GP the poster was offset by my praise of him as a moderator. Heck, even with Paulwantsya, i had no problem with him until he got his panties in a bunch and started going after me because i said i thought he lost his way over GP the moderator and Victoria Lane. To a lesser extent, yeah, i've had run-ins with people like Perryay, you, MG, and CC....but i also at one time was considered one of the biggest white-knights on the board. So when people come here and leave people alone, they don't hear so much as "boo" from me.



Well, that's a lie. But ok.



Or maybe it's the guys who go around telling a provider she needs more than one area code. And proceed to express disdain for her explanation for her weight issues.



Agreed.

Very good. I accept your apology. On we go...


And thanks for the clarification Welder.

[welder550]

ok! thanks taskmaster !

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Can you describe what a "full schedule" is? I'm sure many, including Welder, would be interested.

Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

Full scedule would be...The amount of people wanting to see you, going above and beyond the times that u are able to make dates

Sounds like "a lot".
Is that accurate?
Do you schedule back to back to back?

[welder550]

Originally Posted by Paulwantsya

Sounds like "a lot".
Is that accurate?
Do you schedule back to back to back?

lol.lol. well not that many back to backs lol.