Scammers Beware...

[Still Looking]

Houston, Austin & San Antonio. Guys a scum bag. He'll just go to another handle!

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Houston, Austin & San Antonio. Guys a scum bag. He'll just go to another handle!

I'm sure he is...but correct me if I am wrong, the handle she knew of had warnings regarding him correct?

My contention is that bitching about something like this minimizes the woman's involvement in this. Had she DONE what she calls everyone out for in her first sentence, this likely would not be an issue would it? At least SHE would not have been victimized.

She further "shakes the proverbial finger" at every monger in a 3 city area and the Ho has never ventured outside of Houston.

This, inadvertently or not, labels ALL of us as potentially bad when in fact she didn't do her job at screening and got burnt...

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Toyz

I'm sure he is...but correct me if I am wrong, the handle she knew of had warnings regarding him correct?

My contention is that bitching about something like this minimizes the woman's involvement in this. Had she DONE what she calls everyone out for in her first sentence, this likely would not be an issue would it? At least SHE would not have been victimized.

She further "shakes the proverbial finger" at every monger in a 3 city area and the Ho has never ventured outside of Houston.

This, inadvertently or not, labels ALL of us as potentially bad when in fact she didn't do her job at screening and got burnt...

I'm looking at it from a different angle. Assuming in this she said he has yet to say anything that she in fact got screwed for both three hours and then by NOT getting paid. That's a really shitty thing to do. second guy like me who ALWAYS pay after the fact get shit. Like "how do I know your not like Grunt69?" Not fair is it? Toyz I'm certain you would never screw a lady around like that as well. Next thing you know all the girls will want their money up front opening the flood gates to the scammers!

Let's face it some girls don't even know how to screen that doesn't make it OK to screw them over!

Bottom line is there are a few shitty guys and gals that cause us "all" to be cautious! Sad but true!

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I'm looking at it from a different angle. Assuming in this she said he has yet to say anything that she in fact got screwed for both three hours and then by NOT getting paid. That's a really shitty thing to do. second guy like me who ALWAYS pay after the fact get shit. Like "how do I know your not like Grunt69?" Not fair is it? Toyz I'm certain you would never screw a lady around like that as well. Next thing you know all the girls will want their money up front opening the flood gates to the scammers!

Let's face it some girls don't even know how to screen that doesn't make it OK to screw them over!

Bottom line is there are a few shitty guys and gals that cause us "all" to be cautious! Sad but true!

You're missing my point my friend. I don't condone his actions. WE are guilty by association BECAUSE she didn't do her screening correctly...

[skeeter]

"1. We check his references.
2. We check a "ladies only" board on Eccie for any warnings.
3. We check his posts/reviews/presence of Eccie.
3. We check Date Check
4. We check Google/Facebook/LinkedIn/Reverse phone look-up, etc.
5. We check on Verify Him (paid service)

I did all but #5. The providers (that he paid) said he was okay. I had no reason to doubt them. The morning after the asswipe stiffed me, I sure as heck paid for a membership on Verify Him. THAT is when I found the 14 negative reviews.

At least I'm making a concerted effort to warn others of his tactics. He won't get away with this again, that's for damn sure."



The quote above is from the Houston thread on the same topic She admits to not being perfect ...... But made a better effort than many to screen ....

As to not venturing out of Houston ... I can verify that is not true.... Not everyone reviews every encounter ..

[rockerrick]

3 city warning is the smart thing to do, I personally hobby all 3 cities. She just needed the knowledge of how to search the forums better, if she had that knowledge previously, she would have found Chelsea's post that he did it to her. This site doesn't come with an instruction manual, and she only started in Aug. Because she did post here, her and Chelsea both now have the information, possibly others who have not posted.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

3 city warning is the smart thing to do, I personally hobby all 3 cities. She just needed the knowledge of how to search the forums better, if she had that knowledge previously, she would have found Chelsea's post that he did it to her. This site doesn't come with an instruction manual, and she only started in Aug. Because she did post here, her and Chelsea both now have the information, possibly others who have not posted.

Look I'm not trying to be the polarizing guy in this mess, but I do take offense to a Hoogar who doesn't play in another city calling out ALL mongers in that city.

and this statement is exactly that-shes pissed off at ALL mongers because she didn't learn the game well enough to prevent getting fucked over & it bit her. Don't have sufficient references? Get your money up front...

Guys - Just so you know, we ladies are a tight community and we have several sites and methods for screening. If you have repeated bad behavior, we will find out.

That's a general warning, it makes EVERYONE look bad, and if she had done her due dilligence, this likely would not have happened. Tell me I'm wrong on that point?

If the guy is a sleeze he needs to be busted...but she fucked up and now every city in Texas gets to hear about it. And like SL says, he'll just use another handle.

I'm done on this subject cause its becoming a pile on and I've opened the door to being the focus of anger and that's on me not anyone else.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Toyz

You're missing my point my friend. I don't condone his actions. WE are guilty by association BECAUSE she didn't do her screening correctly...

That is a good point!

I still want to know how he banged her for THREE HOURS!?

[rockerrick]

Guys - Just so you know, we ladies are a tight community and we have several sites and methods for screening. If you have repeated bad behavior, we will find out.

I too did not like that line and was first to speak up.
She's new and it was not the best choice of wording.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Guys - Just so you know, we ladies are a tight community and we have several sites and methods for screening. If you have repeated bad behavior, we will find out.

I too did not like that line and was first to speak up.
She's new and it was not the best choice of wording.

[rockerrick]

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

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[Toyz]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

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