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Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
Thankfully, I don't have to deal with that anymore
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Isn't it wonderful!!
It's been nearly a year now for me and I am love-love-loving it! I think my sexuality has enhanced since I stopped having "one"... It's awesome!
But, when I
did, it happened twice.
The first time we didn't know it until we were done, and yes I was absolutely mortified, embarrassed, etc. I immediately apologized and offered the donation back, he politely declined but I insisted he take at least half back, he declined again so I told him to take what ever he wanted out of the donation and what ever he took back, I offered that amount off our next session should he want to schedule again...and I'm still seeing him as a client today.
2nd time, it hit about 6 minutes after he showed up. I immediately burst into tears because he was from out of town just passing through, probably never coming back to Big D and leaving my place for airport immediately after our appointment and no time to schedule with anyone else. I offered the donation back, he said no and settled with a BJ.
I was very surprised to see he left the entire donation AND left a hefty tip. I called him to come back and get some of it back because it was waaaay to much for a BJ, he declined and told me "hey, I'm married, it happens" but thanked me for not trying to cover it up and act all shocked "after the fact" and could tell I was truly shocked when it happened.
There were a few times I started when I had some appointments pre scheduled, BUT I ALWAYS called and let them know, offered to cancel, keep appt and finish with BJ, keep appt and use dark towels and shower after, etc BUT I totally left the decision
up to the client.
And just FYI to the chics who KNOW they are "that time of the month" and act shocked after the session...DONT BE A GREEDY BITCH. It's wrong, it's gross, it's rude AND it's a total lack of respect to the hobbyist. Notify them ahead the minute you start and let them decide....