I suppose this is a bit off-topic, albeit related: a real-life experience I had over the past week.
Sat down at the bar of a local restaurant last Tuesday, and within seconds of getting served my drink, the 40-something woman two seats away from me propositioned me for a dance.
"I can't dance worth shit", I told her; but if she'd lead, I'd risk making a fool of myself.
Before the end of the first dance, our hands and lips were all over each other.
(My back was turned when my ATF, departing a private party in the adjoining room, grinned at her, winked, and gave her two thumbs up.)
Two days later, on my way from the office to the gym next door, I checked my cell 'phone and found that she'd sent a text: She hadn't been honest with me about not having an SO; she was married, and would understand if I did not want to see her again. "But I do think u r very sexy", she added.
As I told her last Thursday night, while meeting with her for another round of drinks:
"I should have been shocked that you'd lied to me, and disgusted that you're a married woman, trying to cheat on her hubby."
"Yes, you should," she replied.
"Well, to my surprise, my reaction was that I immediately got a raging hard-on that wouldn't quit...as I was headed to the gym, about to enter a locker room full of naked men..."
We'll see how this plays out over the next few weeks.