Incalls vs Outcalls PSA

[Danielle Reid]

I normally only do outcalls but recently I've been getting an increase on incall requests. That's fine...if you actually show up.

Starting this second, if you request an incall from me I will not go get the room until you are in your car and within 20 minutes away. Sorry if this upsets my current and future clients but sitting all day in an expensive hotel room waiting on weather or not you'll show isn't how I want to spend my time.

Your time is important, so is mine.

Now if I already have an incall then the above doesn't apply.

Also, if you are over 20 minutes late for our set date and you do NOT call me to tell me that you are on the way I WILL give your time to someone else. If you show up and they're there, then you can quietly wait in the hall until it's your turn

I know, I'm coming off as a bitch. But I'm tired of being nice. Had a guy last night show up 40 minutes late claiming he couldn't find my room. It took 40 minutes to find my room when you're inside the hotel? It's not a maze, they have room numbers listed on the walls of all the entrances.

[Flyboy182]

Who can blame any provider for feeling this way? Makes sense to me and I've never met the original poster before the howls of white knight start. The girls aren't doing this cuz they think you're cute. .

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

Who can blame any provider for feeling this way? Makes sense to me and I've never met the original poster before the howls of white knight start. The girls aren't doing this cuz they think you're cute. .

I do it because I think you're cute, Flyboy.

Your brother Benjamin isn't half bad, either.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

Who can blame any provider for feeling this way? Makes sense to me and I've never met the original poster before the howls of white knight start. The girls aren't doing this cuz they think you're cute. .

Your money is cute JK...sort of

[Flyboy182]

Don't tease me Ginger or I'll propose....again. Then you'd break my heart and I'd be a blubbering mess. Very uncool.

MB...if you'd tease just a little bit it wouldnt hurt . At least pretend I'm kinda sorta remotely studly.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

Don't tease me Ginger or I'll propose....again. Then you'd break my heart and I'd be a blubbering mess. Very uncool.

MB...if you'd tease just a little bit it wouldnt hurt . At least pretend I'm kinda sorta remotely studly.

Eh, I tease on camera. In real life you either get fucked or you don't lol

[Guest012617]

You three need to get a room And bring along Benjamen too

[MrHappy4u]

Originally Posted by MaryBeth

. . . I know, I'm coming off as a bitch. But I'm tired of being nice. . . . .

MaryBeth, you are not coming off as a bitch. What you describe are good business practices that I'm betting any client/hobbyist expects when someone is coming to see them.

I've multiple pm's the last few weeks from top shelf providers complaining about the incidents of MALE NCNS. It seems the guys are real quick to post a NCNS, yet don't have the time for text or phone call if they have to cancel. This isn't your girlfriend, wife, employee or whatever. It's a business and these providers are trying to pay the bills are, just like you when you go to the office.

Shame on you!

Rant over

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by MrHappy4u

MaryBeth, you are not coming off as a bitch. What you describe are good business practices that I'm betting any client/hobbyist expects when someone is coming to see them.

I've multiple pm's the last few weeks from top shelf providers complaining about the incidents of MALE NCNS. It seems the guys are real quick to post a NCNS, yet don't have the time for text or phone call if they have to cancel. This isn't your girlfriend, wife, employee or whatever. It's a business and these providers are trying to pay the bills are, just like you when you go to the office.

Shame on you!

Rant over

+1 & thank you MrHappy

[Flyboy182]

Originally Posted by MrHappy4u

MaryBeth, you are not coming off as a bitch. What you describe are good business practices that I'm betting any client/hobbyist expects when someone is coming to see them.

I've multiple pm's the last few weeks from top shelf providers complaining about the incidents of MALE NCNS. It seems the guys are real quick to post a NCNS, yet don't have the time for text or phone call if they have to cancel. This isn't your girlfriend, wife, employee or whatever. It's a business and these providers are trying to pay the bills are, just like you when you go to the office.

Shame on you!

Rant over

Rant on...it only makes all the wrong things harder when common courtesy is ignored. The right things made harder is really the goal here.

[Sidinman78]

That is some bs. The only time a provider had to get a room so we could meet, I went half on it...I appreciated her effort to accommodate so it seemed right to me.

[Ginger Doll]

I guess it happens to us all! Some people are bigger jerks about it than others.

I still not-so-fondly recall the guy from a couple years back who begged me to see him on Christmas eve. I left my family, obtained an incall just for him, and then he completely stood me up – no call or text to cancel, nothing. I waited there for over 45 minutes. Still haven't even received an apology from him.

He even refused to compensate me for the cost of the room.

I occasionally see him put up request/ISO's for silly things that he clearly never has the intent of following through on. My belief is that he can't afford the hobby, just likes to talk about it. As evidenced here. Pretty funny stuff. I still wonder if it would've worked out... Would I have gotten Baco's as a tip?

[Sidinman78]

Sounds like he should just get Mrs Smith...if she's on sale.

[Ginger Doll]

^^^ I see what you did there!

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Sidinman78

That is some bs. The only time a provider had to get a room so we could meet, I went half on it...I appreciated her effort to accommodate so it seemed right to me.

That's why I raised my rates, to cover the room fee