I'd agree with both Rabbit and Palmson.....
Most quality girls are careful and won't usually see anyone new on a whim. They will want to check you out, which, frankly, is only in their best interest and they're foolish if they don't.
Having 'visibility' on a forum like this is EXTREMEMLY helpful. Also, when visiting a provider, maybe a good idea, provided all goes well, to ask them if you can use them as a future reference.
Also, when making initial contact with someone new, I find its helpful to volunteer some info up front...either go ahead and send your references and verification sources, OR at least volunteer that you are familiar with it and comfortable with it.
A lot of girls Ive met are not new to the business, and therefore have a keen business sense about them; they have sharp intuitions, gut feelings, etc. Its important to them to be able to feel comfortable and safe with you. Act and speak as such. Know that they are going to want to know certain info, so be forthcoming and make them feel as much at ease as early on as you can.
Again, be somewhat visible. Some sites are expensive to join, ie Preferred411, but others, like Eccie are free and will go a long way in validating you for future providers.
Hope this helps.
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