What would you do?

[theboss21422]

He's a pimp and trying to sell you on some lovely dovey game

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

No guts. No glory. I kindof like that philosophy.

However, if he lives fairly close to you, you'll have to weigh in the "stalker" issue (which I think that I understand) and the whole "we run into each other all of the time" issue in case this relationship, or whatever it is right now, goes way South.

Or just go for it. Then have a REALLY good Plan B in case the friendship goes awry.

Good luck. He sounds like he makes you feel a bit tingly. Or something else rather wonderful. Seems a shame to not explore the possibilities.

Thanks babe. I'll just keep to myself (except for my BCD fun).

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by theboss21422

He's a pimp and trying to sell you on some lovely dovey game

Damn, I guess I'll have to give up the Nick and Sam's steak for the IHOP steak

[txman123]

JJ, just from tone of your posts, sounds like you're a bit smitten by him and looking for encouragement.
As far as stalker, it may be that he remembers where he sees you and puts himself in position to 'run into' you. It doesn't take much to do that if he's interested in you.
I think you should be open to the situation.
I'm a bit confused, you said his sis and ex-fiancé were in the business, so he understands.
I assume you also mean he knows you are?
Just make sure you and he keep the rules in mind, and yes there are rules -such as play fair, be open and honest with each other, make a distinction between sex with clients and making love with him..

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by txman123

JJ, just from tone of your posts, sounds like you're a bit smitten by him and looking for encouragement.
As far as stalker, it may be that he remembers where he sees you and puts himself in position to 'run into' you. It doesn't take much to do that if he's interested in you.
I think you should be open to the situation.
I'm a bit confused, you said his sis and ex-fiancé were in the business, so he understands.
I assume you also mean he knows you are?
Just make sure you and he keep the rules in mind, and yes there are rules -such as play fair, be open and honest with each other, make a distinction between sex with clients and making love with him..

Thank you very much and appreciate the advice. At this point I'm going to focus on me and other things I have going in my life. But I do enjoy all the feedback appreciate it. But ibupro01 reminded me of a sexy "her" I should give a shout to. That was a fun fucking (pun intended) night.

[Bad_Mojo]

Opportunity seldom knocks twice. Looking at him once your chance has past and living with "what if"....


In my experience, "focusing on myself" is usually something people say to avoid admitting they are afraid.

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by Bad_Mojo

Opportunity seldom knocks twice. Looking at him once your chance has past and living with "what if"....


In my experience, "focusing on myself" is usually something people say to avoid admitting they are afraid.

Hmmmmm. You speak truth Bad_mojo. Eyes on your own paper.

[txman123]

JJ, I have to put my two cents in again, you are such a sweetheart.
Do this, close your eyes, count to 10, open eyes, walk up to the edge.
Look straight out, then look up to the sky, then look down to the water.
You'll either say 'fuck it, I'm jumping' and you'll leap as far out as you can, or
you'll say 'no, not today' and walk away. It's all metaphor, but you get it.

[Hercules]

Well first of all I would not ask for RW relationship advice on THIS site.

But since ya did. Go for it. Don't want to end up asking yourself "what if" down the road.

[Jessica Jade]

Well one thing I have found about this through many PMs to me is that there are a lot of hobbyist that have been married providers. I knew it happen but good God it's happening a lot. That being said, I have a lot of things on my plate to look forward to and to work towards that I need to focus on. But I appreciate every single one of you guys' advice and comments. Thanks again

[butterfryman]

UNLESS......you're desperate....

If you have to ask here (umm...nobody here has met the guy) then the answer is NO

*stalker humor is fine....but maybe best to always keep in mind...those same thoughts were (more than once) said about Ted Bundy.....

[Jessica Jade]

Originally Posted by butterfryman

UNLESS......you're desperate....

If you have to ask here (umm...nobody here has met the guy) then the answer is NO

*stalker humor is fine....but maybe best to always keep in mind...those same thoughts were (more than once) said about Ted Bundy.....

Read my last post. Thanks