Unanswered PM's?

[blk07lac]

What should a guy do if he sends a couple PM's to a lady and has not received any kind of reply? Do you take it as being ignored or what?

[i'va biggen]

Check and see if they have been read first.

[Guest013121]

I sometimes get pm's that I do ignore. This one guy keeps sending me pm's telling me to visit his state. I've never been there and so its not likely that I ever will. And he sends the same pm to me every few weeks. Messages like that, I ignore. I usually try to answer most of my pm's, even if just for conversation. So, it's likely that she may be ignoring you or she may not check her pm's that often.

[blk07lac]

They haven't been read and it's been a couple weeks.

[Nia Baby]

She may be busy

[algrace]

If there's a number you found during your pre-contact research, call her. Most providers find a man's voice and tone helpful in screening.

[DestinyInKC]

Did you check to see if she has logged on since you sent those pm's? It is possible that she does not log on often and prefers a different method of contact, like email or something.

I know I do my best to respond to all PM's, but sometimes there are so many it is a little hard to keep up or every once in awhile I forget who I have responded to already.

[algrace]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

I sometimes get pm's that I do ignore. This one guy keeps sending me pm's telling me to visit his state. I've never been there and so its not likely that I ever will. And he sends the same pm to me every few weeks. Messages like that, I ignore. I usually try to answer most of my pm's, even if just for conversation. So, it's likely that she may be ignoring you or she may not check her pm's that often.

Must be that the out-of-stater really wants you to visit, and hasn't been told "No" directly. From what I've read, I thought Ms. Gemma would be more direct in such a situation.