(S)expectations?

[BabyDallass]

What are your S-expectations with a provider that you see? Name all the pluses and minuses about a date...

[Hogfan69]

1. Be on time or give plenty of notice if that can't happen
2 Be clean and have a clean incall
3 BBBJ and at least light kissing
4 Be upbeat and friendly. I don't care about your drama with other people
5. No unexpected visitors.

[Worldtravler]

I like them well dressed smell good nice matching bra and panties no panties is a plus. Make up done. Prefer girls with a nice Rack no problems with MM it's a plus and ones with nice perky ones that might not need a bra. On time answers PM'S in a timely matter. BBBJ is prefer not into DATY just not my thing. I'm a pretty straight forward kind of guy not into any weird shit.

[seemslucky]

First, a comfortable environment. Including a safe, clean location and no unexpected people. Of courses, the girl in the pictures. Activities would include lfk, dfk, daty, bbbj, mpcfs. Like most I like cim to be an option. Also, don't want to feel i'm being moved from one activity to another like a timed routine. As far as attire i'm a big fan of lingerie and sexy panties. Most important is the "illusion" of passion. I know it's a business but it's nice to pretend you're really glad it's me who called. I think the minus column is pretty much whatever isn't this.

[Guest042514]

I look for the true gfe .. bbbj, daty, lfk,dfk....I can deal with cbj some. The minus when kissing the provider kisses like she's kissing her brother or sister with little pecks and she calls it gfe

[traveller501]

Originally Posted by dmaxskin

I look for the true gfe .. bbbj, daty, lfk,dfk....I can deal with cbj some. The minus when kissing the provider kisses like she's kissing her brother or sister with little pecks and she calls it gfe

+1

Other minuses is the phone going off during my visit; being on vibrate isn't good enough. Put the phone on silent please.

[firststick]

LFK is like a push back to me. I always ask before the date.

Be my illusion and I am a happy old soldier.

[BabyDallass]

What I (S)expect is somebody on time who is is clean & fresh. Well groomed below, smells good. I love the smell of men cologne on a man! Huge turn on I'm not picky On the way a man dresses (since its all coming off anyways) I like a man who knows what he wants and likes to take charge sometimes. I also love a man who can make me CUM, leg shaking, bed wetting CUM! Oh, and I love for a man to suck,kiss,grab and put his head all in my boobs! Feels wonderful!!!

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I also love a man who can make me CUM, leg shaking, bed wetting CUM! Oh, and I love for a man to suck,kiss,grab and put his head all in my boobs! Feels wonderful!!!

Dammit girl. I'll make sure I over do it with the cologne just joking

[ramblinman69]

Originally Posted by Worldtravler

Dammit girl. I'll make sure I over do it with the cologne just joking

I think I'm going to over do it with everything with this lass worldtraveler. My goodness! I'm not joking

[BabyDallass]

& ill be ready for both of y'all! I like over doers

[SnprEli]

When I have a date with a provider, I don't want to feel rushed. I would never expect to get more than I am willing to compensate for. Its just not my way. Also, I look to feel connected more than anything. Part of the reason I hobby is because in the "real world," I have not been able to find the type of connection I want. When intimate, I try to be attentive and I want my partners to enjoy the experience as much as possible. I do not shy from guidance. It can only make me better and help improve my own satisfaction. I want experiences where we talk like friends (even though we may not yet be nor likely never will be). I'm a thinker and I enjoy the journey.

I expect providers to return PM's, texts, emails, calls, or whatever form of communication they prefer in a timely manner and to show up. I prefer on time, but showing up at all would be wonderful. I don't want to burn any bridges because I'm still interested in potentially meeting the providers, but I've been stood up several times and that is a pain in the hind parts. I will always shower before and after a date because I want to be clean for my providers and a nice, hot shower after is icing on the cake to relax from all the adrenaline, endorphins, and oxytocin released during and after a date. In my ultimate fantasy, the lady would take a shower with me after, but it isn't a necessity. So in short, I try to be as clean as possible and I expect my date to be as well.

I generally prefer a private outcall to my residence because I'm more comfortable that way, but I understand that some ladies are hesitant for security reasons and I respect that. I guess to provide a shorter answer of what I like to do, I would have to say that DATY is a must but everything else is fair game. I like having the girl-friend experience meshed with a sensual porn-star experience. I had a wild youth and early adulthood while traveling the globe with the USMC and sometimes I miss experiences I had in my previous relationships. As I've gotten older, my relationships have been stagnant because partners were prudes who did not like discussing sex and were uncomfortable experimenting. But I'm a dirty, dirty boy who enjoys watching others together, being watched, being adored, and worshiping the body, mind, heart, and soul of my partners. But I can't seem to find that reciprocated. I expect to be worshipped and taken care of as fervently as I do my partner. I expect to relaxed, conversed with, humored, encouraged, and I want to feel adored.

I respect every provider I chose to spend time with and I expect the same in return. I understand that your time is valuable and you likely see many others, but I want to treat you as a special person in my life (even if for one hour) and I want to feel special as well. I may have some interests that some could consider disrespectful, but I respect and admire someone who shows me care and affection enough to indulge my fantasy. In turn, I really enjoy pleasing my partner as much as being pleased myself. I want to make her fantasy a reality as well.

I like all body types by I prefer what I think everyone seems to call a spinner, I guess. I like small, petite ladies with small, petite breasts and everything else. I like to be gentle and to thrash in equal measure. I admit that I'm not in the best of shape, in fact, my shape right now is round and that pains my pride. However, I'm not in a position to change that very quickly and I expect my provider to be ok with a somewhat fluffy/rotund, though not DAMN!!! man who still has a lot of gusty. (bonus points for getting the reference)

To use some anagrams, my favorite activities are bbbj, daty, fs in multiple/any position with msog, and cim (I try to make it taste better by drinking yummy juices, but don't know if it really works). However, none of those are necessities, but I mostly prefer being able to daty.

What I would really like is to find one provider to have a long-term, repeat "business" relationship with who really gets me and enjoys my company. I'm probably crazy in longing for this, but I would love to find a provider who I click with that would actually hang out for discrete but non-hobby activities when between clients, but then I run the risk of hearing "get a girlfriend". That isn't what I mean. I mean someone to just be friends with who just so happens to get paid by me to F*#K every now and then.

Ok. So I know that was long, but I just felt like typing away today.

[MrHappy4u]

Thanks for a very well thought out and crafted response, snprEli. I'll add a hearty +1

I suspect you are not the only one who expects what you so eloquently stated. Sounds like what the hobby in AR was several years ago. I miss those days . . .