laloverboy,
Try visiting a provider that is newbie friendly to help build up your references. I think we all go thru this first starting out in the hobby. I remember back when I wanted to see a certain provider but had to build up my references first. Once I contacted her with my references it wasn't a problem. Getting on P411 also helps as some girls will use it as a quick references. It doesn't hurt to have a board presence with some reviews backing you. Happy hunting and it is also fun getting those references
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Rrabbit6926