I think tgirls should have to post their ads on a different board

[Spacemtn]

Originally Posted by Bobave

What the hell is it with guys attacking people's masculinity/preference who say something they disagree with? Since you and NipLover have gotten away with it, I'll push the envelope too and call *you* a homo. If I hear anything from a mod about it, I'm taking it to the owners - either it's okay or it's not (for the record, I don't think it should be, but if some people get to sling mud, we all do).

First, let's remember that the Mods are unpaid volunteers with RW lives outside of this board and we are not here 24/7 at everyone's beck and call.

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Third, if you are going to be such a stickler for the posting guidelines and their "enforcement" then perhaps you should observe a few yourself, such as:
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and:
#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.

Your continual public criticism of the local Staff is unwarranted and as seen above is a breach of out posting guidelines. We appreciate the help that we get from all of our members, yourself included. Have you ever considered volunteering???

Spacemtn
AustinModStaff

[Bobave]

Originally Posted by Spacemtn

First, let's remember that the Mods are unpaid volunteers with RW lives outside of this board and we are not here 24/7 at everyone's beck and call.

Second, you have no idea if the issues you have brought up are addressed or not because we do not discuss disciplinary measures with anyone other than the person involved as a matter of course.

Third, if you are going to be such a stickler for the posting guidelines and their "enforcement" then perhaps you should observe a few yourself, such as:
#6 - Respect the topics presented by those who start a thread. Attempts to derail a thread or change it's direction is referred to as thread hijack and will be discouraged. Attempts to guide a thread in the right direction are appreciated, while responses to posts which hijack a thread are not.

and:
#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.

Your continual public criticism of the local Staff is unwarranted and as seen above is a breach of out posting guidelines. We appreciate the help that we get from all of our members, yourself included. Have you ever considered volunteering???

Spacemtn
AustinModStaff

Wow, when it's Sixx or your ox getting gored it sure gets a response and quickly. LOL, come on man, lighten up, I was just asking for consistency. As for whether I've considered volunteering, I have actually. Please consider this my statement of willingness to enlist for the cause.

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by hookem420

I feel like tgirls should not be allowed to post their ads with the regular provider ads. Their ads are usually very deceptive, rarely mention up front that the person is a tgirl and seem like they are trying to trick straight men into seeing tgirls they don't want to. I'm sure a male escort would not be able to post ads there so I'm not sure why tgirls are allowed. Give them a separate place to post their ads so that they can cater their ads to people who actually want to see them and guys who are into that sort of thing have a place to go find it.

OK, you feel very strongly about this. I can accept that. The part that is difficult to accept is your post sends up a big red censorship flag. It's an internet board and to some degree boards are like the wild west. It's catering to a large audience with a very wide range of tastes. You are going to run across things you don't like, understand, or feel comfortable with. Everyone has personal boundaries and that's fine but your personal boundaries and others may not be the same and it isn't fair to impose your boundaries on others and vice versa. Part of freedom is tolerance of those different from you, and a certain thickness of skin doesn't hurt either. If you feel assaulted by merely viewing an ad this might not be the best place to read the ads. After all, ECCIE is the Escort Client Community Information Exchange. It's not FECCIE or GFECCIE (Genetically Female - in case you were wondering).

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by Bobave

What the hell is it with guys attacking people's masculinity/preference who say something they disagree with? Since you and NipLover have gotten away with it, I'll push the envelope too and call *you* a homo. If I hear anything from a mod about it, I'm taking it to the owners - either it's okay or it's not (for the record, I don't think it should be, but if some people get to sling mud, we all do).

Thanks,

It's a big step up from Neanderthal which is what I usually get.

I would like to announce, I am now recognized as a homosapien.

[Spacemtn]

Originally Posted by Bobave

Wow, when it's Sixx or your ox getting gored it sure gets a response and quickly. LOL, come on man, lighten up, I was just asking for consistency. As for whether I've considered volunteering, I have actually. Please consider this my statement of willingness to enlist for the cause.

It just so happens I had logged in and saw your RTM's so I looked at the entire thread. You pointed the way, but I dealt with the posts that you RTM'd before my post.

Be careful asking for consistency. Consistency would mean enforcing every guideline every time. If we did that, there would be no members here to post.

I will forward your name up the ladder for consideration.

Spacemtn

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Bobave

If I hear anything from a mod about it, I'm taking it to the owners

Sounds like a statement a kid would make. P.S. You are free to contact the owners anytime you want. I stand behind my actions taken in this thread. NipLover didn't use the word "homo" in his post, you did. I do believe Nip was joking around with his comment.

Originally Posted by Bobave

As for whether I've considered volunteering, I have actually. Please consider this my statement of willingness to enlist for the cause.

I don't know man with comments like that........

sixx

[onei]

Originally Posted by Spacemtn

Be careful asking for consistency. Consistency would mean enforcing every guideline every time. If we did that, there would be no members here to post.

Spacemtn

Ok, now that's funny!

[shayla84]

Hmmmmm, the question is. Did you get a boner when you saw her and then lost it when you found out? And that's when you got mad cause you stated it was a mood killer, but you never stated when you lost the boner!! Lol, sounds like you screamed no while your body screamed Yessssss! ijs

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

If TS ads are separate, then all of us should be categorized. TS, BBW, curvy, spinner, <25, 25-39, >40, long hair, short hair, ink, no ink, piercings, girls that SL has SLAMDANGO'd (their ads would have to show the t-shirt), etc. Where does it end? Then how many guys would get pissed off because girls were posting in multiple categories? Dammit, she's everywhere!

Sure, we could be categorized. Or here's a thought: get the fuck over it. Just because you clicked on an unlabeled TS and were attracted to her pictures doesn't make you any less of a heterosexual man. Sheezus.

Don't act like its the same thing at all. A bbw and a spinner both have tits and a pussy. There should only be two catagories: born with penis and born with vagina.

And no I was not attracted the picture was gross. And yes if I was atracted that would make me less heterosexual because as Austin powers says, that's a man baby, yeah.

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

One way to avoid that is read the text BEFORE you look at the pics..if you can

Impossible

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

It is the same thing, to the eyes of the beholder. For you, saying the penis on the body of a woman takes you completely out of the mood. For others seeing somebody who is overweight or obese or even grotesque in their eyes takes them completely out of the mood. And even for others if they see a picture of a woman who was old, it takes them completely out of the mood.

Lea

That is ridiculous there is a huge difference between those two things. I think it's funny that women are the only ones who think a transsexual is the same as a fat or old girl. It's kind of insulting to fat girls, old girls, and transexuals.

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by shayla84

Hmmmmm, the question is. Did you get a boner when you saw her and then lost it when you found out? And that's when you got mad cause you stated it was a mood killer, but you never stated when you lost the boner!! Lol, sounds like you screamed no while your body screamed Yessssss! ijs

Where the fuck do you get off calling me gay? I'm the one who was offended by the ad and now I'm the one offended by you and several other girls accusing me of being interested in transexuals. The fucking nerve. I didn't make any fucking personal attacks toward you. If you need a blow by blow rundown of the events here it goes.

I woke up horny and decided I had some money to spend. I began browsing ads which of course made me hornier because some of you ladies are quite lovely. I was even texting one girl but decided to keep browsing because she asked me for a ride somewhere and I didn't want to get tied up in all that. I clicked on an ad expecting to see another lovely female named Josie. What I saw disgusted me and I immediately logged off having lost my sexual desire for the day. No it didn't actually kill my boner because I wasn't just sitting here jacking off it takes a little more than pictures to get me aroused the phrase boner killer just refers to how it completely took me out of the mood.

[JohnnyYanks]

"Jerry, I think it moved. I think it MOVED!"

[Julissa Couture]

Well male or female, like i told the nice guy who messaged me saying my name was similar to "Joise's" so i should be sure people knew i was 100% woman... that TS is beautiful!!! I know many girls who are not as pretty as him! I would love to have his/her look! You go girl!

[Austins1hobby]

Wow!!! A simple question that was a great topic turns into name calling and disrespectful content. It just goes to show guys see pics first read NEVER lol jk but it's very simple read right after looking at the ads and like someone said before do your research. I do feel some ppl need to watch the level of name calling and disrespect giving to these awesome ladies. We all know some ladies can be bitchy and some guys can be assholes but name calling just because and you don't know them is very childish!!


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