Advice with Utr LMT

[Pootytang]

If she works right past it and does not comment on it what makes you so "convinced" there is a massage+ opportunity? Sounds like she has figured out that you're going to keep coming back even if she does not touch it. Man I'd be embarrassed to get wood from just a straight massage session only to have to pack up your junk at the end of the session with no release. How many times have you done that?

[pyro]

If she is strickly a LMT then she fears losing her license. But since you say she is an UTR LMT I'd say its worth a shot don't you? Simply ask if any extras are available. Wanna up your average? Show up near the end of the month when rent is due. Spiffing up certainly doesn't hurt. Suit up like your seeing your ATF just in case.

jmho

Py

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by boardman

Why? He hasn't given any info that would even remotely identify her.

So far, I agree. But that is "so far"!

If he doesn't know how to entice her to finish the massage, then he may not know how to find the rules and comprehend them on LMT's.

If she starts putting out .... don't tell about it.

Folks learned that in the gold rush days.

[saminspring]

Amelia and lexuslover I think you've both offered sound reasoning and advice. Number one fact is she's an LMT and this is her business that I doubt she wants to risk losing. With that said, I'd suspect that maybe she has the occasional regular that gets the L1 only after developing a strong comfort level. I think my only expectation should be to continue therapeutic and if the moment seems right to then inquire.

[pyro]

Yeah your right... give it a year or so... be sure to tip generously and be a perfect gentleman. Oh and detail how you wore her down and bent her to your will. Or you could go with one of our highly reviewed H-town gals, who is a sure thing I might add. But I understand... you are in love. Don't say I told you so and please resist the urge to finally reveal her name and review her giving her a no recommendation calling her a tease. Or you could TOFTT but I know that would be awkward.

I'm just sayin'

[gearslut]

Just do it man.... It's better to regret something you have done than something you haven't done. Well probably not in the hobby world but nevertheless. What's the absolute worst thing that could happen? She slaps your face and tells you to never come back. There's probably at least a few other LMT in town that do acceptable work. It's a yes or no situation which means you have a 50% percent chance of getting your dream to come true. Or maybe she goes all Lorena Bobitt on you which would suck but either way you'll have a great story to tell.

[blowpop]

Originally Posted by tbone77494

Yes. That would be your final interaction. These things are most successful when you have cash and an erection at precisely the same moment she has an overdue bill. If you are a repeat customer she is just doing a little extra for a tip. If you set a date for sex via the phone she is a hooker. The finesse part is having her do it for cash without her perceiving herself as a whore.

The "not perceiving herself as a whore" part can be absolutely critical with LMTs. I've had more than one turn down an additional tip the first time extras happened, just asking that I "come back soon" with a smile.

Each LMT has her own motivations for providing (or not providing) extras. If you tread lightly and don't make her feel degraded, you could very well find yourself a new ATF.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by blowpop

..... If you tread lightly and don't make her feel degraded,........

Right there op....don't miss that one.

One way to degrade her is ask her about it on the phone.

You play it right....you might not even increase your tip....just go more frequently.

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["BoB"]

Originally Posted by Amelia Sterling

If she's working around it without drawing attention to it or acknowledging it in any way, she likely does NOT want to provide that service. Attempting to press the issue could cause you to ruin an excellent therapeutic relationship. Re-examine your priorities. There are plenty of ladies who are willing to whore themselves out; there's no need to make your LMT feel uncomfortable by assuming she's one of them.

This is very good advice.....It has been my experience that the best massage comes from the ladies that are in the therapeutic massage bidness. Post up their license, don't wear sexy outfits, and do not give any hint of their ever being extras on the table............If you want a therapuetic massage see a professional that is in the business of giving one. If you are after something different, then there are lots of ladies that provide services in that area as well, but don't go looking for the top shelf massage, you will often be dissapointed. Finding someone who is the best of both worlds does not happen very often.

"BoB"......just dropping in for a minute today....it has been awhile

[ackvt]

Sounds like he wishes she was UTR but is really a LMT. If she's not getting the hint when she sees you with a boner then she's just not interested in providing that service. Have you ever heard of her providing level 1 to anyone?

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by ackvt

... If she's not getting the hint when she sees you with a boner ......

...may be she doesn't realize it's a boner. There is that variable.

[blowpop]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Right there op....don't miss that one.

One way to degrade her is ask her about it on the phone.

You play it right....you might not even increase your tip....just go more frequently.

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I can see that this isn't your first rodeo.

Playing with LMTs is very different than playing with other providers. Those who treat LMTs like providers will miss out on a whole bunch of fun. Those who learn to handle the different situation will have a lot of fun in store for very reasonable rates. The exact opposite of the dreaded GPS which can take all the fun out of seeing many providers.

["BoB"]

Originally Posted by blowpop

I can see that this isn't your first rodeo.

Playing with LMTs is very different than playing with other providers. Those who treat LMTs like providers will miss out on a whole bunch of fun. Those who learn to handle the different situation will have a lot of fun in store for very reasonable rates. The exact opposite of the dreaded GPS which can take all the fun out of seeing many providers.

IT is quite different indeed......Taking things easy and just letting them develop, or not, on their own. I visited one lady several years back and it took six times before I was pleasantly surprised one day.

Her massages were over the top good, she looked great, was very nice and I was actually going for real massage work on pulled muscles in my lower back...She helped with stretching, pain and rehab.....Then one day, there was a hand grabbing little bob ....This was completely her decision....And....As a gentleman, I graciously accepted. She called it a "lttle laniape"

I never pushed or suggested anything. I did not tell anyone else about her either since she worked in a pretty nice, fully licensed spa, in an upscale neighborhood that catered primarily to folks that needed physical rehab.

Lastly, and I wont harp on this anymore, if the lady is licensed the last thing one should do is talk about what she may or may not be doing in a forum such as this. There is a reason that there is a policy on this board that prohibits postings about LMT's. I am not suggesting that this is being done by anyone commenting on this particular thread...Just putting it up for general consumption.

"BoB"